#lilith placements

Lilith represents raw, primal energy in your chart, and depending on where it sits, it can cause you to be sexualized or misunderstood. Below, I’ve shared some thoughts on how this placement manifests in each of the houses, along with personal anecdotes where applicable. Keep in mind, this is just my anecdotal evidence, meant for fun.

♈ Lilith in the 1st House Aries

People with Lilith in the 1st house often have an intense, captivating aura. There's something magnetic and fiery about you that can’t be ignored, and others tend to sexualize or focus on your bold, rebellious nature. This placement often gets you misjudged as wild or "bad" simply for being unapologetically yourself.

When I think about this placement, I always think of Tiger King. His sexuality was constantly discussed, and in a weird way, he became this spectacle because of it. It’s also fitting for someone like Michael Jackson—you often see men with this placement with makeup, eyeliner, or other dramatic visuals to showcase that captivating energy. Even though their sexuality isn’t always overt, people seem to be entranced by it anyway.

You might feel that society is always trying to push you into the "wild" or "sexualized" box based on how you express yourself. People either want to put you on a pedestal or demonize you for being strong, assertive, or rebellious.

You may choose to reject or lean into this image, asserting control over how others perceive you. You could even challenge the societal expectations placed on you and fight to redefine who you are in your own terms.

Cultivate a deep connection with yourself—embrace your true essence unapologetically. Learning to set boundaries and validate yourself can help reduce the impact of others’ projections.

♉ Lilith in the 2nd House Taurus

People with Lilith in the 2nd house often find their physical bodies or material possessions sexualized. There's this feeling that others equate your body to your self-worth. People might also judge you based on how you express yourself physically, interpreting your appearance or possessions as tied to your sexual appeal.

I don’t have many people in my life with this placement, but it’s interesting because some people do view their bodies almost like a possession—almost as if they think their value is solely based on what they look like. In other words, what you own or how you look can often become a reflection of your sexual worth.

You may feel that your worth is constantly tied to your looks or the material things you own. This leads to external pressure and the need to fight back against these surface-level judgments.

You might either put your worth into material things or rebel against them altogether, which is a big internal struggle. At times it might be hard to escape being seen only through the lens of external value.

Reconnect to your intrinsic self-worth—focus on building value from within. Learning to separate your identity from your possessions or body helps you reclaim your true sense of self.

♊ Lilith in the 3rd House Gemini

Lilith in the 3rd house can turn communication into a double-edged sword. This placement tends to sexualize the way you talk—your voice, tone, and speech patterns are often perceived as seductive or inappropriate. I have this placement, and people often react to my words or how I speak in ways that are totally unrelated to my intent. It’s not uncommon for people to want to take normal conversations to uncomfortable places like phone sex or sexting, especially in dating scenarios.

I can personally relate to this. When I worked in call centers, I got told time and time again how "attractive" or "sexy" my voice sounded—and sometimes people tried to take it into inappropriate directions. Even in group settings, I was often told that my speaking style made people uncomfortable, even though I wasn’t trying to be sexual at all. I’m not a sexual person in nature, but people still tried to pull me into these conversations based solely on how I spoke.

You’ll notice that people often try to make conversations about you sexual or flirtatious. That misinterpretation, where every word or gesture becomes something charged, can make your day-to-day life more challenging, especially when you’re just speaking freely. You may also have the feeling that you’re often misunderstood in public settings or school/work environments.

You might find yourself either resisting or rejecting these interpretations of your communication style, maybe becoming more reclusive or adjusting your approach altogether to avoid discomfort. There could also be moments when you want to “own” that sexualized persona simply as a defense mechanism, but it’s not who you are.

Own your voice and set clear boundaries in communication. When people misinterpret your words, use it as an opportunity to clarify your intent. Confidence in your language can shield you from unwanted projections.

♋ Lilith in the 4th House Cancer

With Lilith in the 4th house, family and home environments become a space for projected misunderstandings about who you are. Family members may make inappropriate or uncomfortable comments about your body or behavior growing up. As you age, they might even sexualize or misinterpret the way you interact or express yourself, often seeing you as "too grown for your age" or crossing boundaries that shouldn’t be discussed.

Growing up with Lilith in the 4th house, you might hear off-handed comments from family that make you feel uncomfortable about the normal, healthy process of growing up. Your behaviors or growth could be taken the wrong way, as if people have the right to define what’s "appropriate" for you in terms of sexuality. This projection can last into adulthood when family members still impose unrealistic or discomforting expectations on you.

Family projections around your body or sexual expression can affect your sense of self at the core. You may feel like you’re being misread or that your home environment doesn’t fully support your evolving self-expression.

You might challenge your family’s views of you or assert stronger boundaries within the family dynamic. There may be tension in these interactions, as your natural growth challenges their limiting expectations.

Establish healthy boundaries with your family and assert your identity on your terms. Communicating your real feelings with those closest to you, while setting clear boundaries around your development, will help shift those projections.

♌ Lilith in the 5th House Leo

With Lilith in the 5th house, your creativity, sexuality, and enjoyment of life become intertwined. You’ll notice that people often sexualize your playfulness, creative pursuits, and even your flirtatious nature. What should be considered playful or creative can sometimes be twisted into something too sexual, especially if you are expressive about your individuality.

