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No wonder âgender identity,â understood by well-meaning LGBTQ+ advocates as an abstract feeling, has done such a poor job of justifying sex change. If biological sex is part of a material structure of value, then society has a concrete interest in any potential gains or losses that may result, feelings be damned.
This is the larger historical reason why the anti-trans movement does not want transgender people to receive sex-altering care. It is not clear how, if at all, such people will fit into the division of sex in America.
-Andrea Long Chu
The moral case for letting trans kids change their bodies.
If you think you're being punished for speaking up about sexual harassment at work, or fear you'd get whisked away to retaliation town if you did, you're probably not wrong.
So I wanted to share this thoughtful piece on retaliation and how to protect yourself. It gets its hard talk facts right, contains solid practical advice, and overall, I found it quite thought-provoking.
Would love to hear your perspectives on this super relevant and divisive topic, if you feel like sharing.
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Please keep in mind: this is not meant to discourage anyone from using HR to report, taking legal action, or going public, etc. Each person's needs, sense of safety, and context is unique to them.
QUEBEC CITY â Ninety-two-year-old Julienne Bisson wasnât going to let the snow that swept over Quebec that Sunday in early January stop her from seeing her granddaughter, Canadian superstar Marie-Philip Poulin, play hockey.
Sporting a red-and-white Hockey Canada jersey, Bisson clapped and cheered as she sat between Marie-Philipâs parents, Bissonâs son Robert Poulin and daughter-in-law Danye Nadeau, who wore Victoire jerseys for the occasion.
The family had trekked in through the snow from their hometown of Beauceville, Que. And they came with an army. They had reserved 90 seats for aunts, uncles, cousins, nephews and nieces to cheer on Marie-Philip.
Near the end of the game, Bisson suddenly appeared on the arenaâs Jumbotron. Victoire announcer Maude Lanteigne asked the family matriarch to judge supporters in the crowd flexing their muscles via the âflexcam.â A woman with bulging biceps and arms covered in tattoos won the contest, as DJ Montana blasted the Olivia Newton-John hit Physical.
Still on the big screen, Bisson took a moment to blow kisses to her granddaughter. The camera went straight to Marie-Philip, who flashed a bright smile behind her hockey helmet then blew a kiss back to her grand-maman. The arena erupted in applause. And the tender moment between the 92-year-old and the superstar would go viral.
Over the coming days, all eyes will be on Marie-Philip Poulin at the 2026 Milan-Cortina Olympics as she leads a Canadian team hungry to defend its Olympic gold medal. Only this time, Marie-Philip and her team of Olympic veterans will need to prevail over a younger and talented U.S. womenâs hockey team built to take home the gold. For her fifth â and perhaps final â Games, Marie-Philipâs Team Canada is the underdog.
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âFor sure, you donât want to disappoint,â Marie-Philip says, acknowledging the weight of a nation. âYou want to do well. Using this pressure on the positive side, for me, fuels my fire every day.â
At 34, Marie-Philip is arguably the best player in womenâs hockey history, a generational star whose performance over a career spanning 15 years has earned her numerous international accolades and awards, including, most recently, MVP of the inaugural 2024-25 PWHL season, where she led the league in goals scored. Her best moments are the biggest moments, earning her the nickname âCaptain Clutch.â She is the only player â male or female â who has scored in four Olympic gold-medal games.
There is even a Marie-Philip Poulin Barbie in her honour. The raw talent is in her bones, but the stuff that sets her apart â her resilience, unwavering work ethic and humility â comes from her roots in Beauceville, and her familyâs supersized support.
âAt the end of the day, I really learned from my parents not to take anything for granted, to work hard and continue being who you are,â Poulin says.
An hourâs drive south of Quebec City, Beauceville is a town of approximately 6,300 people, divided in half by the ChaudiĂšre River. On the west side of the river is Beaucevilleâs new arena, opened in 2021. Local officials had considered calling it the âMarie-Philip Poulin Arena,â but Quebec rules forbid using the name of a living person to designate a public site.
Instead, Beaucevilleâs greatest hockey legend is displayed on four large posters outside the arena. Inside, visitors are greeted by two other pictures of Marie-Philip Poulin on the ice, one in the entrance with the words, âThe dream starts here. Welcome to our arena!â and the other one pointing towards the exit with, âIn victory or in defeat, the dream continues⊠(Have a) good trip back home!â Both are accompanied with the athleteâs signature.
Marie-Philipâs parents live across the river in a modest cosy home on top of a hill. Sitting at the kitchen table, Robert Poulin and Danye Nadeau describe their daughter as an active child who loved playing outside. Nadeau jokes that her husband was often excused from washing the dishes because their daughter was always dragging him outside.
