#make-out room

Last song from their superlative set at the Make-Out Room in SF.

Wing Dam, Cocoon

Make-Out Room (w/ Balms, Couches)

$8

Dorotheo, Arboles Muertos de Enero

Make-Out Room (w/ Sea Knight, Francisco y Madero)

$8

For our friends in the San Francisco Bay Area, please join us to hear our January Short of the Month author, Margarita Meklina read at the Make-Out Room in San Francisco with four other writers at the InsideStorytime ABERRATIONS event.

When: Tuesday, April 30th, 7:15-9:15 PM

Where: Make-Out Room: 3225 22nd Street, San Francisco, CA 94110 

The poster can be viewed here. 

where to begin. I guess it's taken me some time to get back into the dating scene since breaking up with VF, but now I'm REALLY back into it. 

additional patterns are starting to emerge in my dating life. not only do I seem to always end up with younger men, but I also inexplicably end up with co-workers, with no intention of it happening. VF wasn't the only person I dated at my last job - counting anyone from the full spectrum of kissing to being in a full-on relationship with, I was involved with 7 co-workers. 

I just started a new job a couple months ago, and the symptoms are re-emerging already. I had a thing for the cute sales guy from day 1 - but his beer belly deterred me from getting too close. Then, 2 weeks ago, a co-worker from my team texted me to meet up at the Make-Out Room in the mission. should I have inferred from the name of the bar his intentions? perhaps. I showed up to the bar thinking it was just an innocent meet up with a cool co-worker who lived in the south bay and never made it to the city, but a few whiskey and tequila shots later, ended up convinced by his friends to take him home because he "makes an awesome breakfast". clearly, I always exercise good judgment. 

we hung out again last weekend at a dance club, and things quickly escalated. all this time we've been IMing at work, texting all night, while acting totally normal at work - maybe stealing a glance across the room once in a while. but we raised enough red flags that one of our co-workers noticed and started grilling us about what was happening, which finally prompted a phone conversation last night: 

chai: so.... what's going on with us? I'm confused. 

work bf: that's a hard question, start with something easier... 

chai: well i'm pretty sure you're on a rebound from your 3-year relationship 

wbf: i'm polish, i don't know what a rebound is

chai: ................

chai: well i think this is a friends with benefits situation, where i'm your bootie call 

wbf: you're too far away to be a bootie call, I'd have to drive an hour 

chai: true.... ok well, I think we have a good thing going, we should just roll with it 

wbf: and you would be ok with that? what if I had come to work after the make-out room and treated you like normal, and didn't talk to you, and acted like nothing had happened? 

chai: honestly, that's what I would have expected, given my experience with all the douchebags out there 

wbf: well, again I'm polish, i don't get the american way of dating

chai: (wtf - maybe I should always date europeans) 

wbf:  ok, so what are the guidelines? 

wait. what? guidelines?

wbf: yea, there have to be some guidelines. like, can you date other people? 

chai: I thought we just agreed it's probably a friends with benefits / bootie call situation, so... yes

wbf: well, I wouldn't want you sleeping with other people

who are you?! 

chai: well i'm not going to go slutting around, but if we're not dating, I don't see what gives you the right to say what I can or can't do....

wbf: well, I don't want to sleep on your pillow and smell some other man's cologne....

chai: well, I can't promise anything. b/c we're not dating. 

haha, to be continued. let's see where this goes. what he doesn't know can't hurt him, right? ;)