#lifeisagame

For many Filipinos, losing a job—whether through layoff, termination, or choosing to leave—can feel like a personal setback. But the truth is, there’s absolutely nothing wrong with it. Job loss is not a failure; it's simply part of the career journey, and it happens to people all over the world.

The Filipino culture, with its history of colonization and societal expectations, often pressures us to view our jobs as defining achievements. After centuries under Spanish rule, there's a tendency in our society to view “success” as something that sets one above others. This can lead to a culture of comparison, where those who seek opportunities abroad are sometimes seen as more successful than those who remain. However, job loss is a universal experience, not a mark of one's worth.

As Frank Sinatra famously sang, “That’s life. You're riding high in April, shot down in May, but you’ll be back on top in June.” These words remind us that setbacks are temporary. Rather than letting job loss bring us down, let’s focus on getting back up with our heads held high.

Moving Forward with Resilience

If you’re facing job loss, remember: this moment doesn’t define you. It’s just a temporary chapter. Shake it off, pick yourself up, and move forward. You’re not a failure; you’re just waiting for the next deal in the game of life.

Every move in life is like a game. And so you need to ask and consider a few questions: what are the rules of the game? what are the risk of the game? What are the possible rewards? What happens if it’s wrong move? What are the consequences of making the wrong move? Is there any opportunity for second chance? Is there any cheat codes? Can you possibly cheat and get away with? What’s the…