💎 Our Top 10 Tips for Making The Best out of The New Year:
Tip #1: Allow God to be your foundation.
God has to be the firmest foundation in your life. Go to him with and for everything. With the Most High, you are not only protected, corrected and forgiven, you are also loved beyond measures and guided to your highest potential. This year there will be many obstacles but remember Jesus is The Prince of Peace (Isaiah 9:6) and you are never alone!
Tip #2 : Be Intentional.
It’s as simple as it sounds, do everything with intention 💎 you simply can not afford to play with your potential this year. You are too valuable. Every decision, every action, and every thought should be aligned with your deeper purpose. When you approach life with clarity and focus, you create a ripple effect that transforms not only your own experience but also those around you. Embrace this mindset, and watch how opportunities flourish, relationships deepen, and fulfillment becomes a consistent part of your journey. Intentional living is not just a practice; it’s a lifestyle that leads to profound growth and connection. Always speak life into yourself and your situation. So, take a moment to reflect on your intentions and let them guide you toward a life that resonates with your true self.
Tip #3: Learn when & how to say NO.
As the new year approaches, remember that being selfish can be a positive trait. We're not suggesting you become like Ebenezer Scrooge, but it's important to know when to prioritize yourself. You cannot pour from an empty cup. Saying "no" doesn’t mean you’re failing those who love and respect you—keep that in mind.
Tip #4: If it doesn’t align, let it fly.
As the new year approaches, it's the perfect time to confidently reflect on your experiences—recognizing what worked and what didn’t. This year, you'll master the art of identifying what truly aligns with your goals and what you need to release. Trust yourself and embrace this journey ahead.
Tip #5: Self-care isn’t just a luxury, it’s a necessity.
As a woman, it's crucial to prioritize self-care. Women of BFS understand that self-care is an essential part of their journey. When you feel empowered and confident, you'll align yourself with becoming the best version of yourself. Self-care isn't just about pampering your outer appearance—though that is important—but also about nurturing your mind and soul. This is how you heal and effortlessly exist in your femininity. So, this year, self-care is a must sis. Take care of yourself.
Tip #6: If you can’t afford to buy it twice, don’t buy it once.
We told you, There is nothing soft about being broke (see post here) a game changer this year will be how you decide to invest and save your money. If you can’t afford to buy it twice, don’t buy it once. How you handle $100 will determine how you will handle $1000. Luxury is a mindset thing before an aesthetic. The fools will blow it, the wise will multiply it.
Tip #7: Stay Exclusive
Tap into your IT GIRL energy this upcoming year. Dont let everyone have access to you. This includes your body, ladies! You must protect your energy. Being exclusive also means staying true to who you are. This is how your aura is created... Have you ever seen a woman who is so authentic that she draws people in effortlessly? Her confidence radiates, and her presence is felt long after she has left the room. It's as if she has a magnetic yet mysterious quality that sets her apart from the rest. This woman is YOU this year. Tap into HER! 💋
Tip #8: Dont double back & stand on it!
9 times out of 10, you’ve been released from that experience for a reason. Whether is a job, a man, a friendship or even a bad habit! You must avoid returning to what caused you pain and hindered your purpose. Take your L’s as lessons and move forward with more wisdom and knowledge. What’s behind you can rarely comprehend what’s ahead of you, don’t bring dead weight into this new year!
Tip #9: Don't be afraid to be SEEN!!
Listen, we know all too well how much an isolation season is needed but so is your pop-out season sis. God didn’t put you in that season for you to hide all that he’s been working within you. You can do this and still be humble, and kind and still give thanks to GOD. When you pop out think of it as being released from the shackles of the enemy! THEY CAN'T HOLD YOU DOWN! So many times we get too comfortable in our preparation season; we start sleeping on the very thing we were designed to become! Don’t let that be your reality this year babe.
Tip #10: Take The Risk.
