I may have asked you about this before, but now I can't stop thinking about that wedding dress pic, so... What's your Han & Leia wedding headcanon?
@jhgraham and I have discussed this at length and we have some basic ideas about how we see that happening, but there are lots of details we havenât even considered yet. We have a draft doc containing bits and pieces of our thoughts on this, but weâre a long way from writing it up. Having said that, that lovely dress has sparked our imaginations!
Some broad ideas we firmly agree on:
* They wouldnât marry immediately after the Battle of Endor. We donât buy the âaccidental pregnancyâ shite that Disney wants us to buy, either. Not for Leia Organa. No chance! So we donât think a wedding happens due to pressures of impending parenthood; we also donât think it would be the first thing on their agenda in the aftermath of victory, when thereâs still so much work to do to secure real peace.
*Otoh, we really donât buy the old EU version of events, either. We think itâs ridiculous to suggest theyâd wait that long. And no way would Leia give any serious consideration to any other offers of marriage, from princes or anyone else. She is, in fact, already âmarriedâ in her heart to Han, and always will be, and likewise he to her. Cheesy as that sounds, thatâs our headcanon and weâre sticking to it! =P Â The actual formal, public wedding ceremony (which in our minds, is a mere formality) probably happens around a year (give or take a few months) after Endor.
* Over the years of their acquaintance, they probably chatted casually about marriage in a very general way (perhaps whenever some Rebels on base got married or there was something in the galactic news that sparked discussion), so each has some idea of the otherâs views on the subject long before it becomes a possibility for them.
* We think the topic probably also came up on the long trip to Bespin, not because it was even a remote possibility for them at that time, but just in the âwhat do you think about Xâ type conversations that come up at the start of any new romantic/sexual relationship phase, when youâre getting to know one another better and exchanging views.
* In the aftermath of the Battle of Endor, after the dust settles re: the Vader news and it becomes clear that Han is firmly attached and going nowhere without Leia, then the subject becomes much more relevant and weighty for them. With so many Rebels getting married and settling down after the war, itâs a topic thatâs bound to come up with increasing frequency. Maybe they do talk about it somewhat obliquely at that point...but theyâre in no particular hurry to join in the wedding frenzy. Theyâre sure of each other now. They can wait until the time is right to make a public declaration.
* Â Han has been thinking about it for waaaay longer than Leia has... and has quietly nursed hopes in that direction for much longer than he will ever admit. He has also acquired a little something that will facilitate his proposal when he makes it. More on that in the fic itself, if we ever write it!
* Itâs a family affair. When the time comes for them all to get some well-deserved post-war R&R, nobody really has a home to go to; Alderaan is gone, of course; Luke is in no hurry to go back to Tatooine, and Han doesnât exactly have fond memories of growing up on Corellia.... so they all travel with Chewie to Kashyyyk instead, where Malla and the rest of the clan give them a warm welcome. It is there that Han plans to make a formal proposal and, if Leiaâs up for it, to have a wedding as well. Just the fam. ;)
* Han knows what Leiaâs answer will be, so heâs not nervous about that, but he really wants to make it special. He plans in secret, with Luke and Chewie colluding a bit. Leia is very happy when all is revealed.
* Later, they will have a much grander public ceremony, in keeping with Leiaâs status. Hanâs okay with that; the important thing is that Leia wants him as much as he wants her, and she has agreed to spend the rest of her life with him. WIN! If he has to get a haircut and wear his dress blues, shake hands and make nice with several hundred strangers and the galactic press for a day, so be it.
Thereâs probably a lot more I could say but this is already so long. Itâs just a sketch, too! No wonder our chapters are 10k words long. Sheesh. Â
Thank you for asking! :) <3