I was struck this episode by how much Dany walks the line between the two dramatically countered types of women that the Stark sisters represent. Sansa behaves and presents like a noblewoman, including an aristocratic upbringing even in the house of the enemy. Sansa speaks, dresses, and has the social expectations of a version of feminity that is wealthy and soft. Along with that comes a knowledge of feudal logistics, communication skills, and a higher level approach to political thinking⌠her ruthlessness, when it appears, is carried out through her function as a noble. OTOH, as a different archetype Arya is a warrior with only a passing connection to the outer markers of feminity (her name, her voice, her choice of association, and very rarely her dress). Arya is direct, aggressive, and at times insensitive. She is a woman driven by purpose and disregarding of any pretense towards bearing the emotional labor of her interactions with others. She is violent not just through proxies but personally, intensely.
I look at Dany this season, and I see how theyâve crafted her as someone who walks down both those paths. Dany is very much a rich noblewoman, highly educated and getting more and more politically experienced for the last 4+ years. Danny dresses for power like Sansa does, and she by all outward appearances could resemble Sansa a great deal.
But thereâs the dragon part of Dany that is very similar to the wolf part of Arya. Dany also spent time in a culture of violence, learning what she could from it and moving on. Dany ate the horseâs heart, rode beside her Khal husband, and she is a killer, up close and personal. Her weapons are dragons not blades, but even in war she gets on her dragon and prefers to go into the fighting rather than stay in her castle. Sheâs mastered the dead-eyed stare that appears right before someoneâs gonna die. I think itâs also significant that the conflict between these two halves of Dany contributes to some of her missteps as a commander. Dany is constantly wavering between these two versions of herself, and sheâll probably wrestle with that for her whole time on the show.
Iâm not proclaiming that any of these characters are better or more interesting than the othersâwhat you like on this show is down to taste, Iâm sure, and I love all three of these women. But it interests me how in some cases the story delves into the differences between certain types, and in other cases the show gives us a character that unifies those seemingly contrasting traits.I like this set-up because I think JRRM had a lot of fun as writer creating these broadly drawn types, and then mixing them up. For example with Brienne (honorable knight), there is also Bronn (corrupt knight), and between them is Jaime (both). With a cast this large, setting up types in this way creates story variety, and lots of chances to play with the good/bad choices that characters will make.