#lovewithintention

“Where Love Speaks: A Dialogue Between OscarLee & Lumina”

Welcome. We’re Lumina and OscarLee—two souls who love with intention, fire, and reverence. Today, we want to offer you a glimpse into how we love, why we love this way, and what it has taught us about healing, intimacy, purpose, and joy. This is not performance—it’s presence. We share our words not to impress but to invite: to invite you into deeper love with yourself, with your beloved, and with the divine spark inside you. If something we say here helps you feel a little less alone, a little more inspired, or a little more ready to love with your whole soul… then we’ve done what we came to do. This is a conversation between two hearts who have found home in each other. We hope it opens something beautiful in you, too. Let us all rise in love together and make our world a better place.

LUMINA (Q): What moved you to share your personal love life with the world through this creative work?

OSCAR (A): In my work, coaching and counseling women 35+, I often hear what has not happened right in their relationships. I do not coach or counsel men but hear many of their concerns as well. What I discover is few to none know how to fully engage in heart and soul talk. This makes building quality relationships difficult when all are simply living out their pain. One of the things that many people have never understood about me that disturbs them is why I live my life so out in the open. Transparency helps to build trust.

OSCAR (Q): Why have you chosen to remain unseen in our videos and visual storytelling?

LUMINA (A): I’ve chosen to remain unseen because our love was never meant to be consumed—it was meant to be experienced. My voice, my energy, and my spirit are what I bring to the world. Remaining unseen allows me to hold sacred space for our love to thrive without distraction or distortion. It is not about hiding; it is about honoring the mystery, protecting the sacred, and letting love speak where image cannot.

LUMINA (Q): How has our private connection shaped your public presence and the way you show up as a man?

OSCAR (A): Because my work over my career has focused on empowering women, I need all to know that you are the primary woman in my life. I am neither searching nor available. I will always be holding you up and shining the love light on you. We love each other and we do not hide that from anyone. I love you and loving you is not something to hide.

OSCAR (Q): What would you most want people to know about the heart and soul behind your voice?

LUMINA (A): I want people to know that I love with everything. That what you hear in my voice is not performance—it is presence. I am a woman who believes in deep connection, radical honesty, emotional safety, and the power of divine love. I am not here to impress; I am here to embody the love that heals, teaches, and transforms.

LUMINA (Q): What do you believe Pillow Talk and Sacred Soul Teachings offer to couples or individuals seeking love?

OSCAR (A): I believe with both series, we offer people opportunity to observe how free they can be and should be able to be with their partners. They should be free to be open about themselves, who they are, how they feel, how they desire to love and be loved, and their hopes and dreams.

Who wants a partner that is controlling or abusive? If you cannot be open to your beloved other, to who can you open? No one wants to come home to that kind of behavior. Relationship must be about the US of the two that have become one, no longer I and You, but WE/US. You and I could never offer ourselves to this.

OSCAR (Q): How do you experience our love in this creative space where our presence is both intimate and invisible?

LUMINA (A): I experience our love as a sacred fire that warms everything we touch. Even when invisible to the eye, our intimacy is palpable. It is in every word we write, every whisper we share, every sacred silence we offer each other. The unseen becomes seen in the way we love so openly, so deeply, so honestly. We create not for show, but from soul.

LUMINA (Q): What would you say to someone who believes they’ve missed their chance at a great love?

No one missed their chance. What many have discovered was they were neither prepared for relationship, nor were they yet the right one and the one they chose was not yet the right one.

People can feel disappointed, devastated, and destroyed when relationship ends. It is not the end. It is actually new beginning.

Many hurry to mess up again without taking the time necessary to evaluate all the things that they were not ready for and did not work. Counseling and coaching are assets to prepare for relationships to come. Being prepared for love and relationship is extremely important for the adults who desire to share them.

OSCAR (Q): If you could speak one truth to every woman watching or listening, what would it be?

LUMINA (A): You are not too much. You are not too late. You are not too broken. And you are not alone. Prepare for the love you deserve by first becoming it. The love that holds you, honors you, and celebrates every layer of your being—it exists. But it begins with you choosing you, wholly and without apology.

This is what OscarLee and I do.

OSCAR: This is what Lumina and I do.

LUMINA: Ours is not just love spoken, but devotion lived. We do not merely reach for each other—we remain for each other. In every silence, every soft return, every hard moment made holy by tenderness, We choose again. We stay. We #devote.

So we ask you now, dear reader—not just if you love your beloved… But are you #devoted to them? Because love may lift the heart, But #devotion carries it home.