#meaningoflove

"How is love different from passion or sexual desire?"

Love isn't just being enthralled by someone. It isn't just the urge to touch them. Love is absolutely not lust. Love can entail all of these things. These can be done while loving, but it isn't love.

Love is intimacy; it's how you can feel comfortable with someone through being there with them. You love someone because you can be with them in a closeness. Not even physically. Closeness as in your personalities; your souls if you will. You can feel connected with someone so much so that it's love.

Love is also trust. You can trust the person you love to be with you in life. You can trust the person you love to make you feel good whenever you are with them. You trust the person you love to understand your flaws and to accept who you are.

Love is to care. When you love someone you would never want to see them in pain. You'd want to cheer them up, give them gifts, or hugs, or compliments, or your time, or you can do things for them. You show you care because you love someone.

The expression of Love: Rumi and Shams-i-tabrizi

Many argue about the true relationship of Rumi with Shams of Tabriz, but do we really talk about it? Mevlânâ Jalāl ad-Dīn Mohammad Balkhī, known widely as Rumi, was born in the early 1200s in either Balkh or Wakhsh, current-day Afghanistan and Tajikistan, respectively. Rumi was and is concerned as one of the greatest poets, but if we hadn’t met Shams of Tabriz, we wouldn’t know him as the one.…

These few days, I met new friend who keep asking me about “Love”

He asked “what is Love means to you?” “how did you know when you were in Love?” ... and so many things about it Actually, I’m so dumb with Love.

All I know about Love is when I feel like, I want to be with someone for a long time 

But then, I wondering, is it Love? or obsessions?

I keep wondering until I heard this song 

    Lauv - Till You Miss Someone love is a dream

they try to sell you in magazines

but you never really know what it means till you miss someone

...

wait,

these phrases make me think again...

love is just a simple thing then

as simple as when you miss someone, it means that you love them.

and, love is so universal. 

it could be your family, best-friend, a lover, your pet/s, books that you love to read, a delicious food or anything else.

you can say it out loud! be brave, and be proud because you can feel this pretty word called “Love”

So, for all you guys who keep wondering  “Do I love him/her?”  “Is it love that I felt to him/her?”

Go check it first: “do you miss him/her so bad?”

If YES is the answer, then you can just simply tell them, that you miss them!

It’s okay to love someone, even when it comes to “one-sided love”

It means that you are brave enough to love someone, and you have that pure heart!