#godspouses

I also suppose it depends on how you view gods. Do you think they’re so other worldly and beyond us that they don’t even “need” us? Or are they more personal than that? I’ve seen someone say that they think gods don’t have stomachs or understand human emotions! 😭 To each their own!

But personally, I view gods as very powerful beings that can show up to us in so many ways that our eyes cannot even comprehend sometimes. I do think they have stomachs, through. Lol. (Yes I saw someone say they do not eat and don’t have stomachs) I also believe they love very very deeply, they have complex emotions and personalities just like the rest of us. They fuck up, have flaws, and are like us in many ways.

So with believing that, comes with believing in the idea that they could come across a human that they enjoy the company of on a deeper level than just worship or work. I think it happens a lot more often than we think, actually. Does something always come of it? Probably not, but I do think it happens often. I don’t always believe people saying they’re “godspoused” either, (meh on that phrase) but I suspend my belief. Because usually, these people are in disbelief too and go through many hoops to ensure the feelings their deity feels are the real deal too.

I see people say that godspouses aren’t better than them and to that I say of course they aren’t! If someone that’s in a relationship with a deity says they’re better than others than take it up with that specific asshole, not an entire group of people. If you’re someone that believes that gods only want worship and they don’t want to be your friend, lover, parental figure or otherwise, to each their own! Just don’t be a dick.

And to the actual people out there that are in a relationship or multiple relationships with deities: please take care of yourself. And before you think of getting into a relationship with one, please, I beg of you, think about yourself and your mental health first. Can you handle not being their only lover, partner? Can you handle seeing others talk about your god in a romantic way, even sexual manner? How they please others besides you? How you’re not the only one in their life?

I hate to be so blunt, but the idea of someone getting into a relationship with a god even though the jealousy will eat them up at night makes me so sad. Now I don’t say all that to say that your relationship isn’t important. It’s just not the only romantic relationship this god has. I truly believe gods love their partners very deeply. To feel a god’s love in this way is very special. It’s something that cannot be described easily. It’s a love that makes people become poets.

But it’s not for everyone. Think about it first.

Your relationship with said deity is valid and it’s yours. Whatever form it may take. Cherish it and take care of it.