#hate ask

I need you to know, from the bottom of my heart, with all the strength I have in my body, how little I care about Harry’s overall popularity.

I could be the only person in the entirety of Wembley all six days of his concert, and I would stand ten toes down, head held high, bopping to Aperture on loop.

I’m posting this mostly for posterity, for the moment when the tide flips (because it alway, always, always does) and people begin to see the vision, because it always happens. It happened with the floral Gucci suit. It happened with the long hair. It happened with SOTT. It happened with AIW. It happened with Harry’s House. Complaints on complaints on complaints about how he’s lost his touch, how he’s not as handsome as he used to be, how his sound is too different, how he’s trying so hard, how he’s in his flop era.

And then suddenly the madness! the tears! the desperation to get tickets! the insistence that you’ve loved this version of him all along! ALL WE WANT IS ANOTHER HS DISCO DANCE SUMMER! COME BACK MY LOVE!! I GET IT NOWWWWW!!!

And when it comes, you better bet your ass I’m going to reblog this ask over, and over, and over, and over with every new record he breaks, and every new award he wins.

And if that doesn’t happen? If he is in his flop era? If he finally, finally, finally becomes an obscure indie artist that no one wants to listen to? Catch me at Wembley, alone in the front row, relieved I didn’t even have to think about taking a day off from work to queue for tickets for once in my goddamn fangirl existence.

It can be either. I'm encouraging people to get closer to the former than the latter. Plurality can be absolutely debilitating, but it doesn't have to be, and every system has different goals for what might get them to healthy multiplicity. We've already gotten to mostly healthy multiplicity with few memory barriers and a good bit of control over our system functions. We hope more can do the same.

And while I'm sorry that we're not suffering enough to be real and valid to you, while you're focused on how your life is miserable and hard to live and taking that out on others, we'll be focusing on making it easier for us and for others and to actually let people experience joy in their plurality.

5/10 on the hate, you have a point that plurality can be detrimental, but ignore the fact that it can be fun, too. I sincerely hope you reach a point in your multiplicity where you can have fun and joy with you and your headmates as well.

On another note, sorry for our silence, everyone! We got heavily hyperfixated on one of our projects and forgot that everything we've ever made that wasn't that project existed again. We'll be back before you all know it! The future is plural, never deny yourself the right to something that makes you happy!

I actually didn’t build these friendships until my 30s, and my BPD still absolutely affects me.

But one thing I had to learn is that healthy relationships became more possible when I stopped treating relationships like constant tests to prove I’m loved.

I used to spiral, accuse people of not caring, hint instead of communicate, and expect reassurance in ways that overwhelmed people. Even people who genuinely loved me.

And honestly, I had to learn that people are usually more able to show up for me when I invite them in instead of pushing them into a defensive mode with accusations.

That means telling people what I’m struggling with directly. Letting people know what helps. Accepting support without turning it into a test of whether they care “enough.” Learning emotional regulation and accountability. Learning that reassurance doesn’t work if I immediately reject it.

I'm proud to support Ukraine's right to exist as a sovereign nation, free from invasion from an aggressive neighbor who seeks to usurp Ukraine's national self-determination. I admire the Ukrainian people and their President.

Defending a democracy against authoritarian aggression is always the morally correct position.

I'm also quite proud of my Jewish heritage and the resilience of my people, who have survived millennia of persecution...including the Holocaust you so grotesquely referenced.

Like me, President Volodymyr Zelenskyy lost members of his Jewish family in the Holocaust. It's part of how he knows to stand against aggressors.

Zelenskyy, myself, and other Jews are still here, still thriving, and still standing up for what's right.

Your hate doesn't diminish me. It diminishes you.

If you use your brain, you would be able to realize that the reason why Charlie didn't save Alastor is because she could NOT.

Alastor and Vox literally made a deal, and deals are unbreakable. Also, Alastor literally gave himself up willingly.

There was nothing Charlie nor the others could have done.

And also, they had way more important things to worry about at that time, like Vox shaming the hotel and causing damage to them.

Not everything in this show has to revolve around Alastor!

And also, Lucifer is right! Vaggie did way more for the hotel than Alastor, or anyone else. She was there for Charlie since day one, and still is. She's the one that supports and helps Charlie the most!

