robert who goes as flambae's plus one to some SDN event but he just goes as robert and he sits there and watches flambae get his picture taken and get interviewed and whatever else and thats fine .

Talk to a professional.

This entire incident has made him realize this is way above what Bruce can handle- they need professional help before he fucks up more.

He started considering it when he and Dick started arguing but he didn't and look where he is now.

But the problem hasn't changed, though: they can't go because their problems are so deeply intertwined with their vigilante life. The Wayne's those are the masks so they can't seek a professional opinion as the Waynes.

But he can't let this fester so there is only one solution: go to a family therapist in costume.

Anyways imagine the look on the therapist's face when the fucking BATMAN and breaks into their office at fuck off a clock holding a crime lord like a misbehaving kitten and asks for a session.