People don't seem to agree that one can be a man without following what's considered a man in the binary. I am a man outside of the "man is this" binary.
This mostly affects people's views on one's sexuality. I'm afraid my sapphic label will be ignored or dismissed just because I happen to describe my gender as man alongside other gender identities. "If your gender has man, you can't be sapphic" is this not weird? I feel like this not only invalidates my gender identity, only focusing on that part of it, but it also invalidates my attraction. I'm masc presenting, I'm gendervast, it has man in it and I'm still sapphic.
this is exorsexism
people can't decide your labels and identity for you, and if they do they're probably an exclusionist of some kind

















