#jaw surgery

First post yayyy

Well. I've been dating this girl almost 3 years thus far. We had our ups and downs but generally great, we also share apartment and study in same city

She likes books, so do i, same with videogames so basically dream girl

But that is never the case sadly. She has epilepsy and anger issues but that really never bothered me, i can live with pills and calming her down. I've always let her do anything she wanted (hang out with anyone, told her stop always her choice when eating out and holidays, rarely had to pay for anything. The problem started when she visited ortodont office and doc said she needs to have upper and lower jaw operation if she doesn't want to be stuck with open bite (barely fits her tongue). So she organised and got her wisdom tooth out. I said I'm against it since the start since ive got bad experience with operations and similar. (Dogs operation went badly and they left cancer inside and she died(after years of fighting cancer last year), same with my aunt(6 years ago) and cat(this year)). She knows i hates changes and I barely got used to her face as it was.

Now she still went with the surgery snd the thing is I don't disslike her looks even right after surgery. But for some reason anytime anyone mentiones it i almost throw up. I seen uncensored operation and that didn't bother me.

I don't know what to do, should i leave her, should i suffer in silence anytime i think about how she has changed? At the same time i like her personality and looks even her face and I know it would really hurt her if i left (she had bad childhood, she said all kids and even 20smth people always called her weird, freak, ugly). I don't want to hurt her

Please help