#jesus loves

Believing in Jesus means believing on all his commandments and laws he came to fulfil. One of those commandments is to honour your parents. -“Honor your father and your mother, that your days may be long in the land that the Lord your God is giving you” -Exodus 20:12

Many might not have great parents who incentive them to pursue a relationship with Christ, but that does not mean we should dismiss what they tell us. Honouring them means, respecting things that they tell us to do (that do not put you or your relationship with Christ at risk) even though it might not please you should to comply with your parents rules because it is one of his commandments.

But its important to put your salvation and relationship with Christ first and focusing on God more. "Whoever loves father or mother more than me is not worthy of me..." "Whoever loves father or mother more than me is not worthy of me; and whoever loves son or daughter more than me is not worthy of me; and whoever does not take up the cross and follow me is not worthy of me. " - Matthew 10:37-39

Like said in the first paragraph to be a believer of Christ you need to believe in all he has said. Just like you believe all your mother tells you when you are young, but there will be times where your parents might lie to you causing for you not to trust them so often, but that the difference between Christ and your parents, the Lord will never forsake you or lie to you that’s why it is in Him that we should trust and love most above all because to love others you first need to love God Yahweh. -Keep your lives free from the love of money and be content with what you have, because God has said, “Never will I leave you; never will I forsake you.” -Hebrews 13:5

It’s important to love everyone regardless because if you love someone you will treat them with kindness and respect and that is what the Lord call us to do but some parents might teach you to hate your enemy’s or to treat who you like with kindness that’s why is it important to trust in the Lord your God. - "Trust in the Lord with all your heart, and do not lean on your own understanding. In all your ways acknowledge him, and he will make straight your paths." -Proverbs 3:5-6

Salvation is individual and you will be persecuted for telling the truth (Good News) even by your own parents that’s why it is necessary to discern if what your parents are telling you will harm your relationship with God. - From now on families will be split apart, three in favor of me, and two against—or two in favor and three against. 53 'Father will be divided against son and son against father; mother against daughter and daughter against mother; and mother-in-law against daughter-in-law and daughter-in-law against mother-in-law. -Luke 12:52-53

You might abide to what your parents said but you also might have displeased God while doing so and like Scripture tells us, God is the One that we should trust and ultimately Abide to.