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I'm going to a wedding in April here in the uk. Obviously the weather can be anything from freezing cold and windy downpour to sunny, hot and humid (possibly a mixture of weather types).

I'm currently looking for a dress without looking like a bridesmaid. I'm looking for thick straps to full shoulders because I want to wear a decent supporting bra, so no off the shoulder, asymmetric one shoulder or thin spaghetti straps or halternecks (this also includes low backs). I'm fat so I am going for dresses that aren't to fitted.

I don't want to wear black, red, obvious bridal colours white/ivory/champagne etc., bright look at me colours or to light cause I'm bound to spill something down me.

Can you already tell that I've gone through hundreds of dresses online already?

I've narrowed it down to these 2 as first round prelims

https://www.debenhams.com/webapp/wcs/stores/servlet/prod_10701_10001_60514+FFN0082405_-1

Or

https://www.debenhams.com/webapp/wcs/stores/servlet/prod_10701_10001_65075+1192_-1