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Your mind is the magnet for your reality! 🧠✨

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Hello lovelies!

Are you ready for Valentine's day? I have been getting ready to spread the love! If you don't yet have that special person in your life, here are my top tips to manifesting your future husband/wife!

1 - Clarify Your Desires

The first step in manifesting your future husband is to gain clarity on what you truly want in a partner. Take some time for introspection and create a list of qualities, values, and characteristics that are important to you in a long-term relationship. Be specific about the qualities that resonate with your heart and align with your life goals. 

2 - Visualise Your Ideal Relationship:

Visualisation is a potent technique for manifestation. Close your eyes and create a vivid mental image of your ideal relationship with your future husband. Picture yourselves enjoying shared experiences, expressing love and support for each other, and navigating life's challenges as a united front. Allow yourself to feel the emotions associated with this vision, as positive emotions can amplify the manifestation process. Some people may struggle with visualising in pictures - if this is the case for you try to focus on hearing the things that you want to hear or on the feeling that you would feel - the most important thing is to get into that heart space. You will know when you’re there because of how good you will feel.

So, you've been doing everything right for the last few weeks, but you still haven't seen results. You're frustrated. You're getting doubtful. You're having some opposing thoughts.

I'm about to tell you why you haven't seen results yet, and no, it's not because you did it wrong.

First, remember that creation is finished and your desire is already done. It already exists. It has already been manifested. All you are doing is bringing it to light by stepping into the version of yourself who has your desire and dream life.

So, If you have been keeping your mental diet, changing your self-concept, and affirming consistently - persisting no matter what, but it's been a few weeks and your desire hasn't conformed yet, there is a very simple reason.

The reason is that, for desires that you have had lots of doubts about in the past, resistance to, focus on, and emotional attachment to, there will likely be a time lag between when you start affirming and persisting, and when it actually comes to fruition in the 3D.

(Now, I don't want to put limiting beliefs on anyone here, because whilst time lags exist, the rate at which your desire manifests ALWAYS ONLY DEPENDS ON YOU! You may be able to very easily let go of resistance and the old story and get your desire overnight. It is definitely possible, and it can definitely happen, so don't be discouraged by this. BUT just keep in mind that time lags are something that do commonly happen when manifesting a seemingly 'big' desire, and I am just explaining it so people don't get discouraged, and start to mentally react and check the 3D.)

Back to the time lag explanation. Why does this happen?

The reason for time lags are that your 3D is a DELAYED REFLECTION of your focuses, dominant thoughts, beliefs, state, etc. The 3D is a reflection of your previous thoughts and beliefs, not your thoughts and beliefs right at this second as you have changed them.

Think about it like this. (Long analogy coming through, but I promise it is worth it!)

You are running a race with your friend. You get a head start and start running, and your friend for some reason starts a few moments later and is running a bit behind you, close, but not caught up with you just yet.

Your aim in this race is to get from point A to point B - the starting line to the finish line. Your friend's aim is to get there too, following you. We all know that in a race, the way to get to the finish line is to push, persist, and keep going, no matter where you are in the race, until you reach the end. You know that in a race, no matter where you currently are, if you keep going, you WILL get to the finish line.

You may start to get tired and face some resistance while you are running and persisting, because you are doing a good job and yes, it can be discouraging to start getting tired, look up and see the finish line, and notice that you are not there yet. BUT, you know that if you keep going, you will get there, even though it 'appears' to be far away right now.

Meanwhile, remember, your friend is still there, following you exactly, but just a bit behind you. If your friend is following your exact direction, then they WILL reach every single point that you have passed, but the only difference is that they will get there a few moments later because they are behind you and just need a few extra moments to catch up to where you once were.

Now, you have endured some resistance and you've gotten tired, but do you give up? No. You keep going, no matter what, and then you finally see that the finish line is only one step away! You're happy and you're feeling good because you have done it! BUT THEN, you look around and you notice that you are the only one there and your friend hasn't made it yet. You turn around and you see that your friend is still running. They are now where you just were a few seconds ago.

