#good luck!!!!

i am once again coming to ask u n ur lovely followers a sex ed question u probably do not remember me but. yes i literally dont know who else to ask 💔 if this makes u uncomfortable at all feel free to ignore!!! i am 19

so me and my bf tried to go all the way for the first time the other day and it hurt when he went deep, even tho he wasnt even fully hard yet and he fingered me before doing anything? is that pain js normal or was i still not aroused enough do u think, and is there anything we can do to fix this 😔? thank u in advance if u choose to reply goat

I remember you!! I think you asked something similar before!!

It's definitely possible you were not the right level of aroused yet. I would suggest leaning into foreplay and spending a while on it before attempting penetration!! You mentioned he fingered you but did he spend any time stimulating your clit or any of your other erogenous zones?? (Everyone is different so not sure what yours are but for me it's the nipples. Just like a minute or two of a guy playing with them is enough to drive me wild lol. Make sure he is dedicated sufficient time getting you all worked up, whatever it is that you like!!)

I think I said this before as well but definitely also use lube; if you're new to sex it can go a long way in helping counteract some of the nerves you're probably feeling. This is my #1 tip to give you that I cannot emphasize enough and I feel like young couples don't use it enough tbh.

Other than that, if it's the depth of the penetration that hurts you can also try different positions; if you guys do it while spooning that can limit how deep he goes, or if you try cowgirl, that lets you control the pace & depth and lets you decide how much of him goes in & when!! That also can help counteract nerves, if they are the root of your discomfort!!

That’s very good of you to care for them and help them find homes! It can be tough to rehome kittens, especially if you live somewhere with a lot of cats.

I took a peek at your post and it looks like you’re doing everything right: listing out health info, identifying the location and how far you’re willing to travel, and providing some info about the kittens. I find that sometimes giving them funny names can help. On tumblr, keep posting photos and videos of them to really show off their personalities. Maybe some videos of their harness training progress? People are more likely to fall in love with a kitten they know more about!

While I had some success giving away kittens on tumblr, admittedly most of the litters I raised found homes on other platforms. I had pretty good success on kijiji (like Canadian Craigslist). You do have to vet potential adopters there more thoroughly to ensure they’ll keep them as indoor cats, but since you have access to a wider local group it’s a bit easier than on an international platform like tumblr where your followers might be a bit more spread out. I don’t think Facebook allows pet rehoming, but maybe try searching for other locally-based online groups to advertise them there.

mmmmmmmmm okay I genuinely don’t know how you will react. I have a lot of very strong opinions on it, and there’s a lot of REALLY good things and a lot of not great things and a couple bad things in terms of writing decision stuff. imo.

I just started a chief of staff job for a very Mufasa-esque guy and I feel for Zazu sometimes. It's like herding (big) cats, you know? 😁

😊😊😊😊😊😊😊😊😊😊😊😊 thank you!!!!!! It always makes me so very happy to hear this and I so appreciate it!!!

i will be back in 3 days, stay healthy and joyous until then mother, luv u <3

omggg!!!!!!!!!!! like my honest recommendation is to watch the entire show because it's all sooo important, their story goes DEEP and is a big part of the shows entire ground. eddie isn't in s1 but s1 only has 10 episodes and can be watched in a day. i'd highly suggest you do that because this show is worth watching for besides buddie, even though i mainly watch for them.