Sometimes people in your life just, don't want to talk, or can't, and more often than not it's nothing personal. Doesn't mean they don't like you anymore and doesn't mean they just want to ignore you.

Strangers on the internet also don't owe each other interactions. Somebody who doesn't even know you isn't obligated to respond to you. It's no different from strangers out on the streets in real life not having to interact with you. Again, a lot of times, people simply aren't up for conversations, nothing personal. People don't have to talk to people when they don't want to. People can just, exist.

Why are People doing this? Why do they keep having doubts? Why do they believe that H and C now don't want to see each other anymore? But did you see H yesterday even just to name him as he was? I'm sad because these people keep questioning all this...

Maybe it's a bit a cliche but we as people truly have become entirely dependent on and expecting of instant gratification in all things. That includes ships too apparently... The moment the actual real life people involved in it don't behave exactly as the shippers expect them to, they doom and gloom and abandon ship and so fucking loudly so🙄

I'm in the exact same boat as you. I don't understand it either. I tend to think these people who view everything in black and white may be less likely to have experience in real life relationships, perhaps. Sexual or romantic. I could ofc be generalizing but that's seemed to hold pretty true in my experience. Because reality is never ever black and white. It's all shades of grey. And people who've gone through several irl experiences seem to understand that in a more nuanced way than others.

he's now taken my silence as a cue to cuddle, so cuddling we are 🖤✨️