I'm sure this has been said a million times already, but I just cannot get over people using the words "mommy" and "daddy" in an erotic context. It is just so viscerally and blatantly wrong and vile that it genuinely defies comprehension. These are the words that young children use to refer to their parents. They're what you (probably) called your parents as a kid, and if you're a parent they're (probably) the words your kids(s) use to refer to you. How can anyone use these words to mean "hot sexy fuckable older person who I want to dominate me sexually" without spontaneously combusting from the sheer intensity of their disgust?
What's the difference between this and calling an attractive younger person/sub "tiger" or "buddy" or "princess" or "sweetie pie" or "champ" or "cutie patootie"? I mean, that'd be the same thing, just in the opposite direction, right? Like how is it not immediately apparent to people that taking parent/child language and sexualizing it is still normalizing the ideas of incest and pedophilia, even if the words are only being used to refer to unrelated adults?
It genuinely scares me that this is something that's just normal now. It is genuinely scary that there are teenage girls calling men "daddy" in a sexual way, and that the word for hot dominant older man and the word for father are now the same word. Like it's difficult for me to even articulate myself and elaborate on this, because it's like trying to articulate and elaborate on why sexualizing anorexia is wrong or something, it is just so obviously and deeply fucked that words shouldn't even need to be said on the subject, and yet, apparently, to my horror, they do.











