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advice for manifesting in a toxic household

sometimes it can be hard to see your circumstances as being completely malleable; such as when you’re surrounded by toxic people and emotionally draining circumstances constantly.

this is something I’ve dealt with a lot in my life, and so I have a lot of experience in manifesting good things for myself while surrounded by the toxicity. I hope I can get you some insight on how to deal with it all to go into calmer waters.

mentally, you aren’t your circumstances

the best thing to do is remind yourself that these situations have no real power over your thoughts. the best way to do this is to initially create a separation, away from them to think and assume comfortably. like going on walks, being anywhere outside of your home or talking to friends. use this time alone to delve into your desired life and assume your desired situation. being away for short periods of time and seeing your outside surroundings will make you realise that there’s more to life than your family. ( even just listening to music, meditation or looking at your pinterest boards can do this ! )

when you’re home keep reminding yourself of that feeling of being free that you felt when you were alone, keep thinking that it’s possible to manifest that peace completely to surround you & your life. now, with this newfound understanding that your life isn’t limited to them. you need to assume and persist through any interaction you have with them. this can be difficult at first, but keep repeating that you are in an amazing, fulfilling environment which feels safe for you. even if reality shows the opposite, keep telling yourself that. when your family does anything uncomfortable to you; mentally picture a real, loving friendship connection and experiencing that instead- or you living in an apartment independently. keep assuming this is the reality.

𓏲 𓂃 ♡ with this, ignore any outside thing showing you the opposite. just know that it’s not true. put no value on it. completely focus on your assumptions.

and what will happen? your outer reality will start to conform to your inner one. from here, accept it. don’t stop persisting here, keep persisting. if you have any fears that reality will go back to the way it was, ignore them and keep telling yourself the new story, putting no value on the external presentation.

ෆ ͜ ̩͙ ︵ ̩͙ ୨ ෆ ୧ ̩͙ ︵ ̩͙ ͜ ෆ

reminder - you are the creator, not your family, not anyone outside of you ⊹ keep persisting, everything will work out ♡

⋆✴︎˚｡⋆ YOU are the answer

Stop looking for something you can do to make it happen. Stop looking for something you’re doing wrong. Stop looking for something you’re doing right. Stop looking for signs.

I cannot stress this enough: it will never be enough. No amount of advice, validation, repetition, or signs will magically make it happen. It comes to pass by recognizing that you’re already it. Stop finding comfort in waiting. As long as you’re waiting, that is exactly what will show up. You want validation? Fulfillment? Recognize you have all of that already.

All these blogs, posts, tiktoks, tweets, all point to the same answer. You are already what you seek. You are the answer you’ve been looking for. You keep missing the answer because you’re so busy looking for something that is outside of you.

you manifest by deciding not thoughts

wtf do I mean? you made a decision to go pee this morning you didn’t think about it

you had a negative thought? okay until you DECIDE that does anything it doesn’t matter

you decided that everytime you wear this shirt you’re lucky? great! you DECIDED that

you don’t feel good today? that’s okay it has no effect whatsoever unless you DECIDE so

for one moment look at your room now instead of thinking you are looking at your environment, imagine it’s facing your direction and looking at you.

once you do that it’s hard to unsee it.

now stop running at reality it’s needs you to tell it what to do.

when you look at how people describe the void, there is very little agreement. some people say it is pure awareness. others say it is a deep meditative state. some describe it as mind awake, body asleep. others describe it as a completely different reality. some people experience darkness, while others experience light, colors, or even a completely customizable environment.

if all of these experiences are different, then what is actually constant?

the constant is not the void itself. the constant is awareness. regardless of how someone defines the void, they are still aware of it. they are aware of the darkness. aware of the formlessness. aware of the sensation. aware of the belief they have about it. even the statement “i entered the void” is something that is known afterwards.

this is why i find awareness more fundamental than the void. people disagree endlessly about what the void is, but nobody can deny the fact that the experience is being known.

that also changed the way i think about “inducing” the void.

most people approach it as if they need to force themselves into a special state. they try harder, affirm harder, concentrate harder, and end up turning the void into another goal to chase.

but if awareness is already present, then what exactly are you trying to reach?

ironically, many of the stories i’ve read from people who claim to have entered the void involve them relaxing, letting go, falling asleep, meditating, or simply stopping the struggle for a moment.

that’s why i think the biggest obstacle is often the belief that the void is somewhere else.

whether you use affirmations, meditation, subliminals, self-inquiry, SATS, or no method at all, every approach seems to point back to the same thing: becoming less focused on chasing an experience and more aware of what is already here.

i’m not saying the void doesn’t exist. clearly people have experiences that they call the void.

i’m simply questioning whether the void is the foundation itself or whether it is another experience appearing within the foundation.

because no matter what conclusion i arrive at, one thing always remains: the experience is being known.

and that fact always leads me back to awareness. 🧁