People may only focus on the "fun" aspects of your personality and forget that there's much more depth to you. Your free-spirited, playful side can easily be interpreted as promiscuous or “overly sexual.” You might feel misunderstood for simply enjoying life or for being unapologetic in expressing your individuality.

You may lean into this sexuality for a while, either to match people’s expectations or as a way to cope with it, but it’s important to find the right balance. Embrace your creative freedom, but also be firm with others when it comes to how you express yourself.

Set strong boundaries around your creative energy and personal expression. Help others understand that your essence is more complex than how they try to sexualize you.

♍ Lilith in the 6th House Virgo

With Lilith in the 6th house, your workplace interactions or your approach to health can often be misunderstood. At work, others might project a certain sexualized image onto you, particularly in professional settings where boundaries should be respected. In my experience, I've witnessed situations where a male friend of mine faced sexual harassment, which they often brushed off to maintain peace. He dealt with frequent inappropriate advances and even physical groping from female coworkers, yet felt pressured to “laugh it off” and keep things lighthearted. He moved his things to another area in the office after. It's clear that a misunderstanding of professional boundaries happens with Lilith in this house.

While I don’t have Lilith in the 6th house myself, I’ve seen it firsthand. I believe that this placement can create discomfort when others try to sexualize your approach to work or health matters. It's hard because these boundaries often get crossed by people who don't take your professional image or seriousness into consideration.

The 6th house is about routine, health, and service, but Lilith here creates tension, with people viewing your work or contributions through a lens of desire rather than respect. Whether it’s at work or in a healthcare setting, feeling sexualized or disrespected in such personal areas can make you uncomfortable.

You might try to keep your distance or react by shutting people down, asserting your boundaries and your right to be respected. Or, you might even go the opposite route and become very vocal about defending your space, making sure others understand where you stand.

Work on strengthening your boundaries, especially when it comes to professional or intimate health matters. Practice keeping your environment focused on your work ethic, not your sexuality. Keep things professional and assertive, refusing to let others cross boundaries.

♎ Lilith in the 7th House Libra

With Lilith in the 7th house, relationships become a central area where you’re misjudged. People might project their sexual desires or desires for control onto your partnerships, reducing them to something physical or superficial rather than emotional. There's an intensity to how people view your relationships—it’s almost like they see them through a lens of desire and don’t always see you for who you truly are.

I’m curious to hear if anyone else with this placement has had similar experiences, but I imagine people might confuse the depth of your relationships for something too sexual or too chaotic. Since the 7th house is all about partnership, whether in romance, business, or even friendships, the idea of Lilith here could make it feel like every relationship becomes a power struggle or is sexually charged.

It can be tough because it feels like your partnerships are seen through projections of sexuality or power dynamics that you didn’t necessarily invite. These projections can make you feel misunderstood in your closest connections.

You might feel compelled to set extremely firm boundaries within your partnerships to avoid these projections. You may even feel the need to prove your worth in relationships beyond what’s expected of you, sometimes overcompensating for others’ misunderstandings.

Let go of others’ sexualized projections in your relationships. Be clear about your emotional needs and how you define intimacy. Surround yourself with people who value your connection beyond the surface level.

♏ Lilith in the 8th House Scorpio

Lilith in the 8th house is all about transformation, power dynamics, and shared resources, especially sexual intimacy. People might find you intensely magnetic and view your sexuality as your most powerful attribute. However, this can also make others see you as a mystery or a source of intrigue. There is a tendency for you to become sexualized, especially when dealing with issues of intimacy, control, or shared power.

The 8th house often deals with taboos, and with Lilith here, it might amplify that in ways where others expect you to use your power over them in intimate relationships or become seen as an object of both desire and obsession. This can also trigger the deep-seated fears in both you and others regarding trust and control in relationships.

You might be underestimated for your emotional depth, with the focus too often put on your sexuality. This can leave you feeling like you are misunderstood at your core, and that people only seek power through intimacy with you.

You may play into this mystique, allowing others to see you as they want to, or you may put up huge walls around your vulnerability, keeping your power closely guarded. Either way, navigating these intense dynamics can create an ongoing challenge to maintain a sense of self.

Work on transforming your personal power in ways that allow you to reclaim your own identity. Practice embracing deep emotional intimacy and power in a way that doesn’t compromise who you truly are at the soul level.

♐ Lilith in the 9th House Sagittarius

Lilith in the 9th house often leads others to sexualize or romanticize your ideas, philosophies, or your travels. Your belief system and personal growth are powerful, but people might be more intrigued by your provocative ideas or the way you expand their boundaries rather than seeing you as an intellectual authority. There’s an undercurrent of attraction, as others tend to focus on your adventurous or boundary-pushing nature.

The 9th house placement gives you a vast sense of expansion, but Lilith here can make your explorations, whether mental or physical, something others overly sexualize. It’s like you’re seen as someone who’s not just about knowledge, but about breaking every boundary—and that becomes sexualized.

You may feel like your desire for intellectual or physical exploration is misunderstood or reduced to something superficial by others. It's frustrating when what you deeply care about is diminished into sexual projections.

