#identity shift

I get this question all the time:

“If manifestation is instant… if I’m the God of my reality… then why can’t I just affirm once and get it right there?”

Here’s the truth: you can. Manifestation is instant. You can say something once and have it materialize. But, and this is the part most people ignore — we’ve all been conditioned since childhood to believe the opposite. And those old beliefs don’t disappear just because you say a new sentence once.

Think about it:

• with money, many of us grew up hearing “money is hard to make.”

• with studies, we decided “math is hard,” “science is hard,” “this subject is impossible for me.”

• with weight, you may believe “losing weight is hard,” “gaining weight is hard,” “my body is stubborn.”

• with appearance, you might think “changing this takes time,” or “this is too difficult for me.”

None of these are facts.

They are just old identities you kept agreeing with. And when you affirm your desire once, that old identity often pops up and argues back, that’s the only reason you don’t see instant results.

You’re not waiting for the manifestation. You’re waiting for your mind to stop playing the old story.

But here’s the solution:

don’t fight the resistance, don’t try to remove blocks, don’t dig into your past. Just build a new assumption through repetition: “I manifest instantly.”

Say it again and again until it feels normal.

And most importantly: don’t go back to the old self by checking the 3D. If you already had your desire, you wouldn’t check. You wouldn’t ask “where is it?” You wouldn’t look for evidence.

You’d relax. You’d move like it’s done. Because it is.

Some people like to treat manifestation as a process, that’s fine. If believing it’s instant works for you, do that. If steps and methods help you, do that.

You’re the operant power, whatever you accept becomes true for you.

But don’t forget:

manifestation can be instant.

You’re only ever dealing with your own assumptions.

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The seed example

1) The Seed = Your identity

Do you want apples?

No problem, plant an apple seed 🍎

Apple seed -> manifests apples

Simple, right?

But what happens when you suddenly decide you want oranges instead?

Because, let's say apples don't satisfy you anymore 👇

2) Change the Seed = Change the Identity, not the results

Instead of planting a new 🍊 seed, you cut off the apples, tape some oranges onto the branches, and call it an orange 🌳

Sure, it looks like an orange tree from the outside… but the seed is still an apple

What do you think will happen over time?

3) What are you left with?

The oranges might stay for a bit, but eventually, they fall off, the wind, time, or life itself removes them

And what are you left with? -> With an apple tree... because the seed never changed.

You can manifest specific things repeatedly:

→ A person treating you better

→ More money

→ Queen treatment

etc etc

But wouldn’t it be easier if you just changed the seed (your identity) ?

4) You are only manifesting yourself

Instead of constantly manifesting "Queen/King treatment," what if you became the Queen/King ?

A Queen/King doesn’t chase royal treatment. It naturally happens.

You always manifest from your identity.

So ask yourself: Who do I identify as today?

Do you see yourself as someone who has to fight for what they want? Or someone who naturally receives it because it's just who they are

So?

What do you want to plant today?

She became famous because of her assumptions. She reportedly used to recite praise to herself pretending to be other people, "Marilyn you are beautifu!" "Marilyn you are famous!"

By visualizing this so consistently, she ended up manifesting it. She imagined people admiring her beauty, and she became exactly what she wished herself to become.

She once said that "Marilyn Monroe" was a character to her. A role model. A woman she used to energetically merge with to become dazzling.

She became THE Marilyn Monroe through affirmation, visualization and trust. She knew how to manipulate her outer world by changing her inner world. And she was fantastic at it.

"I'll never forget the day Marilyn and I were walking around New York City, [...] She loved NYC because no one bothered her there like they did in Hollywood, [...] no one would notice her. So as we we're walking down Broadway, she turns to me and says 'Do you want to see me become her?' I didn't know what she meant but I just said 'Yes'- and then I saw it. I don't know how to explain what she did because it was so very subtle, but she turned something on within herself that was almost like magic. And suddenly cars were slowing and people were turning their heads and stopping to stare. They were recognizing that this was Marilyn Monroe as if she pulled off a mask or something, even though a second ago nobody noticed her. I had never seen anything like it before."

102 days sober ☺️

yesterday was rough 😅 I had a feeling I would be faced with temptation around this time, but I didn’t think the craving would be as intense as it was yesterday.

There are angels in this world.

Right at the peak of contemplating giving into my craving my friend called. I told her about the dispensary across the street and she replied, “there’s no dispensary. in your reality the dispensary does not exist, it’s only a figment of your imagination.”

She was joking but she doesn’t know how much that framing helped my mind cope. If I don’t notice the dispensary then it’s not there in my reality. And if I’ve gone 100 days not noticing it, then I can go another 100.

Today I woke up glad I didn’t give in. I would have been very upset with myself if I did.

For some reason 100+ days didn’t come with the sense of accomplishment I thought it would.

If sobriety is my normal then maybe paying attention to it is still giving energy to the old identity. Maybe expecting a sense of accomplishment is just attachment to the separation from my old self.

Maybe the new me doesn’t feel the need to celebrate because it’s simply life now.

hi everyone! missed yall sm!!

today’s post will be a cross-over between loass & self-dev, hope you like it!

