#highest self

meditate first thing in the morning

journal any thoughts to clear your mind

dance to your favorite songs

get lost in a book

take a walk

exercise + move your body

make home cooked meals

hot shower before bed

stretch with deep breathing

watch more sunrises + sunsets

play board + skill games on free time

watch comfort movies without your phone

sip tea while watching rain fall

morning sun on your face

Your higher self reflects the most spiritually elevated and authentic expression of who you are, Bunny! This reading connects with them to access your divine inner wisdom. To pick a pile, don’t overthink it; choose the one that draws you in the most while considering the reading’s intent. Always use your discernment & take only what resonates!

Love, Matcha ♡

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1 ₊˚.༄

You have a flamboyant spirit and a deeply loving soul, Bunny! You’ve been blessed with a creative youthful spirit that will attract to you the emotional fulfillment you’ve been wishing for. However, there’s a dissonance between your driven spirit and a pattern of behaviour you’re still allowing yourself to indulge in. Although you’re taking some steps towards self-love by incorporating new habits or rituals into your daily routine like a new skincare regimen, working out, tidying up your space, self-love affirmations or something else that’s improving your life, you’re not yet addressing the core of what’s been burdening you below the surface. The root of your issue is that you’re lacking compassion for yourself and your highest self is here to remind you not to undermine the grave impact of negative self-talk on your development. Your soul deserves peace. Use your determined spirit to radically change the way you treat yourself, it’s an issue you can no longer ignore. To help with your healing process, remember that a lot of your negative self-concept didn’t come from you. It’s strongly inspired by how adults talked about you and about themselves during childhood. We’re used to hearing people shaming themselves, from normalizing self-deprecating jokes to outright claiming the world hates them. Is this something you want to believe? If you’re reading this, you already know that this kind of behaviour attracts negativity, Bunny. Accord your behaviour to your spiritual and psychological knowledge and update your self-concept. You’re the one responsible for your future; nobody else can convince you that you matter and deserve your biggest dreams. Mantras alone are not going to cut it, it seems like you need to address it once and for all. Try to find precisely where this negative self-belief system is coming from, decode your past, but don’t dwell on it, shift your perception. A powerful change in the narrative is needed. Don’t forget that hurt people hurt people, if you’ve been abused or bullied in the past try to remind yourself that they’re the ones who are miserable and shameful, not you. You do not have to identify with the label of victim, you survived everything that happened to you so far. My goal is not to minimize the impact of your past, Bunny, it’s to highlight your powerful potential. If you make the conscious decision to take control of the narrative of your life you’ll be at a great advantage in society, because rare are the people who are willing to step out of the negative role others handed to them and create their own story. Your highest self assures you that this is the most important thing you can do to manifest the blessings you deserve, allow yourself to co-create with the universe.

000, 40, 45, 46, 7, 88, 9, pug, teddy bear, Hawaii, witchcraft, birch tree, Kuromi, black jeep, camping, house plant, Aries, Taurus, Gemini, Virgo, Libra, R, W, K, L, E, S

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2 ⊹˚˖ ☆

Even though you may not be totally over it yet, Bunny, your highest self is congratulating you for leaving behind you a relationship (romantic or platonic) that wasn’t meant for you. Not only was it never meant to last, but staying longer would’ve gravely impacted your sense of self-worth. You made an excellent decision for yourself. Your highest self is proud of you for trying to make things better before you left, it’s a great proof of your commitment and love towards the people in your life, but it simply wasn’t worth it and you were wise to figure it out. Sadly, you wasted compassion on someone who doesn’t possess enough self-love to properly love others. There’s no use in dwelling on what could’ve been, because it couldn’t have been anything better than it was and it would’ve never evolved into what they made you believe they wanted. You didn’t just see the “bad part” of them, they straight-up exposed their true self. They were highly charismatic but they weren’t kind. They’re the type of people who need control over the people in their life and if they can’t have that then they’d rather not have them around. They likely sabotaged what you shared on purpose when they realized they weren’t able to manipulate you like they wished to. This chaotic individual lacked integrity and you saw through their illusions. Even though it wasn’t a pleasant experience, you’ve developed your intuition and discernment through it. You’ve learned a valuable lesson and it’ll help you on your path forward. Make sure not to let people like this close to you again and continue to affirm your values. How you stated your boundaries wasn’t exactly an easy task, but by never accepting less than what you deserve you’re manifesting the soul tribe that will help you manifest the blessings you’re currently wishing for. This specific situation also brought you closer to some important financial blessings and progress in your career, even though it may not seem directly related, a precise blessing will unfold that wouldn’t have been possible if you didn’t exiled this person from your life.

