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So first of all, welcome welcome. I kinda just want to lay some vents down. I've been swiping right for about 6 months now and I've noticed a lot of patterns with people especially on Tinder: nobody wants to chat on the fucking app. It sucks. The notifications are crappy, the user interface is dodgy, and it just sucks. So right off the bat, even if you match with someone, it is extremely difficult to hold a convo with them. You are basically set up to fail if you don't get a snapchat handle sent to them within the first day. After that, things pretty much go dark. Once you've gotten over that hurtle, you have to keep a good convo going with this person and actually attempt to get to know them. Just last night I matched with a girl, we chatted for an hour and I offered to take her for a late coffee. AMAZINGLY she said yes and we had a whole plan to meet at a shop between us, and low and behold the shop closed 30 minutes before our designated time, so I'm freaking out, trying to find a new place to meet up because I'm leaving town the next day and really just want some company in this moment. I let her know what's going on and suggest a place, my girl straight up never even read the damn message. We were actually starting to connect and she totally just gave up and blew me off. And this is the whole reason I hate online dating. It's like playing #darksouls . I got the furthest with a person I had been able to reach in over a month and I still ended up back at square 1. She hasn't even bothered reaching out since. And I want to make something clear: I understand that this is %100 a first world problem, and that life happens, shit happens, I'm not even really that bothered by this because it's what typically happens in my experience. It's just frustrating that people flake out so easily when a legitimate connection is attempting to be had with them. This is why online dating sucks. This is why meeting people in person is so much better to begin with. And you're probably gonna say "well Cat, if you don't like online dating then you should just stop". And you're not wrong, I know I'm literally yelling into the void, and I acknowledge that the issues probably lie within myself. I don't ignore those factors. It just surprises me that people give up so easily. Thanks for listening 🖤

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