#irls

As of yesterday, I highly recommend making "$0 White Elephant Gift Exchange" a new year's tradition. Standard rules (everyone brings an unmarked gift, in random order each person picks and either unwraps a gift or steals someone else's gift and that person picks a new one. bonus Stealing Round encouraged) but it can only be something you already own and want to get rid of. Perfect for post-Christmas when you have no IDEA what to do with the stuff you've just gotten. I offloaded a whole ton of candy I don't want and the happy recipient passed it around the whole table for us to snack from. I got a Bundt pan from the newlyweds who had no intention of ever using one. Three packs of Jonas Brothers pens are on their way to someone's very serious government job. We have cranberry juice now. A Sims 3 Supernatural Expansion Pack case had $10 in it. No one went home unhappy.

one of the bigger reasons why im bad at being friends with People is that i always assume that them being nice and offering support or literally Anything makes them bitter and angry because i do that often with people unfortunately and i am a close minded person who fails to grasp the concept that other people can have Pure intentions if i do not. so this Usually ends with me only being friends with mean and or indifferent people and Pushing away people who “care”,, so its really just not that enjoyable for me and Yet i cannot do it any other way because the Guilt & internal resentment will claw at me

i know my irl has tumblr and she knows i have tumblr but we don't have each others tumblr hmmmm