#interesting read

𝙥𝙝𝙮𝙨𝙞𝙘𝙖𝙡 𝙩𝙧𝙖𝙞𝙩𝙨

well-groomed and thoughtful about their appearance. clean, hygienic, well put-together. elegant. expressive, watery and big eyes with soulful depth. might really feel drawn to water risings. doll-like features that carry softness but also intensity; a beauty that feels emotionally resonant, even a little melancholic or haunting. think of someone who just looks like they have a lot going on in their mind. a person who radiates their inner complexity and depth on the outside. could feel drawn to more feminine styling. i keep seeing the way korean actresses or mc's dress at award shows, with these long, elegant and sleek dresses. could also like expensive jewellery.

𝙥𝙚𝙧𝙨𝙤𝙣𝙖𝙡𝙞𝙩𝙮 𝙩𝙧𝙖𝙞𝙩𝙨

so, while channeling his energy, i kept getting this piscean archetype all across the board. i see anton feeling very drawn to people who embody this dreamlike, neptuney and otherworldly type of energy. someone who just looks like they live in their own separate world.

i heard these lines from the song creep by radiohead “you're just like an angel, you float like a feather”

i can see him feeling attracted to people who look expensive, but also aren't easily attainable. he does want them to have some true value to them, in a way where they don't immediately give in to everyone, and make him realize they're a prize that's not easily secured. he wants to feel like he's the special person capable of winning them over.

anton likes it when a person awakens his imagination. he just wants to feel like.. this is a person who's quite literally meant for me. he wants to feel like they're this perfect match, in every capacity. i do see him putting importance into their physical appearance and presence as well, the way they'd look together. he has this image of a perfect couple in his mind, and wants a person who matches that. his energy is quite.. fantasy-ridden here. i do see him falling for the ideas of a person, and he might easily project what he believes they are or should be in his mind onto his partners.

he wants a person who's calming. i don't see him liking this overly extroverted person who's very out there and seeks attention a lot; instead, he feels drawn to people who exude an aura of serenity. he might like melodic and soothing voices. when someone doesn't speak all too much, but when they do, it's carefully chosen and meaningful words.

he strives for a relationship that, instead of overwhelming or burdening him with more stress and work, offers him a space to relax. he wants a person who will help him unwind, and distract him from certain things. think of this person, where when you're together, it just feels like everything's okay again, and you forget that time even goes by. someone who transports him into a different headspace. i keep seeing water in my minds eye, he might enjoy dates near the water, where they can relax and enjoy the tranquility together.

does he have gemini placements or neptune aspecting his venus? his energy is quite poetic, i could see him liking to read or talk about the idea of romance. he also gives me mercurial and taurus with fire influences

anton does seem to have a traditional view of romance. he has set values and expectations in place, which he'd need his significant other to match. i keep sensing this in relation to his parents. he wants a person who's intelligent, eloquent, well-mannered, polite, respectful, understands the importance to follow the rules; in short, someone he could introduce to his parents with no second thoughts. i keep seeing these korean actresses in my head, not sure if he watches many dramas, but he might envision the image of them as his ideal type.

i especially thought of this one character in the drama queen of tears, called da-hye, who's soo-cheol's wife. she has this very “perfect” wife material type of image in the drama.

i believe he closely ties marriage to relationships. marriage could ultimately be his end-goal, so he wants a person who leans towards that side too, rather than being anti-marriage. he wants a person whose values align with his.

i sense a lot of emphasis on him liking the thought of showing off his partner. he wants a person that'd he be proud to display to others. he does enjoy it out of feeding his ego as well. the more attractive she is, the more it'd do his own ego favours.

i will be honest, there is a little bit of a.. i wanna show her off, but i don't want her overpowering me. he does read as a person who's prideful, and might have some main-character syndrome which can flow into his romantic relationships too. he wants a person who will make him feel special, confident and good about himself in plenty of ways.

having that said, he seems to put a lot of importance into open communication. he wants a lover who's open and honest with him. his ideal partner is someone who's very proper on the outside, but not too shy to open up when they're with him. a lover expressive in their love and affection towards him.

his ideal type is a person he can enjoy effortless communication with, where the conversation flows easily. he wants there to be a natural understanding between the two, and for them to enjoy this telepathic type of way of talking to each other. someone who just gets him, and vice versa.

