Jolene was a young doctor just starting her career when the song that changed her life came out.
Growing up in Nashville, Jolene had been told all her life that she could be a beauty queen, a model, an actress. She was told constantly that she was beautiful, that she would make a man a fine wife someday, that she would have such pretty children. But Jolene didn't want any of that.
Jolene had spent her life dreaming of becoming a doctor, of helping men like her daddy and her pawpaw, who both died of black lung. She wanted to heal her community, to help people. She volunteered at free clinics and was a candy striper through college.
Then someone mentioned a song to her, early in her residency, that changed her life forever.
She didn't know who the man in the song was. Didn't know of any woman whose relationship she'd apparently threatened. She had no clue.
But the song had an affect on her life. Suddenly women were calling her a home wrecker, accusing her of sleeping with men she'd never met. Men were propositioning her. Boys jeered at her when she walked down the street. Girls called her vain.
Jolene, who wanted nothing more than to help people, was a pariah. Everyone thought she was a home wrecker, that she slept with married men, that she was loose. No one cared about the good things she did, the people she helped. No. A single song had ruined her life