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It's a day off, and you need extra help relaxing

Your partner enjoys it, and you just want to let THEM enjoy your little/ ABDL SIDE

It's a weekend, and aren't you SUPPOSED to relax on the weekend?

You know, a diaper might just be super comfy and it's RIGHT there...

It's not "indulging" if it's a core aspect of your personality

You are in the mood for snuggles

You're feeling stressed and want to destress

You're feeling bored and want to feel engaged and excited

You're tingly in JUST THE RIGHT WAY to let your little side out

You want to make your partner/cg/ friend see your cute side!

Your stuffies haven't had enough snuggles and need the extra attention

It's laundry day, so you might need to start wearing that onesie while you wash your other clothes

Same as above but with diapers instead of undies

You are craving "little" foods like chicken nuggets or mac and cheese

Your partner needs a reminder of just how adorably cute you can be

You haven't had an excuse to be little in a while and it just feels fun

You think you're gonna go crazy if you gotta keep pretending to be a full tiny "big boy/ big girl" so it's time for a break

You're excitable and it helps turn you on or increases your enjoyment of said state

Diapers are super soft and cozy to sit on

You had a tough week, why not just get a little less stressed?

Your nap time needs are unmet, and littlespace and nap time go hand in hand

You want a justification, so you're on tumblr or other sites looking at stuff that is related to being abdl and little, so you CLEARLY just need to indulge a little!

Whatever your reason, whatever your excuse, justification, rationale, inciting cause, etc: enjoy your little and ABDL time, because you deserve it!

Stay happy, stay healthy, and stay kinky!

Wearing a fluffy seat that goes with you, that's warm and soft and cozy??? Yes please!

Come on, the phrase "Diaperbutt" is too cute to go to waste! Obviously, you need to embrace the word to embrace the full cute Diaperbutt feelings!

Have you seen a cutie's padded bum? Fucking cute. Don't you WANT that???

No searching for a potty just because you're unable to hold it

You love being Subby, cute, dependent on your CG/ partner/ dominant, right? This just makes that even more true!

You're meant to be padded.. how do you know? You're reading a blog/post online that encourages abdl. Clearly, you're meant to be padded!

PLLLEEEAAASSSSEEEE? See, I asked nicely, so you pretty much Have to agree now!

Fate: if you weren't meant to be a padded cutie, and perfectly pervy padded pretty prince or princess... then why would that sound so adorably cute and "right" for you?

Nothing in the whole universe makes your brain quite as Subby, little, and regressive as a diaper or pull-up. Just know that, accept it, and then feel good embracing your needs

Your partner, caregiver, dom(me), big, or other authority figure in your life or dynamic told you to. That's really the best reason of all!

There's SO MANY very good reasons to be a Cute little Diaperbutt.... you should go prove yourself the cutest, littlest, messiest and/or neediest baby-prince or baby-princess around! Join the ranks of the well padded, pervy, perfect people already enjoying their fun!

And as always,

Stay happy, stay healthy, and stay kinky!

Stuffies are never "immature", they're ADORABLE and anybody dating otherwise is a poopy

You get to call people great things, like poopy... instead of swearing, being rude, or hurting feelings, you say cute, adorable, infantile things

Diapers mean you can sit almost anywhere and feel comfy

Have you seen thick diapee butt?? It's fucking fantastic. Big, squishable tushy time? Heck yes

You can still enjoy things like Disney, pixar, etc without worrying about how people might Pixar,

A BILLION PERCENT better at cuddling than other people. It's a fact, a scientific fact, that ABDLs cuddle better than anybody else

Being bratty as an abdl isn't just allowed, it's often encouraged. Other areas of life? Not so much. As an abdl? Throwing a tantrum or being pouty becomes cute as heck

Naps are good and people need them. And as an ABDL it's not only acceptable but encouraged, which is fabulous. Too many people need better sleep and nap time helps this enormously.

Whimsy. When did people stop having whimsical, cute, adorable views of the world? Well fortunately, ABDLs still have whimsical fun inside, so we can fix that fact

Cuz my mommy said so! Yeah, that's right, having a mommy or a daddy is cool, and having a mommy or daddy that TELLS you you're adorable, cute, sweet, etc... it's amazing.

