#lf advice

we’re starting to question if we’re fictkin, but every time we try to figure out what signs we show that point towards it, we end up semi convincing ourselves that its THIS CHARACTER in a “if i was fictionkin id want to be one of this guy and nobody else” “voluntary” way, and its making us feel bad for questioning cus we know being fictionkin isnt really a. voluntary thing (to our knowledge atleast) :-(

and we dont think we even show any signs that COULD point towards us being fictionkin,, and i know that someone is gonna say “well fictionkin is a spectrum not all of us are the same” or something like that,

but even if it is a spectrum, where do we sit on that spectrum?? where WOULD we sit????we’re already on the sidelines of the therianthropy experience spectrum aswell as the plurality spectrum, so i guess this isnt our first rodeo with not fitting in anywhere on the “large and all-encompassing spectrum”.

try not to be too condescending or denying when giving us advice pls,,, as even though we’re kind of asking for it, we dont,, take well to our suspicions and concerns being proved false (identity issues are already heavy enough so losing another grip on it makes us upset)

edit: yoohoo more to go off of,,,