#handsomewitch

you're a cupcake

I am a fierce warrior! I am of the North!

when I see photos of celebrities with washboard abs all I can really think about is how they're probably dehydrated in that photo and they've been eating nothing but steamed chicken and kale for a week

That's pretty much the argument of most trans women (that all women have different socialisation) so you're just articulating it from your own perspective, which sounds pretty fine to me

go to sleep but also which one

basically I feel that young trans men are actively discouraged from engaging with their maleness and becoming healthy, kind, well adjusted men with awareness of their privilege, in favour of performing femininity and believing that makes them "safe"

and the whole "women and femmes" thing does very little to combat that

 I have noticed the pressure for trans men to conform to the “uwu soft boy” thing regardless of who they actually are. thank you for expanding upon your meaning.

the "all masculinity is toxic masculinity" seems to mostly hurt butch lesbians even within white circles tbh? I have my own thoughts on how it affects trans guys but butches get it really bad

the whole butch lesbians have privilege and are just as “fundamentally toxic” as men for being masculine thing is kind of part of what led me down this pathway, because that’s freaking ridiculous.

that's rude as fuck regardless

Yes, there were def better ways to handle this on his part.

clockworkpipedreams replied to your post “so, as it turns out CMMB might be either in or hoping for a poly...”

What a shitter :( Are the ''might'' and ''may have'' an affectation or is the source for this unreliable? (sorry I'm bad at telling that sort of thing sometimes)

He’s also very much correct.