𝙝𝙞𝙢 𝙖𝙨 𝙖 𝙗𝙤𝙮𝙛𝙧𝙞𝙚𝙣𝙙

+ i see anton as quite the generous and forthcoming boyfriend. i actually do see him quite picky and more selective over who he allows in up to this point. but once he does open his heart to someone, it's likely they'll see his giving and supportive sides a lot, especially in an acts of service and financial manner. i keep seeing this image of him holding his partners on the palm of his hands (could be interpreted in several ways i guess..?) it's giving me stabilizing, resourceful and helpful energy. he makes you feel secure when you're with him. in fact, i see him quite gentlemanly. he's likely to splurge and pay on your dates, carry the shopping bags, hold the door open for you, slide out the chair for you to sit down, help you walk up or down the stairs if you have heels on.. things of that nature. it's like these things are understandable for him to do.

i also see him having the ability to break down people's walls patiently. he seems to not only be quite well-spoken, but also have a very observant, sharp and detail-oriented eye when it comes to taking in people's different behaviours, gestures, actions, words.. so much so, that this can result in him getting an understanding of the person he's with easily, and instinctively matching his behaviour according to that. he's incredibly intuitive and picks up on subtleties.

i keep seeing this image of him sitting back, and attentively looking his date straight in the eye, carefully taking in every word they're saying. it's like everything they do and say adds to this image he creates in his mind. he's likely to remember and take note of things about you others might overlook.

he will often present himself in this curious and interested manner, like he wants to get to know you thoroughly, which can make the person he's with feel very special.

imagine you started off the date being more reserved and closed off, while in the next moment before you truly realize, you're being passionate talking about your creativity or interests in this eager manner. he makes the environment feel comfortable for you to open up without restraints, and grants you room to express yourself openly.

he can be playful and fun himself as well. this is a side likely to truly come out once some layers are peeled back. but he has a very warm and charming side to him. i see him being open to exploring different places with his partners too, like going on trips together and sharing their interests with each other.

- i realized how i kept focusing on (first) dates during the first part of the reading, and this is likely due to him rarely truly taking it to the committed level with people. i do think he's experienced in the dating realm to a degree, but i'd be surprised to hear he's had several longterm and stable relationships as of right now.

tbh, anton seems like the type to keep his options open. i straightaway heard “grass is greener on the other side” so.. unless you're literally perfect for him in his mind and check all the boxes, i don't see him settling down easily. he's likely to have and entertain many people around him.

i do see him kinda cut-throat and insensitive at times. if he wants to move on, he simply moves on, and might not be entirely considerate of how his counterpart feels in that instance. he detaches from people easily, doesn't give them much closure and might come off surprisingly cold and blunt.

he doesn't exactly see the need to be overly caring in that context, and might get sharp and unfiltered with his words. i can't lie, he reads as very personable and likable, but independent and individualistic too, so i just.. can't sense much of his partners here, it's all his own energy.

therefore he isn't someone who shies away from leaving people in the cold at times. he doesn't really understand or like people getting overly attached and dumping expectations on him too quickly. so he tends to see it as their fault, if they expect too much of him early on, and get hurt as a result.

again, he's very clear on what he wants for his life and himself, i do sense some arrogance here, and it's interesting how i keep getting this message of his lovers having to match him. so he seems to have a high opinion of himself, which is why he doesn't just settle for anyone who he believes can't reach up to his level. i see this applying to things like their status, appearance, as well.

anton wants a person who perfectly fits into this picture he drew of his future, so he can be unyielding and stubborn in that context. he isn't really the type to change his views, beliefs, goals or priorities for anyone else, and moreso expects them to go along with him. he does read as someone who's used to getting his way and people catering to him a lot.