#hotactics

This post is funny to me because, just yesterday, one of my dumb clients told me that the reason he married his wife is because she seemed helpless and dumb when they first met. He clearly told me that when he first met her, he found her helplessness very attractive.

Truly… men are stupid. 😑

After I started learning about how to make money off of men some years back, I learned about this “damsel in distress” tactic. Afterward, I also quickly learned that this tactic wouldn’t suit me because I have a big ego and I’ll be damned if I allow any of these men to think they’re smarter, stronger, and more capable than me when they’re really not (these dudes are honestly mediocre, below average intelligence).

However, I’m feeling inspired… 🤔

Now, I’ve learned and accepted that this tactic shouldn’t be used on all clients (if you’re an escort). In fact, it probably shouldn’t be used anyone with whom you do not have a long term or vanilla relationship with.

Mission one - complete.

So just got home from a lovely first date with this gentleman I found in tinder - he works in the meat industry as a hhbdemand supplier, Anyways the date went really well he’s actually alright, warmed to my charm I’ve been working on (thanks to the book) I am still uetnto work out if he is a trick, treat or sponsor by i know that he is ‘completely infatuated’, more than financially comfortable, generous and a utter gentleman! So we shall see what you bring to the table next time Mr... Denmark we are going to call you “Mr Denmark”.

Roll on weekend in Glasgowto meet POT daddy 2 -

To be continued ...

I made a post about this before, don't feel like scrolling to find it. But I was making a mini podcast about dating and was thinking about all the petty reasons why I stopped dealing with a guy. Some of my reasons below 👇🏿👇🏿👇🏿

1. Height

2. He kept wearing timberlands 🙄 (sb we met in the summer)

3. Cheap/Stingy (my biggest pet peave with dating)

4. Way too sexual (like can we enjoy a movie without touching and caressing me)

- A confident woman sees a set back as a chance to improve

   Confidence is something that everyone seems to deal with, whether male or female, including myself.  Even now at 21 most of the relationships I have been in have purely been related to the fact that someone took interest in me even though I have a low self image.  My plan of action regarding confidence has two steps: the ever cliche, fake it till you make it, and to do things I feel confident while doing.  

- Man Will Pick a Ho 9 Times Out of Ten Because Men Cherish Excitement Over Stability

   G.H. Lambert defines exactly what he means by the term Ho, which is not this idea of a “loose” woman who sleeps with everyone.  The only thing that makes a Spartan woman and Ho different is their motives.  They are both ruthless but a Spartan wants love, respect, and partnership, while a Ho wants materialistic goods.  “Neither of these women play by the rules nor put other people’s needs ahead of their own.  My own experiences in the past have been neither of these women. While I have looked for men  for love and respect in the past,  something in which I never received, their needs were always met and I was left in the wind with a tarnished reputation.  I no longer wish to seek out love or respect but rather things I actually need to live my life, and if love happens, so be it.  In essence I’m raising my standards to the highest they have been.  

  Personally I think the reason men want excitement is because there is a lot of pressure for men to provide stability even if not in a relationship and heterosexual men want something different in their love lives, but that doesn’t mean that mine, or the average woman’s needs should be put below the man’s need.  Men want a woman who is sexy and charming without being embarrassed by the amount of sex she oozes.