Meanwhile, Alastor literally just used and manipulated Charlie for his own goals. It's literally canon that Alastor joined the hotel only because Rosie forced him, not because he wanted to.

He's canonically a manipulator serial killer cannibal. He's a bad person, always was and always will be.

You claiming the show "ruined" him and Charlastor is so pathetic! Just admit you're pissy only because your stupid ass ship and stupid ass headcanons about Alastor weren't canon!

Alastor was never a "poor woobified boy", and never will be! He's a psycopatic jerk! An entertaining one, but still a psycopatic jerk!

Stop being sexist once for all, and stop drooling for Alastor! It's clearly ruining your mind and brain!

I will keep loving the show as the really good show it is, will keep loving Charlie for real unlike you Charlastor fuckers, will keep loving Vaggie as the awesome character and only romantic partner that is perfect for Charlie she is, and will keep loving Chaggie as the great, wholesome and perfect main couple they are!

Yay my first hate anon!

I love Charlie and that's why I am so disappointed in her writing this season. In season 1 she went to Valentino in an attempt to help Angel dust but as Alastor was kidnapped by his and her enemy she was only worried for 5 seconds ,Charlie also didn't know about the deal between Alastor and Vox,we saw nobody telling her that or even implying she knew

Saving Alastor would have benefited the hotel like he knows Vox,we saw how he played him, One of his abilities is literally to cause glitches when he's filmed ! Charlie even points out how much easier it would be with him

The fact which annoyed me wasn't just that Charlie didn't save him it was mostly because she just brushed it off so easily as if Alastor wasn't her business partner for at half a year and then even blamed him for "getting kidnapped"

I agree completely that not everything in the show has to revolve around Alastor,i wish that Charlie would have more individual focus but that doesn't ignore the fact that both Charlie and Alastor are the mcs of the show therefore I want them to have moments together

Yes Lucifer was right about that Vaggie does a lot for Charlie and the hotel but that doesn't erase what Alastor did. In the first episode he made the first commercial for the hotel despite hating videos,in episode 5 he protected the hotel against the loan sharks or how he fought Adam. Both Vaggie and Alastor were a huge help for her

I'm not denying that Alastor manipulated and used Charlie to finally break from Rosie's control but it's nothing new for me that he is like that and that is not going to stop me shipping them, their relationship has a chance to develop with their characters

I find it funny that you claim that Alastor is a bad, always was and will always be as if this show isn't about redemption and sinners becoming better. We don't even know if Alastor was always a bad person,we don't have his complete backstory.

And I am not pissy because my ship isn't canon i never expected it to be but letting Charlie and Alastor not interact won't work, even non Charlastor shippers pointed out how uncharacteristically it's from Charlie to not care about Alastor being hurt and how weird it was that they barely had interaction this season

Is Alastor even a psychopath? I'm not sure and could be wrong but isn't it that they have barely or no empathy like we saw that Alastor cares about Nifty and seems protective of women like wasn't there a comic where he protected a lamb demon from somebody who wanted to assault her? But again I am no psychologist

And thanks for being worried about my brain but I am not really drooling about Alastor at least I think so, I think I simped more about Charlie and other female characters from the Hellaverse than on him

How exactly is it sexist to point out that the writing for Charlie this season was horrible, I think there are many other people who have the same problem . Also if you look at my blog you would see how often i critique male characters too especially Lucifer

Time to out myself, I am not sexist i am against the Morningstar family! Like they shouldn't be allowed to rule the pride ring down with monarchy in hell, Lilith you are on thin ice. Please don't cancel me🥲

Keep loving the show keep loving Charlie and keep loving Vaggie that is your life and i can't tell you what to do. But that doesn't mean that I am not allowed to criticize both ,Freedom of expression !

Same with Ch@ggie,i personally don't like the ship, I don't hate it I just don't care about it. If you personally think that Vaggie is the perfect partner to Charlie then you shouldn't be worried about me shipping Charlastor. I generally love shipping Charlie with others like Emily, Adam or Blitz

We really should put him in a red and white stripy shirt to make this easier. Can't believe y'all keep losing him