I feel like the most unhinged aspect of my he/him woman transfem Alastor hc, is that we ALL agree he's a hardcore painslut and actively likes getting the shit beat out of him. And Alastor is also like...clearly misogynistic on some level even if he's not as bad as the other characters. So I think that he finds something like bdsm/impact play or just straight up physical violence and abuse to be gender affirming because woman are the ones primarily getting beat on in relationship dynamics. It makes him feel feminine to be hit and assaulted. Or at the very least that its something he is allowed to experience, if its a feminine experience, because men are punished and shamed for being weak enough to be hurt. But a woman's "place" is the act of pain.
Guy's from the 20s and got many issues and extremely emotionally repressed
