exclusivity, monogamy, conditions, agendas...marriage IS NOT a destination!!!! nor are relationships. the best ones are always shared journeys! π β’ β’ often, it needs to be a shared journey of healing. relating as spiritual practice. balancing healthy masculine and healthy feminine energies within the psyches of ALL involved. conscious relating, conscious parenting, conscious living: do no harm, serve the highest good, stay rooted & bend with the changing winds. stay open and value growth!π± β’ β’ monogamy is a condition. and true love is unconditional. nothing real can be destroyed. nothing real can be threatened. β’ β’ unconditional love and connection cannot be broken. you can need distance, you can need time, but it will still βbeβ if itβs truly unconditional. β’ β’ marriage should a beginning, not a destination. and iβm not advocating for marriage (even though weβve been married for 13 years, we both see how it was system contrived - weβre just fortunate that we continue to align and resonate)...iβm advocating for open, conscious relating regardless of your relationship model. β’ β’ i grow soooo much while relating outside of my marriage. i come face-to-face with my lingering dysfunctions. with my weaknesses. with my patterns and pain. my marriage would NEVER trigger my healing in these same ways. but itβs healing i need. itβs healing that makes me a better version of myself. spiritual connections and non-monogamy (re)awaken my consciousness over and over again. itβs healing magick. β’ β’ any relationship model can practice open, conscious relating. be radically honest, be authentic, heal yourself without constraint. the energies that will support your growth and spiritual development wonβt leave you. if someoneβs love is conditional and youβre bending to those conditions to please them or keep them, youβre likely abandoning some part of yourself. youβre worth so much more. i promise. πππ½π β’ β’ β€οΈπππ€ #spiritualnonmonogamy #spiritualpolyamory #befearlessbefree #loveisunconditional #psychonauts #psychedeliclove #polyamorymarriedanddating #polyamory #relationshipanarchy #consciousopenrelating #consciousawakening #consciousrelating #consciousrelationships https://www.instagram.com/p/B1VTH3jlQXt/?igshid=1nj0iaqqcadfg