You might find it hard to reveal the true depth of your philosophical or adventurous side, feeling boxed into a role others have created for you. You could find yourself over-explaining or pulling back from sharing ideas at all.

Continue to seek intellectual, philosophical, and physical expansion in your life, but focus on doing it in a way that isn't limited by the projections of others. Reclaim your place as an explorer and learner without needing to fit into a mold others make for you.

♑ Lilith in the 10th House Capricorn

With Lilith in the 10th house, your public image, career, and reputation might get sexualized or reduced to how attractive or enticing you are in the public eye. There’s an intense energy that others sense, and some will focus only on the surface level—either deeming you a “sex symbol” or feeling threatened by your power. I have a friend who’s had similar experiences with Lilith here, where her sexuality was too often emphasized—sometimes by her family, others by society—leaving her struggling to find a way to separate herself from this imposed persona. Despite being talented and multifaceted, others often ignore these attributes, reducing her to a sexualized image.

You may feel frustration with the duality between the image people project onto you and who you really are. The constant struggle to have your full professional capabilities seen without your sexuality being the focus can be draining.

To cope, you might overcompensate by embodying this sexualized image more overtly online or offline, or you may go in the opposite direction and try to downplay your looks and focus solely on your work.

Set clear boundaries with your career and public life. Focus on presenting all the facets of yourself and refuse to be confined to only one. Let your true capabilities define you, not the projections others place on your image.

♒ Lilith in the 11th House Aquarius

Lilith in the 11th house means your presence in social groups and communities often comes with a layer of misinterpretation. People might see you as someone who “stirs the pot” in group settings, whether through your attractiveness, rebellious nature, or just by existing outside of the norm. You might be put in a position where your friendships are subtly (or not so subtly) sexualized, either by others assuming romantic or sexual undertones in your platonic relationships or by social circles treating you like an object of intrigue.

From what I’ve observed, this placement can create situations where people feel weirdly possessive over you in group settings. Friends might project their own insecurities onto you, assuming you must be manipulative, seductive, or disruptive just because of how others react to you. There can also be themes of exclusion—perhaps being ostracized or resented for something that isn’t even your fault.

Friendships can feel complicated. Either people try to control you, define you by your sexuality in group dynamics, or make you out to be a “bad influence.” Sometimes it feels like no matter what you do, there’s an energy that people react strongly to, whether positive or negative.

You might distance yourself from social groups to avoid dealing with all of the drama, or you could lean into your rebellious nature and embrace the fact that you shake things up. There can also be a feeling of wanting to prove that you’re more than the assumptions people make about you.

Focus on friendships and community that truly respect you for who you are beyond any projections. Not everyone will misunderstand you, and it’s okay to be selective with who you surround yourself with. Work on reinforcing your boundaries so that you aren’t constantly put in unfair situations.

♓ Lilith in the 12th House Pisces

This is one of the most hidden yet potent Lilith placements. You might not always be overtly sexualized in obvious ways, but there’s a deep, underlying energy that people pick up on. There can be projections placed upon you without you even realizing it, often behind closed doors or in secret conversations. Some may find you irresistibly mysterious or even dangerous without a clear reason why. Your presence lingers in people’s subconscious, sometimes making them uncomfortable.

This placement makes me think of someone who unknowingly impacts others on a psychological level. People might develop secret infatuations or fixate on you in ways that even you don’t fully grasp. It’s like you move through life feeling somewhat unseen, yet somehow, you’re always affecting people on a level beyond your awareness. People may make assumptions about you without real evidence, particularly in environments like hospitals, institutions, or spiritual communities where secrecy or hidden power is involved.

You might struggle with feeling misunderstood in ways that don’t make sense to you. You could go through experiences of being scapegoated, vilified, or treated as if you’re carrying some sort of “forbidden” energy. People may want to project their desires onto you in secret, which can feel invasive or confusing, especially if you don't know where these emotions are coming from.

Some with this placement retreat into isolation, feeling like it’s safer to remain unseen than to deal with others’ projections. Others might unknowingly fall into roles that confirm what people already assume about them, even if it wasn’t their intent. The struggle here is often about untangling other people’s hidden expectations and seeing yourself clearly.

Find ways to ground yourself in your own sense of identity, separate from what others secretly think or expect of you. Therapy, dream journaling, and shadow work can be powerful tools for unraveling hidden fears or subconscious influences in your life. Recognizing when you’re being scapegoated or unfairly projected upon is crucial, and learning to set firm energetic boundaries will protect your peace.

↳ and the part of you that keeps trying to come back louder, even when the world tries to shut it down.

♈ Lilith in Aries

You were punished for your fight. For reacting too quickly, too loudly, too honestly. Someone told you that your anger made you unstable, dangerous, unloveable. So now, when you want to scream, you swallow it and smile instead. You don't have anger issues — you have issues with your anger, you fear it, you keep it at a distance and try to detach yourself from it. You try not to become what they label you as — a monster. In chasing what you refuse to be (what they have labeled you), You can lose yourself entirely. But no matter what you do to separate yourself from the flames, the fire doesn’t go away — it just burns your insides instead of theirs.