000, 3333, 4444, 5, cross, forest, lamb, wolf, tiger, olive tree, vanilla, latte, chocolate milk, Fall, Sagittarius, Cancer, Capricorn, Aquarius, Pisces, R, N, M, K, G, H

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3 ‧₊˚ ♡

You can be proud of the powerful inner transformation you’ve been through, Bunny! It’s impressive how fast but steadily you’ve evolved. You blossomed into a gracious and confident individual, and you embody your highest self values! Not only did you take the conscious choice to heal your broken heart in order to evolve into someone that is now guided by joy and enlightenment, but you’ve also continued being persistent in showing up for yourself making this change of mindset benefit you in the material world as well. Take this as a confirmation that you’re on your highest path. Now the biggest healing phase of your life is nearly over and you’ll be reaping the rewards of choosing self-love. You’re already seen as someone physically beautiful with an inspiring mind and a dedicated spirit. It attracts a lot of respect, but also jealousy. Remember that in this new phase of your life, most people’s advice won’t matter as much as your own opinion when it comes to your projects and aspirations. It’ll be a bit of a challenge, you’ll need to be constantly aware of the underlying truth behind people’s counsel. Your highest self isn’t encouraging you to call anyone out, remain tolerant, but remember that you should only aspire to do like people that inspire you. Some individuals may give you backhanded compliments and pretend they’re proud of you when truly they’d like to be in your place. Don’t take it personally and don’t get paranoid about it, this is part of the price of success and you’ll get used to it. Of course, you shouldn’t let people walk all over you but when it happens you can internally smile and remember the higher you climb, the more critics you attract. Also, be careful of people who would want to get close to you just to benefit from your blessings. Soon, you’ll ascend to a social status that’ll make a lot of people want to be your friend, if you know what I mean. Not only that, financial blessings are coming as well. You’ll be able to put money in your savings and invest in projects that could generate profit in the future. Good job, Bunny!

1, 222, 3, 36, 40, 55, 999, shells, coconut, pearls, diamonds, sphinx cat, rose quartz, pyrite, blue candle, rose gold, Taurus, Gemini, Virgo, Libra, Sagittarius, Pisces, B, V, W, X, S, O

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Enjoy the outdoors

You are going to STOP scrolling endlessly for self-help and advice content and you are going to STOP and apply the knowledge you have endlessly gained. Obtaining help and advice knowledge is useless if it goes through one ear and comes straight out the other. STOP becoming addicted to the idea of scrolling and scrolling for your problems yet you already have the resources to fix them. A fool is a person who cannot decide to take action despite having access to the information needed to do so.

BREAKING FREE FROM THE SCROLLING CYCLE

Learning and Applying is one thing, but Learning and Staying Stationary is literally brain rot. You're addicted to the idea of change and the end result, but you never take the steps towards discipline with a personal structure to get that result. You keep looking for quick fixes and easy hacks, but life is not a quick fix and no hack can elevate your life from 0% to 100% without visiting the rest of the numbers first.

TAKE A BREAK FROM SCROLLING

Take time away from your usual scrolling and learn to be on your own. Learn your own ways of self-care, learn what works for you and understand what you need, because nobody is the same. Following a millionaire's morning routine will not make you a millionaire. This routine has worked for someone to feel and be productive in the morning and was probably curated over the years to suit their current lifestyle. So, seeing other people's successes and comparing their working ways to your life is unrealistic if you are not in a position to implement them. Going straight from 0% (Being unproductive and procrastinating) to 100% (Being incredibly Productive and in tune with self) will not be sustainable for someone who has not built the discipline and the inner foundations required for it. STOP seeing information online and taking it without ALTERING anything to your personal situation.