As a little girl, Marie-Philip constantly followed her father around, copying him. When he mowed the lawn, she would take out her toy lawn mower and do the same. And when he would take his shirt off while mowing the lawn, she would take hers off, too.
At around three or four years old, Marie-Philip started figure skating classes. Her parents quickly realized it was not the right fit for her. For the classâs year-end performance, the little boys were to be dressed up as firefighters, while the little girls were to wear doll costumes. Marie-Philip despised dolls and refused to put on the doll costume.
Her father served as a volunteer firefighter, and the little girl wanted to be a firefighter like the boys, recalled her mother. âIn the end, I made sure she was a firefighter because that was really her wish.â
Marie-Philip also wanted to play hockey like her older brother, Pier-Alexandre. He went on to play junior hockey and now enjoys a coaching career. In recent months, he has been quietly training Italyâs womenâs hockey team for the 2026 Olympics and will be their assistant coach during the Games.
When Pier-Alexandre practised at the local arena, instead of going off to play with the other playersâ little sisters, Poulin would sit on the bench between her parents and carefully watch the game. On the ride home, she would discuss with her brother what went on during the game in detail, her mother says.
âIt was so funny to hear. Sometimes I would look at Robert and ask him, âWhere does all this come from?â This was a five- or six-year-old kid who was talking to her brother.â
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So, her parents bought her some used hockey gear at a flea market and signed her up for a boys team.
Nadeau said Marie-Philip was probably five years old when she played hockey for the first time. âShe was good. She was so good â it was incredible. She was better than all the little boys that were there. She had a natural talent.â
âI fell in love with hockey and I havenât looked back even once,â says Marie-Philip.
Juggling jobs to keep the kids playing
With Pier-Alexandre and Marie-Philip both in hockey, their parents had to juggle two or three jobs each to make ends meet.
Their mother worked as an administrative assistant for the local hospital during the day. In the evenings, sometimes until 1 a.m., she would write articles or enter hockey statistics as communications officer for the Beauce-Amiante hockey league. The money she made from that went directly to pay her childrenâs hockey registration fees.
Their father worked as a stretcher-bearer at the hospital, served as a volunteer firefighter and took on some handyman work on weekends.
The rest of the time, both parents would be busy driving their children to hockey practice, games and tournaments.
If the children wanted new hockey equipment, that was their Christmas gift. If it was a more expensive piece of equipment, it was their Christmas and birthday gift combined. Other than a few camping trips, the family took no vacations.
During hockey tournaments, other players and their families would eat at a restaurant, but the Poulin family would eat in their car in the parking lot from a cooler filled with sandwiches and Gatorade. Marie-Philip said she sometimes wondered why she couldnât be with the others, but âat the end of the day, we were playing hockey and that was the most important thing.â
Marie-Philip could only play in the AA hockey league every other year because the fees were too expensive, her mother said. Other years, she would play in a lower-level league, which meant they wouldnât have to travel far for games and tournaments.
In the years when Marie-Philip had to leave the AA team, coaches would tell Nadeau to make sure her daughter knew that it wasnât due to a lack of talent, it was her familyâs decision for financial reasons.
âBut Marie would still leave their office crying,â her mother says.
Pier-Alexandre shares one post-game discussion with his parents when he was a young teen. It was a Saturday morning, and heâd played in Charlevoix, northeast of Quebec City, about an hour and a half drive from home. By his own account, he had not played well.
He remembers coming back to the car and his parents asking if he still wanted to play hockey. âI said, âOf course. Why?â They said, âWe wonât drive an hour and a half, like we did this morning, and have three jobs for you to not work harder than everyone else.â
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âIt definitely stuck with me. I still remember that discussion,â he says, adding that his sister was in the car with them when it took place.
âIt was the right thing to do. After that, they never had to tell me again to work hard, to work harder. It never became a problem again for me or Marie-Philip.â
Marie-Philip says she will forever be grateful for everything her parents did so that their children could play hockey.
âSometimes, when youâre younger, you donât realize all those efforts, but as you grow up, you just tell yourself, âWow, they did so much.ââ
As for Pier-Alexandre, he says he is proud to see his sister remain humble through it all.
âShe knows it wasnât easy for us to get here.â
Competitive siblings
Marie-Philip played hockey exclusively with boys until the age of 15. But her first and favourite adversary was her older brother.
As children, they would often play hockey in their unfinished basement. Their parents would cover the pipes with Styrofoam so they wouldnât burst with an errant slapshot. Eventually, there were so many holes in the walls that their parents had to renovate the entire basement.
Their mother jokes that she used to own a bookcase with glass doors â until there was no more glass. âIt was just a part of life with kids,â she says with a laugh. âWe had to get used to it and live with it.â
Pier-Alexandre says his sister was forever after him to play hockey. He would eventually relent, on the condition that she be the goaltender. Even in that role, she was good.
