gf mina | headcanons
warning: nsfw content (+18), men and minors dni
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mina is synonym of elegance, serenity and beauty. being by her side feels like watching the waves crashing on the shore when the sea is calm during a sunset.
she is shy with a serious appearance and elegant, controlled mannerisms, all of which together can give an impression of her that is far from reality.
she is a quiet person, she demonstrates more through her actions than with her words. but if it’s something she’s passionate about you can hear her talk for long.
when she is ready and voices what she thinks or how she feels, she does it just as she is, calmly and elegantly. even when she demands something it doesn’t sound like it and you just feel the need to listen to her.
she's not oblivious to the effect she has on people and especially on you, she will demand your attention in subtle but effective ways. she knows what makes you weak.
your first impression of her is that she was sexy but cold and mysterious, it turns out she is the definition of “loser trapped in a hot girl's body”.
she's a nerd. she loves video games, knows the names of too many pokémon, watches superhero movies, recreates poses of anime characters and builds legos that she then puts in display cases.
when you started going on dates you noticed she seemed too focused on something and you felt something was off. turns out she was a bit self conscious of her walking.
time passed and soon enough she stopped hiding her penguin like walking around you.
her love language is gift giving, but also acts of service.
you do whatever she asks (or commands), but she is always there for whatever you need. whether it's to help you, to be by your side or to do it for you.
she isn’t a romantic person, although she does romantic things. expect to receive bouquets of your favorite flowers, stuffed animals, the snacks you like the most, something she has crocheted or made.
for your birthdays, anniversaries or valentine's day she won't post anything on social media or do anything that other people can see. you like to celebrate things privately.
mina's favorite dates are the ones that include going to a nice restaurant, a bakery shop, eating ice cream or trying new food. no matter what you do, food is a must.
when you don't stay home with a nice wine, home-cooked meal or take out to watch a movie or play video games you enjoy quiet dates.
you go to the movies, go to a museum, the aquarium, botanical garden or shopping so she can indulge in her hobbies.
when you go shopping together she stuns you when she tries on clothes and the next minute she's dragging you through the whole store to show you a minecraft tshirt.
the gifts mina gives you are things you like and will use. if she gives you jewelry it's nice, but also something you can wear in your everyday activities. and another day she might give you an overpriced toaster in your favorite color.
mina is the kind of person you have to take care of and make sure she eats on time and drinks water. if she has a new game or building a big lego set, you have to remind her to take breaks and go to bed.
she is a homebody and sometimes you have to drag her out of her home but a promise to grab some food and a few kisses will do the trick.
when situations in her life, work or your relationship overwhelm her, her way of dealing with it is to walk away.
she is learning to count on you and understand that she is not a bother, but it can be hard to break out of old habits.
mina is a private person. she won't say she loves you out loud or kiss you in public. instead she gives you affection in subtle ways to let you know she is there for you.
she follows you with her eyes, feeds you, slides her hands between yours, places her hand on your thigh, or keeps her hand on your lower back while you talk.
she sometimes gets overwhelmed in big crowds or when meeting new people, when this happens she clings onto you.
she is not jealous at all, she is very confident in herself and also in you. she knows she has you hooked.
in private she's all over you. she’s really affectionate and touchy once she lets herself go, sometimes she sits on your lap while she plays or will ask you to straddle her while she’s gaming on the computer.
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once again her calmness and quietness may give you the wrong impression of her. mina is not innocent at all, it didn't take you long to realize it.
sex with her is passionate, intimate and fun, but also dirty and rough. behind closed doors you get to see the less elegant, soft and collected version of mina.
mina gives herself to you whether she is in control or not. and you have no choice but to give her everything she needs, no matter if she begs for it or demands it.
to put it in another way, mina bottoms most of the time.
she knows how hot she is and she knows she has you wrapped around her finger. she knows exactly what words to use and how to touch you to get exactly what she wants from you.
she's a tease. it doesn't matter if you're in public or private because she'll find the way.
her gestures, her touches or the way she looks at you may go unnoticed by others, but you know perfectly well the intentions behind them, however subtle they may be.
when you’re at home she wears obscenely short clothes, she purposely raises her arms until her t-shirt slides up showing her abs or bends over to give you a perfect view of her ass.
she enjoys teasing you but it’s even easier to tease her since she’s horny most of the time. a look, a few words and a suggestive gesture would have her blushing, looking avoiding your eyes and squeezing her thighs together.
you let her misbehave all she wants because it's not like you can punish her. she loves to be spanked, being edged or whatever you come up with.
she will use pet names rather than titles with you (unless you tell her). however, if you use them with her, especially the ones she has taught you in japanese, she becomes putty in your hands
mina is kinky, a freak, a pervert… you name it. she has so many kinks that you’re still finding out and she’s willing to try so many things. that includes bdsm dynamics
once you called her a pervert to tease her but it just turned her on.
she’s both into praising and degradation, she can’t help it when she just loves getting any type of attention from you.
she enjoys degradation, humiliation and sadism. for these she enjoys being the receiving end more but when she's in a certain mood she doesn't hesitate to inflict it.
she also enjoys bondage, impact play, temperature/sensation play and wax play among others.
she likes to try new positions and take advantage of her flexibility but nothing compares to having you eating her out while she plays.
she has a staring problem, she can't take her eyes off you, your chest or any exposed skin. you don't miss the opportunity to remind her “my eyes are higher up” just to see her reaction.
this does not only happen with you, but also with other people. that's why she doesn’t get jealous even though she's possessive. truly she also gets turned on by the idea of you catching her.
to be fair, years of doing ballet makes you notice other women too much and it's not even a sexual thing, unlike her oral fixation.
you have no complaints when she puts her oral fixation to good use whether it's with your breasts, putting her between your legs or making her suck the strap.
you can expect anything from her. one day she's wearing a beautiful lingerie set to surprise you and the next day you pull her pants down and find some minecraft boxers
mina has a collection of sex toys that she loves you to use on her, most of them she also uses by herself. dildos, vibrators, whips, paddles, handcuffs, plugs, ropes...this does not only happen with you, but also with other people.
she orders them online but she made an exception of going to a specialized store to get you a leather collar with your name engraved in a silver tag.
mina is always quiet, so during sex it's not much different as long as she's in a more submissive and needy headspace. she'll let out the most adorable breathy moans and whimpers. but if she’s being dominant... she will talk you through it, guide you and bossing you around
it can get rough when she asks for it. in these cases she is the one who needs the most aftercare, but even then she asks you if you are ok and makes you know that she enjoyed it. during the whole aftercare process, she gets shy and hides in the crook of your neck.