♉ Lilith in Taurus

You were told to tone it down — your taste, your body , your desire to feel full. Maybe people called you lazy, dramatic, or "too sensitive" when all you wanted was peace. You were tested a lot in your youth, your patience ran thin a lot and it almost felt karmically destined for you to bite your tongue at times. You learned to settle for crumbs because you were made to feel guilty for asking for more. But your desire is sacred. You’re allowed to crave softness without apology.

♊ Lilith in Gemini

You were told your voice was a weapon. Too sharp. Too much. Too fast. Maybe someone rolled their eyes every time you spoke — or told you you talked just to hear yourself. So you stopped sharing your truth out loud and started overthinking every word. You may have become talk of the town, or labeled the town gossip, even when you are the polar opposite. It seems like nobody in your youth or in your neighborhood can see you for who you truly are. You may always feel like you have to be aware of how you conduct yourself when you meet new people because of your past problems with others. You must realise that your voice deserves to be heard without a filter.

♋ Lilith in Cancer

You were constantly made to feel like your emotional wellbeing was a problem, like being emotional is your detriment. You may have never felt safe to show vulnerable emotion, but rather have had to swallow your tears and shut down to create emotional space for others. you were abandoned by your mother, or by feminine energy, and you struggle with emotional regulation because of this. You were labeled as too attached, too clingy, too nostalgic. Maybe you were told to "get over it" or "stop crying" when all you needed was to feel safe. But being sensitive isn't a character flaw. It’s your greatest strength. The way you love is deeper than most people know how to receive.

♌ Lilith in Leo

Your light was too bright early on & you were told to stop showing off. To tone it down. That being proud of yourself was arrogant. The irony is that the same people who told you to tone it down are the same people who push you in the spotlight. You may have grown up with parents who saw you as a paycheck, or parents who projected hyper-independence on to you. Sadly, people may have even clapped louder when you failed than when you succeeded. So now you hide your light or play small in rooms where you should be glowing. But you were never meant to dim just to make others comfortable.

♍ Lilith in Virgo

You were made to feel like your needs were a burden. Like wanting for something was an inconvenience for someone else. You may have felt burdened by your dependency since you were a kid. This led you to become hyper independent, which you also face extreme criticism for. Your caring nature was criticized and your precision was your sense of control. Maybe people used your perfectionism against you — made you feel cold, uptight, unloveable unless you were "easy." The key is to set boundaries & limit being around people who want to use you.

♎ Lilith in Libra

You were punished for being beautiful, sheesh. You were told you were too fake — too charming, too pretty, too desirable. You may have been shamed for your "appeal" and you may have sadly experienced this shame a lot in your youth. You were labeled as a competitor to the feminine so you may have had older women specifically jealous or hateful towards you for no reason. People also resented the way you keep the peace, even when it's killing you inside. You learned to compromise so often you forgot what you wanted. Somewhere in your youth, you were taught it was safer to shrink yourself than it was to rock the boat. But your power is not in people-pleasing — it’s in knowing how to walk away with grace.

♏ Lilith in Scorpio

You were called manipulative way too young, and way too often. People accused you of dark things, of lying about dark things. You were told you were too much, too emotionally volatile. You were told your sexuality made you manipulative, your instincts made you paranoid, your silence made you cruel. So you learned to bury things deep. To control what you could and numb what you couldn’t. You have buried secrets for people who have taken more than they've ever given, and you can be loyal to a dangerous fault. Your sexuality is not something to feel shame about. Your vulnerability is beautiful, not poison.

♐ Lilith in Sagittarius

You were punished for being honest. For asking questions. For wanting more. Maybe someone told you to be realistic — to stop dreaming so big, to follow the rules like everyone else. Maybe you knew what buttons to press for more info, but part of you has always felt left in the dark. Not taken seriously so you may have felt undervalued often. You had to grow into your independency & wanderlust for life. You're here to learn by living, even if it makes other people uncomfortable.

♑ Lilith in Capricorn

You were told you were too ambitious and dreamed too big. Talk about Debbie Downers. You were made for feel like your success (and desire for success) makes you selfish. You may have felt like you had to put everything you wanted to accomplish on the back burner to take care of someone else's dreams. That success made you selfish. So now you second-guess every accomplishment — like you're only allowed to be proud after you’ve suffered enough. But you don’t have to prove your worth through pain. You were already worthy.

♒ Lilith in Aquarius

You were made to feel like a weirdo, but not the good kind. Too odd, too peculiar, too smart, too different. You used to wearing masks to pretend that you didn't care that you didn't belong, but deep down, you did. You care way more than anyone will ever know, and you have bent yourself in different ways to be socially acceptable. But your uniqueness was never meant to blend in. You're not here to be understood. You’re here to change the conversation. When you stop letting people shake you and gaslight you into thinking something is wrong with YOU for wanting change, you become your most powerful self.

♓ Lilith in Pisces

You were made to feel weak and a victim. You were told that your softness was a weakness, and that you're sensitivity was an issue. You were devalued because of your spiritual gifts, your dreams, your empathy. You were made fun of and were told what you believe in is nonsense. You learn to hide what makes you magic so no one can shame you for it, but your real gift is your ability to feel beyond the veil. You have learned how to play the "Bambi-like" woe-is-me archetype to your advantage. You sought out comfort in others misconceptions of you.