Bet on yourself! This is a year that you will be happy to do things that scare you! Believe in yourself! This is the year to embrace challenges that intimidate you! View this as a chance for personal growth and development. You will learn that when the year is done, you will appreciate the fact that you have stepped outside your comfort zone and tried; putting you in positions you never thought you'll be in! You miss 100% of of the shots you dont take. 💋
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Coach exemplifies the significance of a rebrand. Don't be afraid to rebrand, ladies! Embrace the opportunity to reinvent yourself and your image. A fresh perspective can open doors to new possibilities, attract a wider audience, and rejuvenate your passion. Take inspiration from those who have successfully navigated change and emerged stronger.
📌 Rebranding is not just about aesthetics; it's about aligning your values and mission with your current goals.
They'll laugh at you when you're hustling, but praise you when you become a millionaire.
Besties,
I hope this message finds you well and in high spirits. Today, I want to remind you of the importance of trusting the process, even when it seems challenging or others cannot see the vision you hold so dear. Remember, it is not your responsibility to convince others to see what you see; instead, your focus should be on bringing your vision to life.
In pursuit of your dreams and goals, there will inevitably be moments of doubt, discouragement, and frustration. However, I urge you not to give up. Embrace the obstacles as opportunities for growth and channel your energy into making your vision a reality. Believe in yourself, your abilities, and the unique talents you possess. Trust that you are capable of achieving great things.
Sometimes, it may be necessary to isolate yourself from negativity or distractions that hinder your progress. Surround yourself with positivity, inspiring individuals, and like-minded people who believe in your vision. Seek solitude if needed, as it can provide clarity and allow you to focus on what truly matters.
In addition to isolation, consider incorporating fasting into your journey. Fasting is not only a means of cleansing the body but also a powerful practice for strengthening your mind and spirit. It allows you to develop discipline, resilience, and a deeper connection with yourself. When you fast, you tap into a wellspring of inner strength that can guide you through any challenges you may face.
Lastly, but most importantly, never underestimate the power of prayer. Remember that you are a beloved daughter of God, and He is always there to guide and support you. Through prayer, you can find peace, inspiration, and the strength to overcome any obstacles that come your way.
Besties, trust the process and have faith. Keep pushing forward, and never lose sight of the amazing things you are capable of achieving. The world is waiting for you to make your mark, so go out there and shine!
With love and support,
— The Black Feminine Society 💋
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I created this brand back in 2021. We started off as @stopbeinghumblesis on instagram. Since then the name has changed and evolved until we got to TRGG. The official brand name is THE RETIRED GOOD GIRL. But you get it it's cute like this is my diary in a way because I'm sharing my lessons.
I started my level up journey about a year before I started the brand. I just left my ex who I didn't like all that much, and I was heavily reading books on femininity, and in the OG Level Up Facebook Groups, the real low-key ones. I've had skin in the game for a minute. I won't say names but I was watching the heavy hitters on YouTube, especially the OG women who wanted black women specifically to level up.
I used to get on myself because I felt like my level up was taking too long to manifest in the physical, I hated that I didn't look the part. I have so much to share, but I just want to say it's a marathon not a race. Looks definitely matter like 100% don't get me wrong but, this is a game of energetics.
Here's how the TRGG experience in all this is a little different. I had a hard time believing life was a game. I was the naive, in her own world (I'm still in my own world I'm just not naive lol) little girl who couldn't fathom the thought that people could envy me... I didn't see anything of value in my current reality I wanted to upgrade. To me it was scraps and I was never worried about what the next woman or man had, I just wanted MINES. I could go into more detail on why having a jealous mother, or just an unhealed mother wound is the culprit, or a MAJOR culprit in this type of world view on another post.This perspective is what held me back... among other things.
TOP 5 things that I now OVERSTAND:
External Validation is a collar, Retired Good Girls (RGGs) are free. They are their own masters.
2. Power dynamics are so real, make sure you dominate.
3. If you can't stand being disliked, this is not the life for you.
4. Move in silence, this is a jungle, and whether you are prey or a predator NEVER REVEAL YOUR POSITION.
5. If you're leveling up solely, to get a man... you are still lost. This is about SELF, most importantly self preservation.
