who is dom, switch, or a sub? (f4 edition)
note: this is my opinion!!
dom: daoming si, ximen yan
switch: feng meizuo, huaze lei
daoming si: he just has this hard dom vibe to him and the way he acts is just !!!!! obvious dominant vibes. honestly, if you were dating si, he would never let you dom. no matter how much begging you do there is no way he will let you dom. seeing you submit to him makes him go crazy and he just loves seeing you squirm and get so shy. i dont think he would be able to live with knowing you had taken the dominant role before, so tbh ??? yeah. also i think he has a soft dom side. he will never show it to anyone else but you but hell yeah he has a soft side. he is one hell of a teaser like seriously. if you try to do something bold or bratty, he will quickly shut it down. this man is possessive so if you ever tried to make him jealous, you are in for it. note: he is all for degradation, will give you praises once in a while. especially during aftercare. (ex: āyouāre such a good girl/boy for meā)
ximen yan: okay, this child is crazy. he radiates dominant vibes too and i think it would take a bit of convincing for you to dom him but heāll let it happen at some point. he lives off of you being whiny and so needy, itās practically his drug. he will get addicted to you being submissive. heās also a teaser, like i can see it. he is the type to eye fuck you in public especially if you are wearing something revealing. also i think heās an ass man (dont ask) but he would love gripping your ass almost anywhere. if this man becomes a sub for you, he probably would be a bit whiny. also he will definitely be the ultimate brat. honestly i cant picture him submissive but he probably has that sub bone in him somewhere. definitely radiates a bit more hard dom ?? but he is a soft dom 99.9% of the time. note: more degradation but also praises. (ex: āgod, how do you look so beautiful even after i ruined you?ā)
feng meizuo: okay hear me out. SOFT. DOM. TYPE. BEAT. he will be completely gentle with you and make sure that youāre comfortable and safe at all times. not saying the others will do horrible after care, but his is like second best most likely. heās just so so so freaking cute. he will have his hard dom times (very rare) but soft dom is more him. i say if you tease him in public, he will deal with it at home. i cant really see him doing anything remotely sexual outside of the bedroom. if you guys ever got caught, he knows f3 will mention almost everyday (especially daoming si) and he isnāt built for that type of embarrassment. if you dont mind, he would love if his sex life stayed indoors. being a sub, he would be so freaking vocal. he would 100% let you know that youāre making him feel good. if you told him to be quiet, that would be nearly impossible. note: lots of praises, doesnāt know if he would live degrading you so much. (ex: āi love you so much, pretty girl/boyā)
huaze lei: last but not least, MY FREAKING BABY. number one in aftercare definitely. he is such a sweetheart and so soft. will definitely let you dom him, but he wonāt let you know with words. might just pull you into the bed with him and pat his lap gently. if youāre the type of dom (or switch) that would rather hear the sub speak of what they want, he might just whine loudly if you keep telling him to speak. he would be so squirmy, itās cute. now he wouldnāt openly admit that he likes being put in his place but he does. now let me give you something right here: when i tell you, this man is the literal definition of a switch, HE IS. like this man can flip a switch inside of him so fast. it just depends on the mood. you can be on top and dirty talking to him or whatever until he flips you over so fast and starts kissing your neck and biting it, you cant stop it. he is lowkey a teaser too like oh my god ??? and he has his moments where he gets so cocky. note: praises. loves praising you, might slip out a backhanded degradation line if he wants to or if you ask. (ex: āsuch a dirty girl/boy, hm? wonder if you can get any dirterā)