⟡ ᴅᴍ ᴍᴇ ꜰᴏʀ:

🌙 ᴘʀɪᴠᴀᴛᴇ ᴛᴀʀᴏᴛ & ᴘꜱʏᴄʜɪᴄ ʀᴇᴀᴅɪɴɢꜱ

🪐 ʙɪʀᴛʜ ᴄʜᴀʀᴛ ᴀɴᴀʟʏꜱɪꜱ & ᴀꜱᴛʀᴏʟᴏɢʏ ꜱᴇꜱꜱɪᴏɴꜱ

𓆩𖤐𓆪 ꜰᴀꜱᴛ, ɪɴᴛᴜɪᴛɪᴠᴇ, ᴀɴᴅ ɢᴜɪᴅᴇᴅ ʙʏ ꜱᴘɪʀɪᴛ.

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🔮 ᴛʜɪꜱ ᴡᴏʀᴋ ɪꜱ ᴍʏ ᴏᴡɴ — ᴘʟᴇᴀꜱᴇ ᴅᴏ ɴᴏᴛ ʀᴇᴘᴏꜱᴛ ᴡɪᴛʜᴏᴜᴛ ᴄʀᴇᴅɪᴛ.

✨ ꜰᴏʀ ᴇɴᴛᴇʀᴛᴀɪɴᴍᴇɴᴛ ᴘᴜʀᴘᴏꜱᴇꜱ ᴏɴʟʏ.

🌙 ɴᴏᴛ ɪɴᴛᴇɴᴅᴇᴅ ᴀꜱ ʀᴇᴀʟ, ᴍᴇᴅɪᴄᴀʟ, ᴏʀ ʟᴇɢᴀʟ ᴀᴅᴠɪᴄᴇ.

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Your Black Moon Lilith sign can show the specific quality of what was rejected about you and how your refusal is enacted. Often stems from early life conditions.

Lilith in Aries

You learned early that being direct, impulsive, or self-focused gets shut down. So now, when you feel blocked or controlled, your refusal is immediate. You interrupt, act first, or escalate faster than the situation calls for. You don’t like asking twice. If someone hesitates, you read it as resistance and push harder…or you cut them off entirely. You’d rather be seen as “too much” than wait around for permission. The rejected quality you have is your raw ability to act on your own; your refusal shows up as acting before anyone can stop you.

Lilith in Taurus

What got rejected is your pace, like your need for consistency, comfort, and control over your own resources. So when someone rushes you, questions your standards, or tries to dictate what you should value, you resist by digging in. You stall, delay, or quietly refuse to move. Sometimes you overcorrect by holding onto things longer than necessary, like your money, habits, even situations. Your “no” isn’t loud it’s just immovable. You don’t argue, you just stop cooperating with others. The refusal is slow, steady, and hard to override.

Lilith in Gemini

You learned that your curiosity, questions, or way of thinking wasn’t taken seriously. So now, when you feel dismissed or talked over, your refusal shows up through words. You might talk in circles, switch topics abruptly, or overwhelm the conversation with details. Or you disengage completely and give minimal responses. You don’t like being pinned to one narrative, so you resist by staying mentally slippery. The rejected quality is your natural curiosity and adaptability; the refusal is refusing to be simplified or easily understood.

Lilith Cancer

What got rejected is your emotional sensitivity and need for care. So when you feel exposed, dismissed, or emotionally unsafe, your refusal is protective. You withdraw, go quiet, or create distance without explanation. Or you become reactive and defensive, especially if someone crosses a boundary you didn’t verbalize. You don’t like having your feelings minimized, so you stop offering them. The refusal is in who you let in and who you don’t. You control access instead of arguing your case.

Lilith in Leo

You learned that your need to be seen, appreciated, or expressive was “too much.” So now, when you feel overlooked or under-acknowledged, your refusal shows up in extremes. You either pull your energy back completely (stop sharing, stop showing up) or you amplify it, becoming more visible and harder to ignore. You don’t do neutral well. The rejected quality is your natural presence and self-expression; the refusal is refusing to perform on demand or for people who don’t engage back.

Lilith in Virgo

What got rejected is your attention to the small details, your standards, and your way of improving things. So when someone dismisses your input or calls you “too critical,” your refusal shows up through precision. You double down on correcting, fixing, or pointing things out, or you stop helping entirely and let things fall apart. You don’t like being told to lower your standards. The refusal is either over-functioning or opting out completely. You won’t meet people halfway if halfway feels inefficient or careless.

Lilith in Libra

You learned that your desire for fairness, balance, or mutuality wasn’t always respected. So now, when something feels uneven, your refusal is relational. You might people-please at first, but once you clock the imbalance, you pull back or subtly shift the dynamic. You stop giving the same energy, delay responses, or disengage without a direct confrontation. You don’t like open conflict, but you won’t keep participating in something that feels one-sided. The refusal is quiet but deliberate, changing how you show up.

Lilith in Scorpio

What got rejected is your intensity, like how deeply you feel, observe, and connect/bond to things. So when trust feels off or someone tries to keep things casual your refusal is absolute. You either go deeper (asking direct questions, confronting things directly) or you shut access down completely. There’s no halfway. You don’t tolerate ambiguity around loyalty or honesty. The refusal is in how you control access and information. If something feels hidden or manipulative, you either expose it or remove yourself entirely.

