#lifescript

A LIFE SCRIPT 1.     List any physical problems you have. Pimples in my face, nose, height. 2.     What have you been told about your birth? My parents said that I should not born because before me, they planned that my mom will undergo with ligate procedure. 3.     Describe your mother briefly as you remember her any time you were twelve years old. My mom is so understanding and hard-working woman. 4.     What would you have needed to do or say to please her when you were in the first, second, or third grade? To please my mom, I would just hug her tightly, massage her hands or feet and kiss her. 5.     Describe your father briefly as you remember him any time before you were twelve years old. My father is alcoholic drinker. he was always drank and wasted when he got home. 6.     What would you have needed to do or say to please him when you were in the first, second, or third grade? I didn't do something to please him because I hated him for drinking alcohol so hard but when he go home and looking for food, I will offer or buy food for him. 7.     What did your mother say when she complimented you (as early as you can remember)? My mom is a person who don't actually give affirmation to us, I grown up with that personality. 8.     What did she say when she criticized you (as early as you can remember)? As far as I remember, she didn't criticized me. 9.     How did she punish you? How did you feel when she did? When she was really angry, because I didn't follow her rule, I experience to kneel down on the floor with salt, hands forward with two books, that was when I am Eight years old. I feel sad and angry at the same time because of what she did, but later on I understand what she did. 10. What did your father say when he complimented you? He didn't complimented me. 11. What did he say when he criticized you (as early as you can remember)? When he was really angry with me because I told him that he always go home wasted, He told me that I was just his semen, and I am just his child so I don't have rights to tell him what he have to do. 12. How did he punish you? How did you feel when he did? When I was Ten years old, he beat me with his belt because I disobeyed him, that is the last time that he hurt me physically. 13.  What nicknames have people called you? What do the names mean to you? In our house, my family used to call me by my whole first name, "Janine". It means for me that my name is strong. 14. What did your mother want you to be? She just want me to finish my study with degree, because she didn't experience to finish her study. 15. What do you do currently? Is it what you want to be? Studying and looking for part time work to earn money. No because I wanted to be a teacher, teaching special children.. 16. What did your father want you to be? He also wanted me to finish my study, without naming want they want me to be. 17.  What was your relationship to each brother or sister as you were growing-up? We always fight in petty things when we are in our house, but we protect each other if we are outside the house. 18. Please state their names, different in ages, and a short phrase about each to describe relationship. Jobert Gaytos, 28 years old. My eldest brother, He was bully and selfish. Chona Gaytos, 27 years old, She is generous and a happy person. Ana Marie Gaytos, 23 years old, She's lazy that's why she didn't finish her study, she's always stay in her friends. 19.  Describe your education and employment history. I've finished my second course, Bachelor in Business Management Major in Building & Property Management. I am now employed in a real estate company in Makati. 20. What is remarkable-either good or bad about your high school, your college years, and the jobs you have held? My high school life was good because I enjoyed and experience to dance at our Prom night, though my parents didn't support me to do the make-ups and to look good. In my college life, it is hopeful because I should had finish it last year, I should working now, but because I want  to finish my study having my Diploma. 21. How do you express your angry feelings toward others? I didn't express it, I just keep quite. 22. Do you ever feel like something might be wrong with you? If yes, what? Yes, because I don't have boy friend. if it's reasonable. 23. Describe the bad feeling you have most often in your life. When did you first feel it? Bad feeling is close to killing something, It's really dangerous. I felt it when my father said to me that I am just his child, comes from him. 24.  What was a worst thing apparent or a parent substitute ever did to you? How did you react? Compare with their child. I feel bad and angry at the same time. 25.  If everything goes right, what will you be doing five years from today? If everything goes right, I think I am teaching special children today. 26.  How do you think you will die? At what age? I will die peacefully sleeping at the age of 100. 27.  How would you like to be remembered? I don't want them to remember me because I do good things or good deeds, but I want them to remember me because they loved me. 28. What would “heaven on earth” be for you? Heaven on Earth to me should be peaceful, full of happiness and love. 29. What do you wish your mother had done differently in parenting you? I wish that she show to us that she appreciated us, and she should be showy towards her feelings to us. 30.What do you wish your father had done differently in parenting you? I wish that he drink occasionally, not every day. 31.How are you as a parent? I am not yet a parent. 32. If you could change anything about you by magic, what would you change? I will change my/our financial status. it's hard to be poor and don't have our own house. 33. Describe any other significant female in your life before the age of ten. She was a mother figured to me. She guided me in life: Financially, Mentally & Emotionally. 34. Describe any other significant male in your life before the age of ten. He loves to give candy & money once we ask for it. 35.How many marriages have you had? Please list and say what happened. None. 36.  How many children do you have? List names, ages, and three characteristics. None. 37. Describe your current spouse or “significant other”. Is your marriage or relationship satisfying” Are you happy? 38. What about your work or career? Are you where you thought you would be? What happens next? Yes. I am in a real estate firm as what expected. I am happy with my co-employee and my work. Chao! :)