#matchup 1

Soooo I’ve never got my own matchup so I’m veeeery excited to read who u gonna match me up with x3

Somehow I wrote much more than I expected to write and I’m so so sorry for that!

About my look, I’m 5'8 I have long dirty blond hair and blue/green eyes and I’m chubby but I also have muscles but you can’t see them cause I always wear baggy clothes + people always assume I’m underage (I’m not lol)

But back to the important informations.

I’m an introvert but warm up to people pretty quick, well, like at least I can talk to them but there’s still this uneasy feeling running trough every single fiber of my body.

I don’t really mind crowds but if I can avoid them I do + I always keep an eye of my surrounding no matter where, because I’m better be safe than sorry.

I’m very loyal and protective over my friends and family and I would do anything for them.

I also never use the term “goodbye” and only “we see us later” cause I’ve lost someone really important to me and since then I’m terrified of losing another person.

I always make plans for my plans just to be safe that if Plan A,B,C and D doesn’t work that I still have a plan E, F, G- and following …

I only trust my best friend to 100% and even though people always say I trust to easily and that I’m naive don’t know that they are terrible wrong cause in reality I always keep in mind that everyone could betray me.

Most of the time I also try to hide my “bad” feelings like sadness or when I’m scared, especially when I have an anxiety attack because I don’t want people to see me as weak, stupid I know.

I also used to hate myself a lot because of bullying when I was younger but eventually I’ve got over it and found peace with the old me.

Normally I’m pretty calm but tend to get a bit over excited/ hyper active when I’m with my best friend (he’s my safe place)

I also like to mother my friends, because just to care for them makes me happy but on the same side I love to get cared for, and if I feel protected and safe I can let my guard down.

I also can be pretty stupid from time to time, for example I don’t realize if someone’s flirting with me and somehow they always say I flirt with them too, I do not ;-; xD

My love languages are quality time, physical touch, words of affirmation and acts of services. I’m also quite touchy, I like to touch and get touched by people I like and I LOVE cuddles.

(Idk if it’s relevant but I only feel attached to men that seem strong, not in the body way but in their personality, I need someone who’s able to let me feel safe and protected.)

To my hobbies

I love to cook, to listen to music (my fav song is safe and sound by Taylor swift), to swim (I really love the sea 0-0) and play to video games.

Again I’m really really sorry and thank you so much for reading ;-; <33

Hello friend !! I’m super excited to write this for you, especially since you’ve never gotten one before!!! Anyways, I hope you enjoy :D

I match you with….

First matchup ask! Ahh, an introvertlike the rest of us! I feel you, I feel you. I like to kick back andrelax at home as well.                                               Ice BearIce Bear likes spending time athome as well, he has a small group of friends who he considersfamily, is fiercely protective of them, and doesn’t really speakall that much. Now, this might come as a bit of a shock to you,especially since I’ve drawn so many parallels between the two ofyou, but I don’t think he’d be right for you romantically, andhere’s why: Romance requires communication. Ice Bearisn’t a bear of words. His partner would need to be someone whodoes most of the talking. From what you’ve told me about yourself,I feel that upon meeting him for the first time ever, hos stoicismwould intimidate you. You wouldn’t be willing to break past thatinitial barrier because you don’t know who he is, and he’s notone to pry on other people the way Grizz does. And since you’relooking for someone who will talk to you because you love the fewpeople who do talk to you and would like to expand upon your circleof friends, Ice Bear wouldn’t really fit the bill. He’s quiet,and you like talking to people who will reciprocate in a conversation. But that doesn’t mean you can’t be good friends! Not atall, you’re a nice girl, and Ice Bear wants to be surrounded bynice people who won’t hurt his family.

So don’t hurt his family or he’ll hunt you down in your sleep.

                                                    GrizzNow onto Grizz…He’s the antithesis of his icy little brother. He’s loud, andhyper, and bouncy. He will tell you all about his day and ask quickquestions about what you’re doing. He means no harm.However,lets say you don’t know him, and he came up to you and startedasking questions as you were waiting for the bus? You’d beterrified. There’s this big bear behaving much too familiarly withyou and you just want to get home from shopping at the big mall. Yourfriends are sending nervous glances to each other and you want to getoutta there as fast as possible. But seeing the other bears trying tohold him back, the blushing Panda bear for instance, puts you more atease. You quickly realize that he’s not really a threat, just kindaannoying, or endearing, depending on your mood for the day. Youget to know Grizz and he thinks its cool that you’re into Wildlifebiology, and he tells you all about Chloe, the little genius girlthat goes to college and how she could probably help you out withthat stuff. He talks non stop throughout the bus ride home. Youlisten to him prattle on and while you’re no longer worried aboutthis stranger, you can’t help but feel a tad overwhelmed. He tellsyou to hit them up on Facebook so you and your friends can hang outwith them, or just, you know, look up their EveryTube music videochannel. Throughout it all, you listen to him with interest and alittle caution. You’re not used to speaking to this sort of person.You’re not used to being the center of attention, and with all thebus passengers staring at you as he rambles, you most certainlyare.You’re happy to have met him, and you certainlygained a new story to tell your other friends who weren’t there,but are also sorta glad to finally have a moments peace once you step outside the bus. You know that he meant well, and you certainly likehim, but he’s a bit much. You’d like to get to know him and hisbrothers, but with your friends being there. You don’t wanna beleft alone with the big scary man with the loud voice. Overall,Grizz would be a guy who you begin to know over time. He’s anawesome friend. Your withdrawn attitude wouldn’t blend too wellwith his overbearing attitude in a romantic setting since you’d betoo nervous around him. Plus, he’d wanna go to concerts and bigplaces with lots of people. It’d just bring too much stress to you. 

                                                   Panda Now, you know who else likes to relax at home? Panda.Panda loves to sit underneath some cushions and watch his favoriteKorean dramas on Netflix. He’d even give you recommendations hereand there, when he’s not being overshadowed by Grizz or stammeringlike a dork. (He’d be thinking that about himself)You knowwho else doesn’t open up too easily? Panda. Because you see himsitting there looking small, you can’t help but feel more relaxed. He’s a non-threatening, calm presence. You strike up a conversationwith him, and with Grizz leading the whole thing, he begins to openup more and more, and soon you begin to open up more. You and yourfriends learn more about the brothers through Grizz and Panda, withIce Bear giving reinforcing statements here and there. Over time youbegin to form a bond with all three of them, and Panda becomes afriend of yours on a social media website. Over time youtwo share your interests, your hobbies, embarrassing stories whicharen’t completely 100% accurate. (He wants to look cool to impressyou, but he slips up sometimes. You might find them charming orweird) He likes calm settings and has a sensitive attitude.He’d be careful not to upset you and is willing to try new thingsthat you enjoy so he can talk to you more. And here and there, he’dtry to casually date you in a way that seems more like he wants tohang out, so you don’t feel too awkward about it. You might noteven realize he’s doing this until later. He’d try to act suavebut come off as strange. A poorly told joke here, a bad quip there. Anybody who can see what’s going on would cringe. Howyou react to this is up to you. (If you want to talk about somethingelse like something you saw online he’d quickly forget where he wasand act normal again.)