how to handle being an ambitious girlie from another ambitious girlie⋆.ೃ࿔*:･🌟💞
as an ambitious girlie that likes to do as much as she possibly can with her time every single day, people often ask me if i get burnt out often, or how i manage to do all that i do in the time i have? for reference i have a 4.0 GPA, a girl blog, a magazine, a small business, in the process of making a demo tape for my music career, play varsity tennis, and the piano...💬🎀
DON'T MAKE YOUR SCHEDULE THE SAME EVERYDAY ;
unless you have a measurable goal that you're working towards, and even then having the same exact "rinse and repeat" day is just monotonous and it's not sustainable for me. i do a lot of the same things everyday but i always introduce something different to keep things fun and fresh.
also scheduling free blocks is so important. think of it like this : imagine you have a mug (which is ur life) if your time is MARBLES and you're filling the mug with marbles, you're not going to get every single crevice of the mug. you're going to be very hard and fragile (like a marble). DON'T be a marble be water (adaptable) instead.
DON'T PUT THINGS ASIDE (TEN MINUTE RULE) ;
if there's something that you can do right then and there, DO IT THEN. it'll make your to-do list a lot smaller. and it's a lot easier said then done but it's so easy to fall into the trap of "i'll just do it tomorrow" or "i'll just do it later" NO. do it right now and get it out of the way.
the ten minute rule is basically if theres something that you can do within ten minutes, you should probably just do it. it's a simple principle but it's so useful to apply if you're trying to make the most of your time. replace planning with action.
HOT TIP ; have two to-do lists. one for long tasks and one for short ones. you can do the long tasks when you need to, but when you have idle time you can do tasks on the short list...💬🎀
DO EVERYTHING WITH INTENTION ;
a lot of the time that i used to waste was from taking breaks between tasks. there is NOTHING wrong with taking breaks and in fact i encourage you to schedule times of rest in your schedule but in my experience it's always best if those are measurable.
minimize ur transition time by taking a small break within the task itself
don't just scroll mindlessly for example. tell yourself "im going to take a 10 minute break to just scroll on my tiktok" and once ur ten minutes are up ACTUALLY get off of tiktok. setting a time for yourself helps you to rest guilt-free without wasting too much time.
TO FINISH OFF ;
the amount of hours that you work does not equate to success despite popular belief. it's how EFFICIENT you are within that time. the # of hours you put into something doesn't equate to the output. with that in mind be wise and be hot 💕✨
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✧ the prettiest form of revenge is becoming unbothered
hey lovelies 🕊️ i was walking home today with my headphones in (listening to that one slow, sparkly lana song that makes everything feel a little cinematic) when this thought hit me like a soft little thunderstorm: not reacting is a reaction. not letting it touch your peace is the prettiest form of revenge.
like actually, how stunning is it to become so centered, so sure of yourself, that you no longer flinch when someone tries to rattle you?
i used to think healing meant explaining. fixing. over-explaining. closure. but lately, it’s been looking more like softly deleting the conversation. letting the last word echo into nothingness. wearing lip gloss and lighting a candle and journaling through it, not texting back. not proving anything. not proving you’re good. just being good.
emotional detachment isn’t cold. it’s clarity. it’s a sacred kind of self-trust that whispers: “you’re allowed to walk away without performing your pain.”
and no, it’s not always easy. especially if you're sensitive or intuitive or have that gentle little savior complex. but the more you stop making yourself available to chaos, the more your nervous system starts to breathe again. and that’s where the real glow-up begins.
because when you stop shrinking, when you stop begging to be seen in the right light, when you just decide to be light, suddenly, the power flips. and you’re not waiting to be chosen anymore. you’re busy choosing yourself.
this is your reminder that the softest girls can also be the strongest. we can cry in the bathtub and go no-contact. we can wear pink and have steel boundaries. we can wish them well and walk away in silence.
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