Now, this is a race, and you have already made it to the end, you just need to take that final step OVER the finish line to be declared the winner. Your friend is still running to catch up to you and get to the same finish line that you are about to pass. All you have to do is get to the finish line and stay there.

You know that your friend will catch up and get there. The race cannot finish until they get there too, and they will.

But, if you notice they are not there and you decide to stop just before the finish line to wait for your friend to catch up to you, you're friend is going to see you waiting and they too will stop in their tracks. They will be like 'wtf? Why did you stop for me? Don't you have faith that I'll get there too? Go finish the race'. You'll distract your friend, and they will stop their movement too. You will both be stuck in this one spot where neither of you has won the race yet, waiting for the other to keep going, but you are so close.

You realise that stopping and waiting for your friend is just slowing you both down and distracting you both, so you realise that you need to just focus on yourself and where you want to go, pick yourself up, and take those final steps over the finish line in order to get that movement back, and stop distracting your friend from also getting there.

This is the only way you will get there, and you can make all the excuses you want about being distracted by your friend not being there with you yet, but complaining about it is not going to do anything to fix it. You just need to get there yourself and know that they will get there too, it may just be a few seconds later.

You snap out of it and you keep going and you finally take that final step OVER the finish line. You have won the race! You are a sure thing now! However, behind you, the race is still going, because your friend is a bit behind you and are only now taking their final steps. You cannot go back and get them, you have to STAY THERE AT THE FINISH LINE AND KNOW THAT THEY ARE CATCHING UP.

STAY THERE, KNOWING YOU ARE THE WINNER, AND YOUR FRIEND WILL GET THERE TOO!

A few moments later, your friend finally also takes that step over the finish line, and you have both made it. The race is over, you both got from point A to point B. Your friend caught up to you and also got to point B, you just beat them to it and waited for them to catch up by STAYING there at the finish line, not wavering, and knowing they'd get there too.

This is the exact same way your manifestations work.

In this analogy, with every step, YOU are stepping into your new self-concept, new thoughts, and new story, with your desire in mind as the end goal - and your friend who is behind you is the 3D. The starting line is where you used to be, the finish line is where you want to be - where your desire is.

You need to just keep going, focusing on yourself and persisting in the new story and new version of yourself (with your desire also in mind), not letting yourself look around and be phased by where your friend, the 3D, is, because you know that your friend is also running this race just behind you and that they will catch up with every step you take, only a bit delayed, but they will catch up regardless.

You can't stop and wait. You can't stop and look back and complain that they haven't made it yet. You don't need to focus on where THEY are, because you know that if you do, you will just slow yourself down, but if you just keep going and get to the finish line, you know that your friend will catch up to you and get there too.

You need to get to your desired state and thoughts, stay in them no matter what you see and no matter how 'far behind' the 3D seems to be, because your 3D will catch up. It HAS to.

What you need to realise is that, this may seem like a race to you, but the 3D is not your opponent. The 3D has no control over YOU. The 3D is actually just following YOU! The only thing that can stop you is YOURSELF. If you let yourself stop and doubt and wait and worry, you are letting yourself become your own opponent, but if you persist no matter what, you will have no opponent. You need to just persist and get there, and know that your 3D will catch up, because it is not working against you, it is working THROUGH you! The 3D is always going to have no choice but to reflect you with a bit of a delay/time lag.

This is why the 3D doesn't matter and you do not need to worry about it. This is why you should not concern yourself with CHECKING it. If you allow yourself to slip up and check with the 3D's progress, you will just slow yourself down and potentially make yourself doubt where you are going. So, no matter where the 3D is, you need to just acknowledge that it is coming and catching up somehow, and this will only happen if YOU keep going and get to the finish line and STAY THERE!

This is how the time lag works. The 3D is a delayed reflection of you, and if you keep going and reach your desired state, and STAY there, your 3D will catch up and get there too. But, if you do NOT stay there, the 3D will follow you and go back and forth along with you, creating hot and cold results.