#general fandom

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>gooning to rape fantasies

>written CP

I dont think OP has the healthiest grasp on fiction, particularly the double fiction present in fan spaces. Or how sexual fantasies work. Or why someone might be interested in exploring these feelings through fiction.

Yah, I should be on a list for writing Johnny Silverhand getting fucked by Kerry Eurodyne because Johnny was dissociating through some of it (most lets be real). I should be on a list for thinking Eren Jeager and Mikasa Akerman from the hyperviolent flesh mecha show should hook up. Do we need to go so far back to my fucking Danny Phantom days?

And AO3 isn't even the smuttiest written archive on the internet. Not by a fucking country mile. Some of these folks would have an aneurysm at the shit on the real porn archives. Reluctance/Non-Con and Mind Control are different categories.

If you don't like a ship, you shouldn't type out the ship's full name in your posts because tumblr will think that is something you want to see more of. Even tagging a ship in a sentence makes it show up under that tag.

Example: "I HATE [INSERT SHIP NAME] IT'S GROSS"  ↑This makes that ship show up in that tag and in your feed. Don't do this.

Even interacting with something once is enough to ruin your dash for a while. you view the tag, or you look at a post to long and you're stuck in "ship i hate, get this away from me" HELL.

You're better off tagging "anti [insert ship name]" or just blocking the ship tags all together. You can do this by going into settings on your side bar and scrolling down to the "content you see" section.

After that, you can input tags you don't want on your dash, and for filtered content, you can input words and phrases in posts that you don't want to see.

If you don't want to do this, instead write out the ship name with letters removed, or putting a slash between the abbreviations.

Example Almin or Alu/Mina Altgra or Alu/tegra Abcrd or Abe/Card Andcrd or Ander/Card Sertgra or Ser/Tegra

Do not write Alumina, do not write Andercard, etc. This is because of how tumblr's for you page works, as well as drawing attention from people who like the ship.

If you want to be left alone, it's best that you do this because by tagging or writing stuff like this on explicitly anti posts, you also end up putting it in the main tags and searches for people that actively want to see stuff of that ship. It's just basic fandom manners and really rude to force people to see anti stuff that they don't want because of accidental crosstagging.

Basically, how would you feel if it was a ship you liked and people kept tagging the anti posts in a manner where you would see it? Probably not pretty good to be honest.

This isn't to police anyone, but to advise people to just use the tools given and protect their own mental health.

If all else fails?

TW: jump scare below the cut

Literally just let people have a good time, christ. We already live in a chronically joy-deficient dystopia, and more people should try simply not being a part of that.

Now if you actively want discussion and debate, that’s different (and I would not consider that “hate” anyway), but most of these people can’t stand anyone who disagrees with them in any way, so truly what is the point?

And I say that as someone with strong opinions, about shipping especially. But I try not to hate on ships I dislike publicly because beyond just being lame, I know my defiant ass reacts like this when someone hates on a favored pairing of mine:

Holy shit, man.

You can't expect everyone on the internet to cater to your needs and triggers. If you see something that triggers you, just take a breath and scroll. Move on. Not everyone cares about niche triggers.

Don't comment. Just leave/block and MOVE YOUR ASS ON.

No one cares about your Bible-long, hyper-specific, bullshit that is your DNI/trigger list.

Also. Just because something makes you uncomfortable or triggered doesn't mean it needs censorship or banning. Just leave it. Avoid it.

DO NOT GO OUT OF YOUR WAY TO FIND AND HATE ON WHAT YOU FIND UNCOMFORTABLE! YOU AVOID IT, DIPSHIT!