#judgy

Its weird veing the only one amongst my friends with weird family dynamics, i don't hang out with cousins nor I want to (they're annoying asf, the huge age gaps also contribute as a reason), I'm so fucking awkward with my uncles/auntie and I barely even know them.

I don't know, I feel like the odd one out cuz I've never met anyone irl that doesn't interact with any og their close relatives, let alone extended ones.

I dont think it's my fault though if my relatives are horrible people with not one speck of kindness and basic respect in them, they're gross to be around.

so. whats everyones opinions on trans headcanons for characters??

pretty much ever since i started joining fandoms, ive never really had a problem with many headcanons EXCEPT for trans ones. sometimes when i bring this up to people, they say im being transphobic. now, im a transmasc myself, and i know people can still be transphobic WHILE being trans, but... come on man...

the reason why i dont like trans headcanons is because they just dont make sense to me. like i said, i dont usually have a problem with headcanons, but i feel like trans ones are just going a bit too far, especially when its making said character the complete OPPOSITE GENDER. like, okay yeah, i know there isnt really a limit when it comes to headcanons, but its still weird??? i mean isnt that just misgendering...?????

take this mafioso art for example (not mine obviously)

i didnt pay much attention to the fact hes wearing a bra and i just thought it was good art, but then i read the caption, and you know what it says??

"i headcanon mafioso as mtf trans"

..?????