#leejonghyun

To those of you who were happy the "trash" is out, we get where you're coming from. He's done so many things that ruined the name of the Legends of Kpop Rock. We get it. We understand.

But please don't make her the "hero" of the situation. Don't ask us to give her respect when she herself doesn't know how to respect other people. If she feels offended by that message (I'm sure he's not the only one who sends her malicious messages), she should have replied to him by saying what she really feels. Common courtesy is what it's called. It wasn't as if he publicized his "creepy" message. It was sent in privacy. She could have shown him the decency (if she really is a decent girl) of sending him a reply but she screen captured his message and posted it online for all to see. For what? What could be the real reason why she posted his dm? What was so offensive and damaging to that frigging dm that she has to expose it like that? Isn't that also a form of bullying if your intention is to humiliate/defame others just coz you can? People these days act all high and noble thinking they are better than others... Judging people while standing on their soapbox. Yes, such hypocrites exist more now than ever.

I just can't read Hangul so I don't have an idea what the comments are on her Youtube videos (and I don't want to watch any of it for it will increase the number of views) but I'm sure there are degrading comments there that objectifies her as a woman. But judging from the photos posted on her account, it seems like she herself wanted to be objectified.

Those who will fight me on this article, I'm talking about this incident alone. Let's leave the other issues in another topic.

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Im such a baby, I've been crying so much about him and it's been almost 4 months already. I just miss him so much it hurts. I've already coped with the fact that he's gone, I just can't stop being sad about how he was in so much pain that he felt taking his life was the only way out. I wish we could've helped him more, given him a new view and made him happy. And I can't stop my mind from thinking about how he ended it and it gives me a dull feeling inside my chest, one of the questions that hurt my heart more than anything was, if you were smiling when you left.. if you were happy to be relieve of the pain, I'm so sorry jonghyun stans reading this, I just can't stop myself from thinking and these things, tearing myself apart. I love and miss him so much it's indescribable. I've lost someone who helped me through so much and here I am spiraling out of control again. Im trying my best, in the end I hope they'll tell me I did well too. I hope to see him again when my time is done but hopefully I can pull through and be alright so it won't be for a while. I love you Jonghyun, I hope you are doing well.