STOP ASKING HOW TO AND JUST DO

"How to lose weight, How to become more social, How to do this and that"

Most of these things you ALREADY know the answer to. Everybody knows that to lose weight, you need to burn more than you consume. There is literally no other way, no magic and no secret hack, just that simple fact. I guarantee you know that to become more social you just have to be social. Learn to be comfortable in social situations which will require inner work, but it's not a difficult concept. Most of us know what we need to do, yet we still try to find quick fixes or another way that same message is presented to us differently. We act as if we are improving and developing on our "improvement" journey yet we are just finding coping ways to feel like we are moving, yet we are still in the exact same place as before. I know you know what to do, I know you have researched what you should do and ways you can do it. So why are you not doing it? Why are you still not where you want to be? If you are not where you want to be, then what you're currently doing needs to change. You cannot do the exact same thing you've been doing for years and expect a different outcome. You need to curate a routine suited to your needs that is realistic and achievable to adopt.

LEARNING TO MOVE ON YOUR OWN, STOP DEPENDING ON OTHERS TO FUEL YOUR SUCCESS JOURNEY LISTEN TO: NOBODY IS COMING TO SAVE YOU BY JULIENHIMSELF Make yourself your safe space, your foundation. When you see yourself in the mirror you should be able to tell yourself "I love you", you should be so sure in what you do that nobody else can contradict what you believe in yourself, this is the end goal of self-improvement. Many of us have put aside our goals because we "are not ready", "people may judge us" or "I need to be/achieve ___ to.." Now don't get me wrong, I'm on this journey with you. I write on this blog to teach my brain how to think in the higher mindset that I'm creating for myself. I too have thoughts like this which is why in 2024 we are going to break out of our old selves to make room for our new selves together. We have to lose ourselves to find ourselves. If you're mood and self-worth are controlled by other people's opinions, then you will never advance further with yourself and will remain stationary. You have to stop allowing other people to determine whether you are allowed to pursue your desires or if you shouldn't because of fear of rejection. Don't take life too seriously, we are only here for so much time. So what if people make fun of you? In a few years will you look back and be proud and fulfilled of your past or feel regret and disappointment? LISTEN TO: WHY YOU CARE SO MUCH BY JULIANHIMSELF + LISTEN TO: HOW TO DETACH BY VICKITA TRIVEDI

The only way to get to 0%-100% is by doing.

Do you have any tips?

Ok, what would ur highest self do RIGHT NOW? Like if she was going through sulking and not feeling her best, how would she tackle it? What would she do?

Take it slow, give yourself some rest, write down goals, make a to do list.

If you’re still stuck, here’s mini action plans for you🍰

🍓 1. Goals.

What’s your mega goal- what do you want from life? To be a doctor, have a business, what is it? (Try not to make it too vague)

Next, find out the things you need to get done to achieve this goal. So if you want to build a big business, you probably need money, a good product to sell, business & salesman knowledge, etc.

Once you got that, now figure out how you’ll achieve those things- for example; you need business or salesmen knowledge? Read books, listen to podcasts, watch videos, ask people around you for tips, etc. so that’s what you can start with, everyday listening to a podcast or reading a chapter will definitely bring you closer to that goal.

Then it’s just basically practice and consistency. Keep going, don’t give up! Make a to do list for each day, but don’t forget to add rewards as well.

🍓 2. Take it slow, prioritise your mental health.

Are you feeling okay? Is your health good? Have you been exercising, eating well, getting a good amount of sleep? Sometimes it’s just not taking care of yourself properly which can make you struggle and feel stuck!

So go, put on a face mask, do some yoga or exercise, whatever floats your boat, read, shower, and take a nap. Then when you feel better, do the Goals part.

🍓 3. Find the small happinesses in life.

You’re sulking? Maybe then take a day off and just become a child again. Go out for a walk (if you can & it’s safe), go for a swim with your friends, just laugh and have fun without another care in the world.

Be your inner child! Have fun!

Anyways I hoped that helped, I have a bunch of other stuff on self improvement & becoming your best self so u can read that too and also: watch thewizardliz or Tam Kaur or anything good yt, it helps.