0. disclaimers

first of all, I wanna preface this by saying that I’m absolutely not gonna impose limitations on what you need to do in order to manifest. manifestation is simple, and you don’t need to ‘fix’ anything within yourself in order to manifest.

and I am ofc not here to shame you for struggling with addictions, just offering a mindset perspective on them. also, my advice is not medical & this post mainly refers to everyday unhealthy habits so don’t apply it to severe or clinical-level addictions without seeking a professional.

when I say urges, I am not talking about actively wanting to do x thing that society might deem unacceptable or excessive. for example, wanting to just spend your day doing nothing out of genuine desire, even if others would call you lazy for that. rather, I am talking about you, within yourself & according to your own code, feeling quite unhappy during/after your actions because that’s genuinely not how you wanna use up your time & energy.

also, I don’t subscribe to the grind/male-centric idea of what it means to be disciplined. to put it simply, if you feel out of control when it comes to your actions & habits + out of control when it comes to what manifests or plays out in your reality, then you’re describing two sides of the same coin.

1. why make this post?

because the path to mastering manifestation can look different for everyone. this is what I realised when I delved into what techniques work for me and when I noticed how different things like mental discipline & manifestation correlate. if this post doesn’t resonate w you & you’re alr happy with how manifesting is going for you, then wipe it off your mind.

at the end of the day, I am writing this cos I know there’s others like me who both value discipline & want to have a say in what happens in their reality — and who upon reading this post, will be motivated to work more towards that. like I said lack of discipline & feeling out of control are both issues with the same root cause, so if you fix one, you’re fixing both. and with that, let’s dive in!

2. the path to self-trust

if you are someone who truly feels like you can’t trust yourself when it comes to promises you make to yourself: saying stuff like oh! today I will do x, y, & z but you don’t and end up feeling genuinely dissatisfied with how you acted today, then you’re probably feeling out of control when it comes to life itself. and that’s not a cute look for a master manifestor. if you can’t do something as simple as command your brain to not indulge in addictions, then are you truly capable of directing your brain when comes to your thoughts on your reality? because at the end of the day, urges are just that: thoughts.

if you can’t even control your mind in terms of what you crave, can you control your focus & reactions to the 3d? if you can’t control your urges & impulses, can you truly say that you can control your thoughts & state-of-being? can you truly be firm when things don’t appear your way? sure you might manifest successes here and there, but are you confident enough to say that you have mastered reality?

discipline builds self-trust, when you can keep the promises you make to yourself, you show cohesion and trust within all of your mind. your mind is not on board with your plans only when you’re in the mood. you don’t just affirm when you feel like it. and self-trust is sexy because it builds self-confidence, and that builds your self-concept! so if you want a more ‘actionable’ way to build self-concept, start with building discipline & self-trust!

3. disciplined mind = disciplined reality

I promise you when you start doing the things that you actually wanna do, not the things you feel pressured or urged to do, reality will feel quite controllable. you won’t be spiralling because if you can control your urges, you sure as hell can control your other emotional states. ofc emotions don’t manifest, but doesn’t it feel fvcking great to be stable and calm at all times?

I am not here to shame you into changing, esp. when you’re happy with how things are going. I am not here to say u’re ‘lazy’ or ‘lacking drive.’ quite the contrary! for me, becoming more discipline was about working LESS and becoming devoted to what I personally want, not what society wants. the more disciplined I became, the more fun I introduced into my life, because I don’t do things cos I ‘have’ to or because I ‘need’ to, I do them because I WANT and I CAN & so now my desires have no choice but to show up, not because they have/need to but because I want them to & I know I can do it.

4. identity shifting

here’s a challenge for you: can you control your mind enough to the point where quitting anything feels effortless? can you live every moment of your day in accordance to how you see the ideal version of you living? because that right there is true self control!

personally, I like this challenge because it is easy to track & evaluate. for context, when I decided that I will become someone disciplined, someone who keeps herself in check despite wtv emotions I am feeling, I used both loass & traditional self-dev techniques to make that work, and guess what? months later, I am still as disciplined as I wanted to be.

why? because I shifted my identity to be a disciplined person. and if you’ve been here long enough, you know that identity shifting is the most ‘automatic’ way to get what you want. so as a by-product of this shift, I noticed that I got better at sticking to my true story & instant manifestation. getting what I want felt effortless cos my mind, now disciplined, can never make things difficult for me, not mentally or emotionally.

5. the psychology of discomfort

and speaking of emotions, I wanna elaborate more on the emotional/psychological pov to why controlling yourself is the key to controlling your life. becoming a disciplined person requires sitting with discomfort. discomfort of what? discomfort of thoughts that you’re ignoring. if you cannot sit down with unpleasant thoughts, do you really think you change them? if someone truly believes they’re rich, do you think they’d scroll through their phone all day to avoid thinking about a bill that’s coming up?

when you face your thoughts & don’t run away from them, you… a. learn their depth and true form, b. understand that they’re just thoughts, and c. get real-time opportunity to flip your thoughts instead of letting them run in the background.

you have to start seeing your addictions as signals, signals that you have some type of fear which was born out of some type of thought that you need to address. and you can address it through traditional healing techniques like journalling or meditation and/or loass techniques such as flipping your thoughts or some form of saturation.

6. takeaway

addiction = fear = unaligned thoughts

higher self trust → higher self confidence → higher self concept

disciplining yourself means you’ve mastered ur mind and w it reality

using a combination of healing & manifesting techniques to become more self-disciplined will teach you a lot about how to manifest, such as how to build ur self concept & identity shift

and that’s all! hope u liked this one. I am open to hearing your thoughts about this post & sparking a discussion, whether you agree or disagree. thanks for reading & good luck manifesting your dreams <3

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