âSheâs really one of the best natural athletes Iâve seen in my life,â her brother says.
Despite a three-year age gap, he says his relationship with his sister was very competitive. It took her years before she could beat him in certain sports, but she would never stop trying and would always insist they keep score. âShe couldnât help herself. You could see that her objective was to be able to beat me one day,â Pier-Alexandre says.
At the local arena, however, Pier-Alexandre would take on the role of protective big brother. To Marie-Philipâs credit, he says, she always carved out her own space on teams.
âI think that what clubs and parents appreciated was that not only was she contributing to the teamâs success, but she was also someone who worked very hard, who was humble, who knew her place. If she had acted cocky after scoring two goals, I think the little boys would have been annoyed,â he says. âI think her humility comes from there.â
Her mother says that playing against boys helped shape her daughterâs hockey skills. Marie-Philip had to learn to skate fast to not get checked into the boards. âIt stepped up her game,â says Nadeau.
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Marie-Philip says she was sometimes targeted by opponents on the ice for being the only girl. âI would get picked on, but I would get up faster than I fell.â
Even so, her parents took extra precautions to ensure she was safe. Before every game, they would contact the arena where the game was taking place to ask for a key to a separate changing room for their daughter. Many arenas did not have separate changing rooms, so Marie-Philip would find herself in the first aid room. After every game, her parents would guard the door to make sure their daughter could change or shower undisturbed.
It was only when Marie-Philip joined Quebecâs U18 AAA league â considered the highest level of youth hockey for players with college or professional potential â at the age of 15 that she started to doubt her future in menâs hockey, according to her brother.
She would have been the first female to have played at that level. Some players felt she was taking a guyâs place. She had a bullâs-eye on her back.
âThese were not boys anymore â they were men,â says her mother. âI didnât want her to get killed.â
âA dominant playerâ
Peter Smith, who was assistant coach on the 2010 Canadian Olympic team, remembers the first time he saw Marie-Philip Poulin play. She might have been 14 or 15 years old.
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âI mean, she was just a dominant player,â he says. âShe was strong and fit and fast and skilled, and she was way ahead of most of the players of her own age, and even players who are older than she was.â
She did not speak a lot of English at the time, and Smith recalls her being quite shy. âBut you could tell that she was a really good young person and wanted to learn.â
In 2007, professional womenâs ice hockey was taking shape with the creation of the Canadian Womenâs Hockey League (CWHL) and its newly formed Montreal Stars, which would become the Montreal Canadiennes.
Sixteen-year-old Marie-Philip saw an opportunity to move to the big city and play hockey. But she would have to convince her parents first.
Her mother wanted to make sure that she would be âcardedâ by Hockey Canada, meaning she would be receiving financial assistance, should she decide to move to Montreal.
âI told her, âIf youâre not carded by Hockey Canada, forget it,ââ Nadeau says.
Marie-Philip asked her coaching staff, who inquired if Smith thought she would be make the cut. He said yes. Pierre Rougeau, father of hockey player Lauriane Rougeau, who would also join the Montreal Stars, offered to have the young girl stay with them in Pointe-Claire.
By the next day, Nadeau says she was packing her young daughterâs bags and driving her to Montreal. âWhen I left her in Montreal, I cried so much.â
Marie-Philip says older Stars teammates, including legends Caroline Ouellette and Kim St-Pierre, treated her like their little sister, driving her everywhere, even when hockey practices were at 10 or 11 p.m.
Marie-Philip realized she had to learn English to make it on the Canadian team. To immerse herself, she did her last year of high school at Kuper Academy, a prestigious English private school on Montrealâs West Island, thanks to a hockey coach who managed to get her in despite a long wait-list.
It was a tall order for a teenager who, by her own admission, could only say the words âyes,â ânoâ and âtoasterâ in English when she left Beauceville.
âSheâs exaggerating a little,â says her mother with a laugh. She says Marie-Philip had learned some basics in English in an enriched high school program at home. âBut when you leave Beauce, youâre not bilingual.
âThat year was incredibly stressful.â
But Marie-Philip did it, and then did a year at Dawson College in Montreal. She took a year off school so she could be in Calgary in time for team training for the 2010 Winter Olympics in Vancouver.
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Smith remembers a team-building challenge as part of the training in Calgary that involved speed golf. The idea was to finish playing nine holes in teams, as quickly as possible.
âIâm watching this girl swing a golf club, and Iâm thinking, âHoly smokes, if she wasnât a hockey player, she could be a pro golfer,ââ he says. âSheâs just a naturally gifted athlete.â
Beauceville rallied around Poulin
In December 2009, Beauceville was given the opportunity to host the Olympic flame. Marie-Philipâs mother said she got goosebumps when she saw it. âI felt something â it was so strong.â
At that moment, Marie-Philipâs parents were still waiting to hear if their daughter would make it to the national team.