Lilith in Sagittarius

You learned that your need for freedom, truth, or independent thinking was restricted. So now when someone tries to limit your options or define your beliefs, your refusal is to expand on things. You push back by questioning everything, challenging perspectives, or leaving the situation altogether. You don’t stay where you feel boxed in. Sometimes you overcorrect by rejecting structure entirely. The rejected quality is your autonomy and perspective; the refusal is refusing to commit to anything that feels like it closes you in.

Lilith Capricorn

What got rejected is your ambition, authority, or desire for control over your path. So when someone undermines your competence or tries to manage you, your refusal shows up through distance and control. You become more self-reliant, less expressive, and harder to access. Or you overcompensate by taking on more responsibility and proving your capability. You don’t like depending on people who might limit you. The refusal is structured, you set boundaries through actions, not words.

Lilith in Aquarius

You learned that your differences (your ideas, your way of seeing things) were often outside the social norms or expectations. So when you feel pressured to conform or agree your refusal is to detach from things. You disengage, go against the grain, or deliberately choose the opposite stance. You don’t like being predictable or categorized. Sometimes you resist just to maintain independence. The rejected quality is your individuality; the refusal is refusing to align just to keep things comfortable.

Lilith in Pisces

Western astrology uses the concept of the Shadow to describe parts of your personality that you repress, deny, or project onto other people.

Pluto The planet of the underworld, trauma, power, and deep transformation. It rules your darkest fears and your greatest potential for rebirth.

Lilith (Black Moon) A mathematical point representing your raw, untamed instinct, hidden passions, and the parts of yourself you refuse to compromise on.

The Descendant The point directly opposite your Ascendant (Rising sign). It often represents qualities you reject in yourself but unconsciously look for in your partners.

Let's dive deeper into how these cosmic shadows operate. In both psychology and astrology, your shadow is not evil. it is simply unconscious.Here is more actionable information about how these placements create specific challenges and hidden strengths in your life.

The Power of Pluto Where You Die and Are Reborn

The Pluto House Whichever house Pluto occupies is where you experience your deepest crises, betrayals, and power struggles.The Cycle In that specific area of life, you will experience a burn it all down moment. Pluto forces a symbolic death so you can rebuild yourself stronger.The Gift Once you stop running from the fear in your Pluto house, you gain absolute mastery, personal power, and unshakeable resilience in that area.

The Rebellion of Lilith Your Untamed Self

Black Moon Lilith shows where you refuse to play by society’s rules. It represents a raw, primal energy that you might feel ashamed of because others have judged it.

The Suppression Early in life, people often suppress their Lilith placement to fit in. This causes internal rage or a feeling of being misunderstood.

The Projection If you suppress your Lilith, you will highly admire or fiercely judge people who openly express those exact traits.

Something I want to talk about more is the way people come to black moon Lilith expecting to find their power and instead find their wound.

And it makes sense. Lilith is the "bad girl" placement, the seductive one, the one that makes your eyes light up when you spot it in your chart. But what she actually represents is the part of you that got exiled. The desire that got you punished. The version of you that you learned to conceal because showing it cost you something real.

Lilith in the 7th doesn't just mean you attract intense partners. It means you were taught early that being too magnetic, too direct, too unapologetically yourself was dangerous in love. So you learned to make yourself smaller. And then you kept attracting people who needed you to stay that way.

Lilith in the 10th doesn't just mean career turbulence or public controversy. It means the world looked at your ambition and called it threatening. So you either overperformed trying to earn your right to take up space, or you self-sabotaged before anyone else could do it first.

Lilith in the 12th doesn't just mean hidden desires. It means your wildness got buried so deep that you stopped recognizing it as yours.

What I find most striking is that the Lilith placement rarely shows you something you don't already know. You feel it. You've always felt it. What the chart gives you is language for something that's been living in your body your whole life, waiting to be named.

If you've been circling your Lilith placement and wondering what it's actually trying to tell you about your patterns, your relationships, or the version of yourself you keep almost becoming that's exactly what I do. readings are open on ko-fi. I'll tell you what I actually see.

(Astrology Observations)

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☀️ Leo Placements especially Sun/Moon/Rising/Venus have a shining face/body in general their skin shines a lot and is good because it indicates healthy skin, they may also have a very complex beauty like you need to stare at them for a bit to just admire their beauty

☀️ 5°, 17°, and the 29th° degrees indicate fame and recognition, sometimes getting a lot of attention, on the sun/ascendant/midhaven can give those things (Jupiter in those degrees extends the beauty of the native)

☀️Juno in Fire Signs love with a passion and need a passionate relationship/partner, they're very fierce and need to feel loved at fullest

☀️ Aquarius/Virgo Moon/Rising/Mercury are so analytical, they will analyze everything about a person like their eyes/face/clothes/body/behavior etc.. 😲😲

☀️ Scorpio Venus/Mars/Rising/Juno can definitely experience getting or having jealous partners, (or possesive) their partners can be clingy as well

☀️ Venus in your 7th house is in perfect harmony/will attract a lot of love/partners/harmony in their relationships and full of blessings

