Dont be scared of your single years.
Today, me and a sister in Christ and a brother in Christ were talking about how me and my friend know a girl who is so scared of being alone, who has been in an abusive relationship for so long but she has never had the courage to break up because of that fear of ending up alone.Â
& me and her were talking about how we should never be scared of being alone when you come to the realization that 1. Gods timing is perfect, that He is enough, in him we have everything we need, when we accept our single years, and enjoy them really enjoy then and serve the Lord in everything that we do, those fears slowly start to diminish and vanish.
I will be honest with you there was a point in my life where i was scared i was truly scared that id end up alone, but the more i get to know God the more I fall in love with him the more i come to terms that in these years 1. im preparing for the future, two i can serve my family, friends and community to the max because i have no husband, boyfriend, or children. That i will make the best of these years in serving our Lord and preparing for what is yet to come. That there is not reason to rush or worry over something that we have no control over because God is always in control and knows whats best for your. So enjoy your single years, get to know people, serve God in every aspect of your life and if you do get weary pray pray pray because soon you'll see that God is enough, that there is a time for everything and in him alone you have everything you need. & he will, in his time send you your soulmate, your other rib, the person you will say I thank you God that i was patient and loved you even when i didn't know what will happen.Â