The official announcement came just before Christmas. When her father went to work at the hospital the next day, he was wearing Marie-Philipâs No. 29 on his back.
Beauceville got into motion to support its 18-year-old Olympic athlete. The city distributed 75,000 placemats to local bars and restaurants with the dates of Team Canada games, according to media reports, as well as 4,000 stickers with No. 29 handed out at hockey tournaments.
The local arena also launched a fundraising campaign to help her parents travel to Vancouver to see their daughter play in person. They were there, along with Pier-Alexandre, on Feb. 25, 2010, for Canadaâs gold-medal game against the United States.
âJust to see her in the warm-up on the ice, it hit me that my little sister was on Team Canada,â says Pier-Alexandre, who was playing for University of Moncton at the time. âShe had realized her dream. And she hadnât done anything yet.â
Before the game started, Pier-Alexandre says he tried to temper his parentsâ expectations. Marie-Philip was a rookie player, he explained, so there was a chance she might not play much in the final game. They were the only three people in the Vancouver arena wearing her jersey.
But back in Beauceville, 1,000 people showed up at the rink to cheer their local celebrity on four giant screens. Nadeau called her brother, who was there. âI said, âMaybe she wonât even play. Why did you do all this?ââ she told him.
Minutes later, Canada scored their first goal. It was Marie-Philipâs.
And then she scored again.
âThe roof almost lifted because everyone was so euphoric,â says Nadeau.
There were still two periods left. The Americans never scored.
âEven back then, she just seems to rise to the occasion and produces in those moments where it really matters,â says coach Smith. âShe was the Sidney Crosby of our team.â
âItâs hard to explain,â Pier-Alexandre says of his sisterâs clutch moments. âSomething flips inside Marie. She manages to take the game to the next level, and she always manages to make the difference. Itâs impressive.â
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Leading teammates by example
In 2024, Marie-Philip Poulin married the love of her life, Team Canada and PWHL teammate Laura Stacey. Together, they share a golden retriever named Arlo.
Pier-Alexandre credits Stacey with giving his sister a second wind as an athlete.
For his part, he canât keep up with her anymore. âToday, if I work out with her, I canât walk for a week.â
Marie-Philip and Stacey train every day, even while on vacation. âI think just that consistent willingness to do what it takes, the consistent willingness to prepare more than anybody else has, I think thatâs ultimately what sets you apart at the end of the day. And Iâve been able to see it firsthand,â says Stacey of her partner.
âWhen you see the amount of work she puts in, when you see the attention to detail, the willingness to learn and consistently get better, it completely makes sense.â
Goaltender Desbiens, who spends a lot of time with both of them, says she has never seen two people compete as much against each other.
If Stacey beats Marie-Philip during a sprint contest at the gym, Marie-Philip will want a rematch, and vice versa, says Desbiens, to the point their coaches have to physically separate them â or they would still be sprinting, days later.
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âI think that even drinking a glass of milk is a competition at home,â Desbiens says.
As a leader, Marie-Philip is mostly the silent type, and tends to lead by example with her unfaltering work ethic, says Desbiens. If Marie-Philip knows she has to spend 12 hours on a television set one day to record a commercial, she will get up at 4 a.m. to squeeze in a workout beforehand.
âItâs important to understand that the success that she enjoys does not just happen.â
Stacey addresses the question of whether this will be their last Olympics. She says they talk about it a lot. But no decision has been made.
âAt the end of the day, I think where weâre both at in our career â and her especially â is to enjoy every single present moment,â Stacey says.
For Milan, Marie-Philipâs fifth Olympics, Beauceville will once again encourage businesses, schools and residents to show support for their homegrown hero. âWeâre going into âMarie-Philipâ mode,â says Paul Morin, the townâs director of communications.
Team Canadaâs womenâs hockey games will be broadcast at the local arena, with more elaborate entertainment planned for the semifinal and final games. The womenâs gold-medal game takes place Feb. 19.
âThis little girl has gone farâ
In early January, before all the Olympic hype has started, grand-maman Julienne Bisson is sitting on her couch in Beauceville, looking proudly at the portrait of Marie-Philip on her side table. Itâs the day after the big game in Quebec City, and her viral moment on the jumbo screen blowing a kiss to her granddaughter.
Amused, Bisson says a little girl came up to her during the game after she saw her on the big screen and asked if she could touch her. âThese children know who Marie-Philip is. They want to follow her example.â
Bisson is beaming as she explains how her granddaughter has turned her into a hockey enthusiast. The 92-year-old will be watching Marie-Philip take to the ice again for Canada in Milan-Cortina, hoping she brings back another Olympic gold medal to the town that launched her.
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