☀️ North Node aspecting Sun/Pluto/Saturn/Chiron literally gives the vibe of Lion King because of "Circle of life", like to experience things and to evolve and going from different circles of life to another

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☀️Mercury/Moon in Pisces or at Pisces Degrees (12°, 24°) have a serene/peaceful voice, I know so many people with both Pisces Mercury & Moon they are having such a calm sweet voice ❣️

☀️Try to analyze your ruler planet persona chart to discover more things about yourself, if you have 2 ruler planets look at both persona chart, if you have Leo Rising your own chart is the sun natal chart ❣️

☀️Pluto aspecting the ascendant natives are not only mesmerizing but they're full of evolution as well, you'll learn so many things if you have someone with those aspects beside you, they can teach you/make you evolve with them

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From the day we arrive on the planet

And blinking step into the sun

There's more to see than can ever be seen

More to do than can ever be done

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☀️ Don't forget that the house you have Pisces in is also ruled by the Jupiter not only by Neptune, in traditional astrology Pisces is ruled by Jupiter

☀️ Sun in Leo/Leo in the 8th house have such a magnetic energy, they're like a gemstone 💎 shinning and full of mystery in the same time

☀️ Gemini Placements esp Rising and Mars are captivating people, these natives are always having the best stories to share, they're also very communicative and open to everything

☀️ Leo/Libra/Taurus/Pisces Moons know how to give themselves and others a love treatment, I know so many of them cheering others up to make them feel better and happy

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☀️ I admire 9th house placements for their love for travelling and seeing the worlds beautiful nature, they're also outgoing from young ages and that makes them to be wild and free when they grow up

☀️ 10°, 22° are hardworking degrees, on midhaven/sun/ascendant give the vibe of a hardworking person, also shows a lot of influence upon others

☀️ 11° 23° degrees are influential degrees, on Venus these degrees can influence others based on the beauty or their fashion style/ on the midhaven influence about their work or career/on Mercury influencing about their voice/speech

☀️ Sagittarius/Aries and Gemini Degrees usually are the people talk very fast in a conversation and at the end the people can end up like "Sorry can you repeat again"

☀️ Chiron in the 4th/6th/12th houses natives may like to stay alone for a bit to relax or to calm themselves, they really need peace of mind

☀️ Sun/Mars in the 10th house shows someone who is focusing a lot on their work/job/career and its very confident about it, they may also stay over the program or overworking to put more on themselves

☀️ Venus aspecting the north node has a very beautiful journey in life, to learn how to love themselves and how to be loved, to learn what healthy and true love feels like (all aspects)

☀️ Ascendant aspecting the Moon are having a specific beauty, some of them may have big sparkling eyes, maybe oval face, beautiful smile

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☀️ Lilith Leo/Lilith in the 5th house or Lilith aspecting Sun can feel unseen/unloved at times or they can feel people like people don't give them the attention they deserve, and is not like that, I know there is someone who loves you for who you are ❣️❣️❣️

☀️ Moon/Venus and North Node in the 3rd house create a very beautiful connection with their siblings (if they have) and a harmonious relationships

☀️ Pluto in the 2nd house has a transformative energy towards their value and worth, because you have to realize that you're worth it and you deserve the best

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There's far too much to take in here

More to find than can ever be found

But the sun rolling high

Through the sapphire sky

Keeps great and small on the endless round

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☀️ Mercury/Jupiter/ Venus & Sun in the 11th house create wonderful friendships, their friends can be everything for some of these natives and be a blessing in their lives ❣️

☀️ Jupiter aspecting the Sun/Moon or Ascendant can make the native extremely optimistic and lucky, they are having a good vibe and love to see/make other people happy with their presence

☀️ Aries Moon/Rising/Venus/Sun can be clingy/possesive and over protective it kills me sometimes how underatted these placements are when it comes to those things

☀️Mars in Earth Signs feels so full with responsibiliies at times, Mars struggles and loves it here in the same time, it gives them an bossy aura or energy too

☀️ Mars/Jupiter/Saturn/Pluto in the 1st house natives usually have a lot of body strength, they can work in gym or maybe having a muscle body or a good fit and still be strong

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☀️ Neptune in the 1st house natives are having a great connection with their subconscious or spiritual world. These natives are highly spiritual and easily connect with their subconscious mind/soul

☀️ Neptune at 1°, 13° and 25th° degrees usually have a lot of energy and easily can get overstimulated, they be doing more things at once and hate it when it gets boring

☀️ Lilith aspecting Mars can be the ultimate femme fatale energy let me tell you how tricky this placement is cus it makes people to hate and love you in the same time (to hate you I mean some people may just not like you and because Mars is a male planet those people can be men at times)

☀️ Uranus/Sun aspecting Mars can bless the native with a lot of body motion,they can be good at dancing in general things that have to do with body movement

☀️ Uranus aspecting Sun is a vibe I swear, I love their energy they're like "C'mon let's do this thing I'm so excited for it" and the next minute they be coming with another idea and another ✨ innovative✨

☀️ Dark Lilith (58) in the 8th/12th house for in Scorpio/Pisces the native has surreal energy, not gonna lie we talk about dark lilith here these so it manifest with rage/intensity/mystery and even hypnotic vibes at times