Storytime is awesome sauce. Truly, have you had anyone read you a story as an adult? Your mind wanders, you can almost see it in your head. It's an in person audio book and I'm here for it

Bum pats! It's cute as fuck to get affective bum pats, and if you're in diapers or pullups, it's somehow even cuter

Being touchy Feely is encouraged. Seriously, when did people stop holding hands, leaning into their partner, getting all adorably handsy and touchy-feely???? It's great

Playing pretend is never not fun. Really young? Super fun. Middle aged? Super fun. Elderly? Still fun. You never outgrow imagination!

Ageplay, ABDL, and more teach you about the kinky side of life. Kinky things are too rarely explored, and abdl/ ageplay/ infantilism introduce you to be fetish, kink, and sexy things you otherwise would miss out on!

Be kinky! Celebrate your ABDL side! Celebrate your little side! Celebrate whimsy, and stuffies, and sing alongs, and having FUN in your life!

And as always,

Diaper pats

Forehead kisses

Back rubbies

Frequent infantilization

Bedtime snuggles

After work babying and regression

Morning cuddles

Nini stories

Cute hand holding

Gentle teasing

Cute reminders

Diapee checks/ potty checks

Paci or thumb for suckling

Holding hands to cross the street

Being dressed, instead of choosing yourself

Diapee/ pull up changes... especially extra blushy ones

Stuffies, all the stuffies

Bath or shower time!

Bath/ shower TOYS!

Constant regression!!

And thank you for reading my silly baby thoughts!

Sharing stuffies

OVERWHELMING amounts of stuffies

JUST SO FUCKING MANY stuffies, especially if you also somehow know their names

Wiggling at you: Bonus points for shaking/wiggling a padded booty

Bringing you snacks. After all, nothing says love like snack foods

Lots of loud affectionate declarations. Like yelling "I FUCKING LOVE YOU" from the next room seemingly at random

Touchy feely time: no, not necessarily nsfw, but also that if it's part of your dynamic and relationship

Nuzzling/ rubbing on you, which is downright adorable... though might walk the line of petplay?

Aggressively burrowing into your chest/arms/ lap

Not arguing about bedtime... much

Pouty/grumpy face when you need to leave, or even full on sad pouting

Pouncing on top of you... for snuggles

Licking you (because if you lick something, it's yours, duh!)

Extra long hugs

Holding your hand (unless it's just to cross the street)

Being extra little and cute, to try to win you over

NAPS together... naps are evil, unless they're cuddle naps. Then they're great.

Singing at you. No promises it'll be on key, but they're trying

Random butt slaps, grabs, pinches, etc

I've always been a fetishist. It's something deep within me that doesn't ever really go away. I've ignored it for long periods (Looking at you, early college years!), I've dabbled in it, I've even reveled in and embraced it (That's now). When that happens, I've picked up and discarded a few different kinks and interests. There was a time where catheter play got me going, and the idea of a stent would've made me blush and squirm. If you asked me in the past if I'd ever even temporarily tolerate chastity, much less make it a frequent, daily thing for me? I'd have said it was highly unlikely, maybe even impossible to imagine. Now, it's just on days that end with Y.

Throughout that time, I've had a lot of fetishes, and kinks, I've dabbled, I've played, I've explored and embraced and tested out and attempted a whole lot. And there's been one very strong, very present constant.

Loss of control.

That's huge for me. It's integral, a part of my very identity that fills me up and makes me feel good about myself. I have zero good explanation for this; You might argue it's about the idea of being accepted with imperfections, you could try to view it through the Freudian lens (Don't: That dude was kinky AF, and assumed it was universal, not gonna work here) but however it works, you're going to come up short. There isn't a single clear explanation, it's just something I need!

Whatever the reason, it's consistent. I crave a loss of control, the ability to let go, be 'less' than my normal self, whether it's talking about ageplay, ABDL, or a hundred side-kinks and interests. And it's very, very hard to do that when you're not necessarily the most open, trusting personality.

Then along came Momma: She was patient with me, in a way most people probably wouldn't (or even shouldn't) be. When I said, "I want to go slow" she agreed to set the pace to glacial. When I sporadically tried to speed it up, or change the stakes, or alter the terms, or anything of the sort...she was fluid, and tried to move with me. She's been my rock, and my safety, and my favorite, most wonderful secure place. And as a result of that, I've developed a Momma Princess @giggle-byte fetish.

