Erotica & pornography is not sex ed.
The purpose of erotica & pornography is titillating & thrilling the audience, not teaching them how they should/shouldn’t have sex or relationships.
So if anyone is getting their ideas about what healthy/safe sex/relationships are or should be like from the fictional situations in a piece of erotica, they are operating under a fundamental misunderstanding of the purpose of the art they are enjoying. This is user error.
And on the flip side, if you judge a piece of erotic media for depicting dark/unsafe/unhealthy relationship dynamics without the author turning to the audience & telling them “this is bad” within the work, you are conceding that erotic art is supposed to act as sex ed by judging it on how well it does or does not accomplish it.