☀️ If you have your ascendant not aspecting that many planets in your chart or an empty ascendant you'll have an easy time with discovering yourself and feeling like yourself

☀️ Having an empty 7th house is actually beneficial because long terms relationships will come easier for you with this house being empty

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☀️ Capricorn Placements are known for being hardworking and respected in their environments but I cannot stand the fact when someone calls them cold or mean or idk what other things because I rarely met Capricorns like that, I say this as a Capricorn Myself 🐐♑

☀️ Uranus aspecting Venus natives can manifest in 2 categories as, wanting or having multiple crushes or people that you like or find attractive or being confused in their love life (omg sometimes indicating love triangles forgot that)

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It's the circle of life❂

❂And it moves us all

Through despair and hope❂

❂Through faith and love

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☀️Sun or Moon in the 9th house or in Sagittarius can have a passion about writing ✍🏼 like in their diaries or maybe writing books/mini stories

☀️ Pluto in Scorpio Generation was meant to bring back things that were classified by people as "taboo/forbidden" how many celebrities during the Pluto in Scorpio Generation were called bad names because they were bringing such things back...😨😨

☀️ Ascendant sextile or semi - sextile the sun has an easily likeable energy, a lot of people can like them because of their personality and aura

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☀️ Whenever I say "aspecting" in my observations I also mean the "parallels and contra parallels" and even the "minor aspects" like "quintile/Bi-quintile/semi-sextile/semi-square etc...

☀️ "Quintile" aspects are very beneficial idk why so many people consider them minor aspects they're pretty powerful in the chart

☀️ Aries and in general a lot of fire placements in the chart shows a hot temper, someone who gets easily angered or annoyed but not like in a crazy way

☀️ Juno asteroid code (3) in Pisces or Pisces Degrees (12°, 24°) have a special bounding, maybe love at first sight?? Falling in love quickly too and sometimes shy in love

☀️Juno asteroid code (3) in Capricorn or in Capricorn Degrees (10°, 22°) most natives have a long lasting relationships, respectful placements, even successful and hardworking partners

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𓃭Nants ingonyama bagithi baba

Sithi uhm ingonyama𓃭

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Sithi uhm ingonyama𓃭

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☀️ I remember vividly that last year on the same day I posted some Venus notes observations, for this year I wanted the theme to be different and I choose my favorite Disney movie: The Lion King (The movie from 2019 had me crying on me knees), the native language,the storyline, THE MUSIC OFC and the flora/fauna & overall the sub-saharan Africa is wonderful and beautiful, and because it happens to be my birthday in the same day I wanted to make this post in time 🥳☀️ The funny thing is that finally now I can check that solar return chart for the new year 2024 🥳

☀️ I hope you all have an amazing day full of love, blessings, a good vibe/energy and just do the things you love and that make you happy ☀️

The 10th House Lilith is the dynamic of the webs, the grid of parallels, uncertainties, changes and projectors of influence. The interlacing of society as it grows and continues to form anew.

The debilitatation of this placement is the burden of emotionally recieving and carrying the responsibility of steps, motion, reactions and chain reactions in ever developing foresight. The weight can feel stagnative and plentiful. Until new information carries, communications and channels of reception change. The 10th House is our record of development.

And in Lilith she often bears it more than others will have caught. Lilith in Capricorn may view her public perceptions with ease and other times with hesitations. When the Lilith person is young the may hardly view themselves internally and base their efficacy by the positive alignment of their endeavours, dismissing the negatives and focusing on development.

Lilith here fears making the same mistakes, fears forgiving unstable foundations and must learn to tear blame from shoulders to bare. They can become tense and uneasy through distrust but long for harmonious community. In releasing their fair considerations they share their forgiving nature for reforms and turnarounds for the insufficient, that are the revivals of shared hope and inspiration.

In time they confront themes revealing times of pass that they review with seriousness from moral impacts and intellectual understanding, observation and compassion. Thus so, fulfilling due justices for themselves and others. Their experiences are rooted and they are more empassioned for that as they spread empowerment. No matter to who is willing to address what this Lilith placement asks us to recieve. Complexity, capacity where there was limitations, courage.

This earth 🌎 sign placement learns the hard lessons from the world and will not permit history to erase. They ask sentimentalities, they challenge standards, things that affect the undercurrents of peoples interactions. The Capricorn Lilith is delivering the news, raising the questions to uncomfortable distances, boundaries of fear, anxiety and confusion.

They linger in the subconscious of others until one has allowed accountability of their own acts in the lives they share with others. How could you have a better life for yourself, how could you show up for the world untethered and to let go. To then achieve self outstanding pride and anticipation, the very thing Capricorn motivates themselves with.

That is why they're percievably intimidating because the inquiries lie on everybody's heads. On everybody's cooperation.

Though the Lilith in Capricorn may assert their authenticity seriously, there is a non-judgment that springs from care. To facilitate and value the support of transformation in it's rocky process of acceptance.

This is not a placement where shame is merely addressed but illuminated to palatability once the glare of light wears from sight. This is the enduring power of this sign and this Lilith, to supply necessary strides in our shared story of humanity. Lilith in Capricorn asks us to raise our standards to desire. To crave, create and fulfill our awareness in rhythm with our physical plane.

Spreading weaves to display our own true recognitions.