i think the problem is, she's damned if does, damned if she doesn't with how sam fans respond to her every move. regardless of if she's talking about him or not, his fans are going to immediately think it's about him, or make it about him, and thus it doesn't matter what she does.
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And that is exactly why I would prefer the song slapping them in face. I also think that this type of going back and forth is childish in a way from both sides. If Kat would stuck herself with only making songs about Sam (no matter how much cloud it gives her), then it would make the whole situation look like two kids fighting eo. Personally for Kat good wellbeing I would wish for her to do one song that is a clapback to those fans and then just move on from this topic. Continuing to write songs about Sam is worthless when we know that it will always end the same way and it will just spiral into endless fight with both sides acting immature af
i get what you're saying. but personally i have to disagree a bit.
i think it's probably cathartic for her to write about sam, given that she was in an almost decade's long relationship with him. and i assume she will probably write another song about him in the future. i think what needs to change is how the fandom reacts. bc if it really doesn't matter what she has to say, there should be no reaction to her and her music.
let the girl say her peace, even if it's basically the same shit she has said before, and just ignore. i think writing a song about the fans too would be nice, but to say that she shouldn't write about sam bc it's just gonna bring up drama and she's already said everything is a bit silly, given that writing a song about the fandom would also do that.
maybe she can do a song that says fuck the haters AND sam. two for one lol
and like i said in the other ask either way she's gonna get hate bc those that don't like her are going to assume she's writing about sam again or are going to make whatever she puts out about him. she might as well continue to piss them off in the process by actually writing music about him (if she wants to, of course).
also, not that you said this but this is related bc i'm still seeing ppl talk about this whole situation: i find it strange how fans are acting like two years is somehow this huge window of time for her to have gotten over this past relationship. bc lemme tell you, when me and my ex best friend of ten years stopped being friends, it took me two years just to reregulate my emotions again and stop either crying all the time or being ready to put my head through a wall out of anger. two years is not that much time to heal and "get over" something. when i see fans say that, i just know they haven't gone through anything hard in their lives (most likely bc they are literal young teens) bc no adult with actual common sense and life experience would say something like that.










