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The way "influencers" still make shitting on Marie Kondo their entire personality is so embarrassing.
I've decided my summer project is gonna be combining everything I can from these two books
Last night I reread Marie Kondo's book and it really is a standout approach, especially as it pertains to sorting and choosing what to keep and how to approach letting go. However, some of her advice for organizing is something that I just know i won't keep up with, so that's where the second book comes in.
I already think that I can find accessibility overlap from just the Konmari side:
Going through all your items and handling them individually when deciding what to keep, to prevent item-blindness
Storing things so that each one is visible, so that you know what you have and what you don't
Especially true for sentimental items, because they work best to make you happy when you can see them
No swapping out "seasonal storage" since you'll forget what's in there, and half the time you'll need something soon after you put it away
Store like items together so you know where to go to look for something
Nonjudgmental thoughts on how to approach cleaning in a way that centers respect for yourself, personifying belongings as wanting to help you and being satisfied when their job is done, and letting your space help you live
Mentioned this in the tags of a post I reblogged but I’ll forever be grateful to Marie Kondo for her advice of telling objects we’re getting rid of “thank you and goodbye”. She doesn’t chastise or insult people who have emotional attachments to objects, she doesn’t try to embarass us, she instead meets us where we are and goes “you know what, why don’t you try to give them a proper send-off?”. AND IT WORKS! Before I found her books I had so much trouble getting rid of stuff cuz id be like “but it makes me feel bad to get rid of [insert thing here] like its worthless or did something wrong just because i dont use it anymore”, but now with the thank-you-and-goodbye method my life has been improved massively. Thank you Marie so much <3
Marie Kondo "that object you didn't enjoy or use fulfilled its roll in your life by teaching you something about yourself, it wasn't a waste and it's okay to let it go knowing its given you what you needed from it" revolutionary
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Hey guys, if you’re needing something to do this weekend, maybe declutter and clean!
I think the appeal of the konmari method for me is like... It feels flexible enough to adapt to a fairly wide array of parameters, for one, and also it has solid guidelines for making organizing easier. Like, obviously there's always stuff to leave and take in any method, I did not mesh with the spiritual aspect of thanking the objects you let go of, but for me the bits that were truly life changing are:
Does this spark joy? Do you need it? If the answer is no on both counts, then you might benefit from getting rid of it ('how likely are you to need it in the future' and 'can you afford to replace it' are important follow up questions if you're tight on money, but imo they don't necessarily contradict the original message)
If you want things tidy, easy to put back is more important than easy to get out
Thinking about and acknowledging the things you got and learned from owning an object (including 'I learned I really disliked this stuff') really helps in fighting the feelings of fear or anxiety or shame that can accompany getting stuff out of your life. If you think of an object as 'I spent money and did nothing with it' it's harder to let go than if you think 'well, that was a however many dollars lesson'
And while I agree that there are qualifying factors (cultural, financial, familial etc) those principles in themselves are decent guidelines? As in, yes, depending on how much money you have your ability to prioritize joy will be limited! At the same time, if you have to drastically downsize because you fell on hard time and you have even a teeny tiny bit of free space, knowing what brings you the most joy to fit in there can be a game changer in how you handle your situation, whether it's temporary or ongoing
Similarly with kids, obviously having children (especially young children) in the house will limit your ability to stay on top of clutter, but also having a sorting system that's geared towards helping you kids put away their stuff will probably help you reduce the general level of mess you have to deal with on a daily basis, and also probably give you slightly more free time when you don't have to wonder where the fuck you can put stuff down
And on top of that, I do believe that considering what you have in your home, how it go there and why you keep it, opens the door to a whole lot of thinking about the circumstances of your life, what they were, how they affect you, and what you want them to be, and that can be pretty beneficial to your mental health
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