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i'm forcing some of my(our??soren's??) labels onto ghoulia because I CAN
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malagender, malasexual, and malaromantic
back during the original run of this blog, at someoneās request, i designed flags for malagender, malasexual, and malaromantic. iām not sure how i feel about them now but i thought i would repost them for proper documentation, since i noticed the flags on a couple of wikis lacking information that i could very easily provide! if i were to design them now iād probably do it differently but itās still worth recording. (if you see them credited to 1nklash, thatās my old deviantart!)
malagender:
a gender that is influenced by one's maladaptive daydreaming or another similar condition. mala- can be used as a prefix to further specify the userās gender experience.Ā
the blue and pink are just because those are frequently used on gender-related flags, but the colors are in a gradient to represent the mental transition between reality and daydreaming. the large grey stripe in the center symbolizes the gap between those two states and the gender one feels in those states. the grey stripe can also be replaced with other gender pride flags.
i made malatransgender as an example:
malasexual and malaromantic:
the malasexual flag is purple because that is a color frequently used in flags to denote sexuality. the malaromantic flag is green for the same reason, but with romanticism. i know that purple and green usually specifically represent asexuality and aromanticism but i wasnāt really thinking about that at the time, i just wanted to distinguish the flags :P these flags have the gradients and the large stripe in the middle for the same reasons as the malagender flag.
i made malapansexual and malalesbian (with the old lesbian flag, this was before emily gwen designed the sunset lesbian flag) as examples
Mala-
Mala- An orientation which is created or influenced by maladaptive daydreaming or fantasy prone personalities.Ā
For example a Malasexual person might feel pansexual usually but may feel more asexual during a maladaptive daydreaming episode. An orientation specific to people who experience maladaptive daydreaming due to a neurodivergence such as: schizotypal personality disorder, schizoid personality disorder, schizophrenia or similar.
Term coined by: Unknown
Malasexual:
[Image: Flag with 11 stripes, the first and last 5 stripes taking 1/3 of the flag each and the center stripe taking up another 1/3: The outside stripes are mirrored going from light purple to dark purple and the center stripe is a medium purple].
Full size [Here]
Malaromantic:
[Image: Flag with 11 stripes, the first and last 5 stripes taking 1/3 of the flag each and the center stripe taking up another 1/3: The outside stripes are mirrored going from light green to dark green and the center stripe is a medium green].
Full size [Here]
Flags below are the same format as above but the colors replaced with the colors of the specific attraction types.
Malaalterous: [Link]
Malasensual: [Link]
Malaqueerplatonic: [Link]
Malaplatonic: [Link]
Designed by: 1nklash
Color meanings: Unknown
Full pride gallery HERE! FAQ and ādictionaryā of genders, orientations, and other related terms HERE. Send any questions to Ask-Pride-Color-Schemes!
Aspec ABCās M is for...
Malaromantic / Malasexual : An orientation for people who experience attraction only while daydreaming. For Maladaptive daydreamers / those diagnosed with MaDD. (Neuronarrator is a related term.)
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Mesh: An alternative to the word crush based on alterous attraction.
Mala- as an orientation or a gender
Meaning:Malasexual/ romantic: a sexual/ romantic orientations thatās influenced by Maladaptive Daydreaming. (e.g. only being attracted to daydream characters)
Malagender: A gender thatās influenced or created by Maladaptive Daydreaming. (e.g. a gender that fluctuates with your characters)
Flags:The green one is the āmalaromanticā flag, the purple one the āmalasexualā flag and the blue/ pink one the malagender flag. In the middle you can insert a flag that specifies your orientation (e.g. malapansexual) The flags were created by @pride-library
Coined by:amethyst-is-autistic (deactivated, current URL unknown)
Can people who donāt have MaDD use it? Generally, no. I personally wouldnāt stop a Neuronarrator who doesnāt feel like their traveling/ daydreaming is maladaptive from using it though. Itās hard to find out if the coiner wouldāve been okay with it since, to my knowledge, āNeuronarrativeā was coined after āmala-ā, but if youāre not a Neuronarrator, these terms definitely arenāt for you
Is mala- an orientation on the ace- and aro-spectrums? That depends on the individual!

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are there any orientations that pertain to maladaptive daydreaming? i'm only romantically attracted to characters in my daydreams (and fictional characters, but they often appear in my daydreams as well) but aromantic irl
Sure is!
Mala-: An orientation which is created or influenced by maladaptive daydreaming or fantasy prone personalities. For example a Malasexual person might feel pansexual usually but may feel more asexual during a maladaptive daydreaming episode. An orientation specific to people who experience maladaptive daydreaming due to a neurodivergence.
i'm a maladaptive daydreamer and my identity in my daydreams (which are extremely important to me) is different from my IRL identity (i'm a gay transman). could there be a flag for that? or just a flag for maladaptive daydreamers?
Youāre in luck, there are flags for that!
Malagender: A gender which is created or influenced by maladaptive daydreaming or fantasy prone personalities. For example a malagender person might feel male usually but their gender may feel more nonbinary during a maladaptive daydreaming episode.
Malasexual: An orientation which is created or influenced by maladaptive daydreaming or fantasy prone personalities. For example a Malasexual person might feel pansexual usually but may feel more asexual during a maladaptive daydreaming episode.