#grassleaves

Imma assume the “not” is a typo thing. ^_^

But seriously. I was talking at work about how my aunt just paid for a house for my mom until my grandfather’s estate pays. It’s a loan. Cool. All right my mom has a place to live. I don’t like her, but I don’t wish anyone so ill that they can’t have a roof over their head and food in their mouth. I just merely want nothing to do with said person.

And this weekend on the way to buy the house, my aunt and cousin paid for everything. EVERYTHING. My mom didn’t say thank you. At dinners and lunches, she chewed with her mouth open sooo much it grossed my cousin out, and I just find it gross. I would say that to anyone who chewed with their mouth open and talked loudly and boisterously with their mouth full of food. It’s gross.  She keeps sayings with such glee “I’m gonna take care of myself! Finally!” when she can’t take a shower, expects the rest of the family to find her housing (and front the cost), and assumes that the world will kowtow to her every need and whim. SHE SENT MY COUSIN 27 EMAILS IN ONE DAY! every single one angry, bitter, nonsense.

And people at work are like “Don’t talk about your mamma like that”

Apparently I can talk shit as much as I want about my stepmom but my mom’s own vile toxic influence should just be accepted because she gave birth to me.

“But it’s your mother, she gave you life.”

Yeah. She also threatened my future education by refusing to hand over her tax information despite the fact that that is in no way legal. She manipulated me into going to a wedding I can’t afford to go to, then proceeded to yell at me about arrangements she made without my knowledge and she was yelling at me becuase I wasn’t paying attention to something I didn’t know about.

“But your mom had a stroke.”

The only thing the stroke did was make my mom even more vile and toxic. Instead of containing her manipulations to her children she spread that shit to the rest of the family. 

Sorry. That was a lot. but I makes me so angry when I hear this sappy “she’s your mom sentiment.”