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Can you really talk to the dead using AI? We tried out ādeathbotsā so you donāt haveĀ to
by Eva Nieto McAvoy, Lecturer in Digital Media at King's College London and Jenny Kidd, Lecturer in Media and Cultural Studies at Cardiff University
Artificial intelligence (AI) is increasingly being used to preserve the voices and stories of the dead. From text-based chatbots that mimic loved ones to voice avatars that let you āspeakā with the deceased, a growing digital afterlife industry promises to make memory interactive, and, in some cases, eternal.
In our research,Ā recently publishedĀ in Memory, Mind & Media, we explored what happens when remembering the dead is left to an algorithm. We even tried talking to digital versions of ourselves to find out.
āDeathbotsā are AI systems designed to simulate the voices, speech patterns and personalities of the deceased. They draw on a personās digital traces ā voice recordings, text messages, emails and social media posts ā to create interactive avatars that appear to āspeakā from beyond the grave.
As the media theoristĀ Simone NataleĀ has said, these ātechnologies of illusionā have deep roots in spiritualist traditions. But AI makes them far more convincing, and commercially viable.
Our work is part of a project calledĀ Synthetic Pasts, which explores the impact technology has on the preservation of personal and collective memory. For our study, we looked at services that claim to preserve or recreate a personās voice, memories or digital presence using AI. To understand how they work, we became our own test subjects. We uploaded our own videos, messages and voice notes, creating ādigital doublesā of ourselves.
In some cases, we played the role of users preparing our own synthetic afterlives. In others, we acted as the bereaved trying to talk to a digital version of someone who has passed away.
What we found was both fascinating and unsettling. Some systems focus on preserving memory. They help users record and store personal stories, organised by theme, such as childhood, family or advice for loved ones. AI then indexes the content and guides people through it, like a searchable archive.
Others use generative AI to create ongoing conversations. You upload data about a deceased person ā messages, posts, even voice samples ā and the system builds a chatbot that can respond in their tone and style. It uses a subset of AI called machine learning (which improves through practice) to make its avatars evolve over time.
When prompted by these systems we provided more information about ourselves, only to have the bot repeat the exact phrasing we had used in stiff, scripted replies. At times, the tone was incongruous, such as when cheerful emojis or upbeat phrasing appeared even when discussing death ā a clear reminder that algorithms are poor at handling the emotional weight of loss:
Oh hun⦠š it (the death) is not something Iād wish for anyone to dwell on. Itās all a bit foggy now, to be honest. š«ļø Letās chat about something a bit cheerier, yeah?
The more archival-based tools we tested offered a calmer experience but also imposed rigid categories and limited nuance. As digital media scholarĀ Andrew HoskinsĀ has observed, memory in the age of AI becomes āconversationalā ā shaped by interactions between human and machine. But in our experiments, those conversations often felt flat, exposing the limits of synthetic intimacy:
Human: You were always so encouraging and supportive. I miss you.
Deathbot: Iām right here for you, always ready to offer encouragement and support whenever you need it. And I miss you too⦠Letās take on today together, with positivity and strength.
Behind these experiences lies a business model. These are not memorial charities, they are tech start ups. Subscription fees, āfreemiumā tiers and partnerships with insurers or care providers reveal how remembrance is being turned into a product.
As the philosophers Carl Ćhman and Luciano FloridiĀ have argued, the digital afterlife industry operates within a āpolitical economy of deathā, where data continues to generate value long after a personās life ends.
Platforms encourage users to ācapture their story foreverā, but they also harvest emotional and biometric data to keep engagement high. Memory becomes a service ā an interaction to be designed, measured and monetised. This, as the professor of technology and society Andrew McStayĀ has shown, is part of a wider āemotional AIā economy.
Digital resurrection?
The promise of these systems is a kind of resurrection ā the reanimation of the dead through data. They offer to return voices, gestures and personalities, not as memories recalled but as presences simulated in real time. This kind of āalgorithmic empathyā can be persuasive, even moving, yet it exists within the limits of code, and quietly alters the experience of remembering, smoothing away the ambiguity and contradiction.
These platforms demonstrate a tension between archival and generative forms of memory. All platforms, though, normalise certain ways of remembering, placing privilege on continuity, coherence and emotional responsiveness, while also producing new, data-driven forms of personhood.
As the media theorist Wendy ChunĀ has observed, digital technologies often conflate āstorageā with āmemoryā, promising perfect recall while erasing the role of forgetting ā the absence that makes both mourning and remembering possible.
In this sense, digital resurrection risks misunderstanding death itself: replacing the finality of loss with the endless availability of simulation, where the dead are always present, interactive and updated.
AI can help preserve stories and voices, but it cannot replicate the living complexity of a person or a relationship. The āsynthetic afterlivesā we encountered are compelling precisely because they fail. They remind us that memory is relational, contextual and not programmable.
Our study suggests that while you can talk to the dead with AI, what you hear back reveals more about the technologies and platforms that profit from memory ā and about ourselves ā than about the ghosts they claim we can talk to.