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Being a genius means being true to ourselves.

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I was fortunate to have a doctor who personalized his solutions to each patient rather than resorting to prejudice labeling. 

Society often encourages us to oppress our peculiarities and wants us to pick up common beliefs to fit into society. The more we do that, the further we stay from our true selves

We blindly give up our uniqueness, ideas, and our genius. It might get lost forever as our uniqueness is irreplaceable. 

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When Cole was asked what his favorite color was, he told the truth saying its purple. Carrie was happy because her dream was to find someone who likes purple. That's when Cole finally found a sense of belonging.

Removing your uniqueness just to fit in may seem like a safer path, but it also has serious pitfalls.

People felt insulted when someone questions their beliefs because they mistakenly treat that insult as an attack on ourselves

We all have some characteristics/interests that can be discovered through experimenting. 

We may have different opinions and perhaps disagree with each other. However, by responding constructively -rephrase what others say and add your idea- you ensure mutual understanding. 

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Being honest with ourselves is the simple method to reach our goal. 

In society, we follow all the steps, but we are not seeing our desired results. That's because we mindlessly repeat others’ actions without knowing their purpose. 

In cooking, a chef named Julia is famous for not fully following others’ recipes. She would grasp the fundamental rules of each recipe, but then she remixed them to make her own version of the recipe. It became a masterpiece

Its telling you that it's fine to find inspiration, but don’t replicate the whole thing

Another scenario is if we excel in one field though it's not exactly how I wanted to go, I would rework it into something new. 

Ask yourself which knowledge is essential? Which knowledge is redundant?

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We were always told to “follow your passion”, but it makes us more confused because we don’t know what we really want.

There's no need to search for an activity that will fuel us forever, because we & our preferences change throughout life. 

Instead of worrying about not having dreams, we should do activities that follow our curiosity. If that activity motivates us to get up from bed, continue that activity. 

Try to track down things that exhaust & boost energy

The most reliable way to test our aspirations is by experiment. The real word is different from what people had in mind. 

You can experiment by participating in internships, classes, trips.

EX: Hosting a podcast, it's harder than it looks. Thus we need to discover the downsides before committing. The hard part when hosting a podcast is finding people who enjoy talking a lot. 

Even a safe road can lead us to failure.

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Sometimes we feel stuck even doing the activity that inspires us. it's normal, we can't always be at the peak of our creativity. 

How to stimulate creativity:

Diversifying: If you are bored with your first project, move on to the 2nd one and work on that. Incorporate new elements that are different from the 1st project. This way, you are warmed up and can return to the 1st project with fresh ideas. It lessens the pressure of expectations. 

Separate brainstorming and criticism: People usually dismiss an idea as unimportant (whether it is bc its stupid), thus we remove that idea from our heads. So, give each notion a chance before you toss it away. 

Our world is highly dynamic, so being skilled in one area doesn’t guarantee long term success. 

After watching a funny video, people solve problems faster. 

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Despite discovering your true colors, people still hesitate to show their uniqueness/genius to others. We tend to overthink with these questions:

“Our ideas aren’t new”: this statement is implying that everyone has the same knowledge. However, there's a small chance that those notions we thought were “unoriginal” would be helpful insights to others. That's what makes life beautiful. Our unique perspectives will enrich even well-known facts with new meanings. 

“We may fail”: We do make mistakes, but this is the cost of chasing our dreams. If we stay in our comfort zone, you are wasting your potential. Even the most successful people make mistakes, but what makes them cool is they quickly get back on track. 

“Our contributions are pointless' ': Hey- it's better to help out. We all don’t know what to expect. For example, due to the nurse giving the patient a hair comb, that person became successful. It's known that a small aid can be very impactful. 

Multitasking is one reason why we can only execute some of our potential.

For example, when I work on 2 tasks at the same time, the outcome would be worse than if the tasks were to be done individually. That's because we use only a fraction of our capabilities, rather than as a whole. 

Another reason is distractions, especially technology:

An average person spends 2 hours on social media per day. At that point, I could read 100 books if I spent that same amount daily for a whole year. 

Despite scrolling through many boring posts in search of an interesting one, we continuously check our social media. That's because if social media provide exciting videos all time, people get bored easily. So, showing an exciting post once in a while prompts people to search for that interesting post, thus people would be addicted. 

When social media provides unexpected feed, we become addicted to it. 

Misinformation is a way to go viral. 

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Busyness became a synonym for success. We tend to fill in tasks every hour because the more we do, the more valuable we feel. That doesn't mean overworking will make you achieve your goals, its counterproductive. Torturing ourselves with more work can prevent us from accomplishing our goal. 

Each one of us possess a unique gift that needs developing. Let's listen to our inner voice. The world is eager to show our true colors. 

Try recording your thoughts/doubts that stop you from doing what you want.