I mean that sincerely: See, if you take away my lovely lady, Momma? I don't want Chastity play. Chastity play without Momma means denial, frustration, etc. With Momma, it's teasing, lots of fun, plenty of 'fun', not feeling denied, and in fact feeling cared for, comforted, and loved.

Take away Momma, and diapers aren't my thing. With her? Sure, 24/7, I feel secure and whole and good! Without Momma? I mean, before her I was scared to leave the house padded, much less wear full time, discretely and constantly.

You can say the same thing for nearly any sort of fetish or kink. If I've got it, it's about 10000% more fun, safe, and explorable with Momma than if I didn't have her. She makes it alright to try new things, to explore, to grow and adapt and even, maybe, sometimes take a break from things. Whether it's something I need every day, every week, or just once every few months, I know my wife, my love, my better half will be there to make it a good thing. I'm incredibly, unbelievably, UNFATHOMABLY lucky to have this beautiful partner in life. And if you ever, ever get someone half as good? You hold on tight, because you're definitely going to end up developing some lovely, fun, and even sometimes WHOLESOME new kinks!

Pack stuffies for when we travel or go out! Obviously, babyboy can't sleep without his stuffies, even in a hotel... right?

Bring a diapee bag, even if we don't plan to use it!

Momma tax and butt pats: basically, if we hug, we're gonna grope, pat, and tease the other one. The pullup princess needs to be reminded she can be momma... and still a pullup princess!

Lots of physical closeness. On the couch we drape across one another, when hugging we keep it going a long time, when we get dinner, we regularly feed each other a bite! Just lots of lovey closeness-inducing things, nonstop!

Getting our partner food and water cuz "babies can be so forgetful" and tons of affectionate caregiver stuff. It's nice to be reminded it's "brekky time, sweetheart!" Is very fun and keeps our relationship kinky and cute!

Writing cute pictures and reminders to your partner, everyday. On the fridge, on post it notes, by text! Keep the fun going by showing a lot of daily affection and attention!

Making sure it's called the "potty" and an upset stomach is a "grumbly tummy" and using language that reminds you both... this is an ABDL or CG/L dynamic!

Names: I'm baby prince papi, not just my name. She's momma, or princess... we make sure the right title reinforces the right role!

Cummies apart don't mean much, when your mommy/ daddy/ caregiver partner expects you to THANK THEM and make lots of "cute noises"... suddenly your quick masturbating session feels much more controlled and kinky!

Help your partner pick their clothes! If they wear diapees, even if they change themselves make sure you watch and "help".

When they cross the street, hold their hand and give them praise for being good and holding on tight... REINFORCE the dynamic in little, subtle, private ways and you'll be far, far more invested and happy in the dynamic you build together!

Sharing in passions: my princess loves sports and I couldn't care less, but i'll celebrate her team's victories and be excited, the same way she celebrates and embraces my weird rants about the 1800s British navy, or the intricacies of bird mating habits... whatever fleeting interests we have, we share and get positive feedback on! And EXTRA points if you can tease about them being an excited little baby!

My point is this: 24/7 dynamics aren't all about sex and kink and nonstop sexytime or fetish play. But they can exist with daily reinforcement, reminders, and celebrating your nontraditional dynamics! So have fun, let your kinky self out, and don't forget to be happy, healthy, AUTHENTIC kinky people!

STUFFICATION: Noun, meaning "To be so entirely covered in stuffies you can barely see or breathe." See also 'Stuffercation' meaning "To have so many diaper stuffers you can barely move"

GORGEOUS PERVERT: Noun, meaning "A silly pseudonym, used when teasing your caregiver about being a perv while still acknowledging you love their gorgeousness, and think you enjoy their delightful perversion!"

MOMMA-MAGIC: Noun, meaning "The catch-all term for the inexplicable and seemingly supernatural ability of your caregiver to know what mischief you're up to, or to fix a problem that seems unresolvable to the little"

ITTY-BITTY-BABYBRAIN: Noun, meaning "The cutesy term used by caregivers to explain why a little loses inhibitions or understanding when regressed or feeling cutesy"

SWITCHIFICATION: Noun, meaning "The unique ability of an abdl or'little' to switch from little and infantile behavior to serious adult and mature topics or activities with very little effort" or, the alternative meaning, "The ability to go from little to caregiver as a 'switch' with no obvious external influences or cause"