#gemini placements

◆ libra + gemini mix (especially in sun, moon, rising, or venus) = charming golden retriever energy. they’re like social glue. they want everyone to be okay. sometimes they’ll pretend to be okay just to keep the energy up.

◆ people with heavy water or 4th / 8th / 12th house energy absorb pain like a sponge. they don’t just “move on.” they process everything spiritually, emotionally, mentally and it sticks for a while. . .possibly forever.

◆ strong cancer placements (moon, 4th house, mars) often mean wounds from missing father figures. this shows up as attracting people you feel you have to care for or “mother” - even pets.

◆ fixed signs (taurus, leo, scorpio, aquarius) resist change once their emotional stability is shaken. they’re slow to forgive or forget when trust breaks.

◆ taurus mercuries don’t need to push you; they create space for you to admit things yourself. they’re patient listeners who let your walls crumble on their own. they are more curious than they are judgemental.

◆ aries moons were never really allowed to be children. they were taught to survive and bury what they feel. that’s why they get so fiery when they’re finally vulnerable bc they don’t know how else to show it

◆ aquarius venus can love you deeply and still make you feel like a stranger.

People notice this about you when you talk

ARIES 3RD HOUSE

You process information really fast and react even faster you don’t sit and let it absorb, you decide mid sentence. Conversations with you move fast, you interrupt, you jump in, you answer before people finish, your phone reflects it too, quick replies, half typed thoughts, multiple messages instead of one complete one, with siblings or people you grew up around, there’s a competitive tone quick arguments that blow up and disappear just as fast. In your local environment, you move like you’re in a rush even when you’re not short trips feel like missions, not experiences your curiosity isn’t about depth, it’s about immediacy you want the answer now, not later

TAURUS 3RD HOUSE

You process information slowly but thoroughly you don’t speak until you feel grounded in what you’re saying, but once you do, you repeat it, reinforce it, stand by it. Conversations with you have a steady pace, and if someone tries to rush you, you shut down or disengage. You’re phone habits are consistent, you re-read messages, take your time replying, sometimes leave things sitting until you feel like answering properly. With siblings or early environment, patterns repeat same conversations, same dynamics, comfort mixed with stubbornness.Short distance travel is about familiarity, you prefer known routes, known places. Your curiosity leans toward what feels useful, practical, or comforting, not random.

GEMINI THIRD HOUSE

Your mind is constantly moving you process information in layers, picking up multiple things at once, but not always staying on one long enough to fully settle. Conversations with you jump from topic to topic, question to statement, thought to side thought. Your phone reflects it multiple tabs open, switching apps mid thought, replying to three conversations at once. With siblings or early environment, communication is active, constant, sometimes scattered. Short trips happen often, sometimes impulsively, just to change the mental pace, your curiosity is endless, you want to know a little about everything.

CANCER 3RD HOUSE

You process information with your heart first and your mind second it’s not just what was said, it’s how it felt when it was said your communication shifts depending on your mood you can be warm and open one moment, quiet and withdrawn the next your phone reflects your emotional state too you re read messages and sometimes hesitate to reply if something feels off .With siblings or early environment, emotional memory is strong you remember exactly how things felt growing up, not just what happened short trips are tied to comfort, nostalgia, or mood and your curiosity leans toward understanding people and emotional dynamics

LEO 3RD HOUSE

You process information through expression it’s not enough to understand something, you want to say it in a way that’s felt conversations with you become stories and emphasis, tone shifts, you tend to speak through small performance your phone reflects that too longer messages, voice notes, expressive wording. With siblings or early environment, there’s a need to be heard, to stand out, to have your voice acknowledged short distance travel becomes an experience something you make memorable even if it’s simple your curiosity is drawn to things that wow you, inspire you, entertain you, or allow you to express yourself

VIRGO 3RD HOUSE

You process information by breaking it down but by bit it’s a talent actually you process by analyzing, organizing, correcting you notice details other people miss and can’t ignore them conversations with you often include corrections (which I have seen annoy some people lol) clarifications, or refining what was said your phone reflects this edited messages, re-typed responses, attention to wording. With siblings or early environment, there may have been a focus on doing this the right way which carries into how you communicate now.Short trips are planned type a style, efficient, purposeful . Your curiosity leans toward understanding systems, improving things/ figuring out what works and what doesn’t

LIBRA 3RD HOUSE

You guys process information by seeing both sides before you respond kind of strategic in the way that conversations with you are careful, balanced and sometimes delayed because you’re trying to phrase things the right way. Your phone reflects this drafting messages in your head, rewording before sending, sometimes not responding right away because you’re unsure how it’ll land and you don’t want to be disrupting anything or saying it wrong. With siblings or early environment, dynamics revolve around harmony or imbalance short trips are more enjoyable with someone else, rarely alone(although I actually have seen you guys have trips alone and have a blast) your curiosity is centered around people, relationships, and how to keep things smooth.

SCORPIO 3RD HOUSE

You guys are deep, of course processing information beneath the surface you don’t just hear what’s said, you look for what’s hidden conversations with you include pauses, observation/selective responses you don’t ever reveal everything you’re thinking and people feel that. Your phone reflects it you read messages fully, sometimes don’t reply immediately, sometimes leave things unanswered on purpose with siblings or early environment, there may have been unspoken tension, things felt but not said just kept deep inside. Short trips can feel purposeful or intense rather than casual your curiosity is investigative and drawn to what’s hidden ,private/complex

SAGITTARIUS 3RD HOUSE

You process information by the bigger picture, the lesson, the point of it all. Conversations with you expand quickly its one idea turns into a philosophy, an opinion, a belief. Your phone reflects it long messages, random thoughts, sharing things that made you stop and think. With siblings or early environment, there was movement, change, or a sense of freedom in communication . Shirt trips often turn into something more they ended being longer than planned/ more spontaneous your curiosity is about understanding life not just facts you want to know why not just what

CAPRICORN 3RD HOUSE

You process information by filtering what’s useful, what makes sense, what should have actually been said. Conversations with you have pauses, structure, intention you don’t speak just to speak. Your phone reflects this by fewer messages, more direct, no unnecessary wording. With siblings or early environment, communication may have felt more serious, more controlled, less casual. Short trips are practical and goal oriented your curiosity leans toward things that have value, purpose, or long term use you don’t waste mental energy on what feels irrelevant

AQUARIUS 3RD HOUSE

You process information differently than the people around you. You detach from the immediate moment and look at patterns, concepts, bigger systems. Conversations with you can feel unexpected you respond from an angle people didn’t expect. Your phone reflects it by random insights, sending things out of nowhere that connect in your mind. With siblings or early environment, there’s a sense of difference, like you never communicated the same way as everyone else. Short trips can feel unpredictable your curiosity is drawn to ideas/ innovation and things that break the norm

PISCES 3RD HOUSE

You process information through impression things blur together and overlap, possibly drift Conversations with you aren’t always straight and forward, you trail off, shift direction, speak in a way that feels more like expression than explanation and your phone reflects it by unfinished messages, delayed replies, responding based on mood rather than timing. With siblings or early environment, boundaries may have felt unclear, communication more intuitive than direct .Short trips can feel disorienting or not structured. Your curiosity is imaginative, emotional, drawn to what feels meaningful rather than what’s strictly logical.

Lilith represents raw, primal energy in your chart, and depending on where it sits, it can cause you to be sexualized or misunderstood. Below, I’ve shared some thoughts on how this placement manifests in each of the houses, along with personal anecdotes where applicable. Keep in mind, this is just my anecdotal evidence, meant for fun.

♈ Lilith in the 1st House Aries

People with Lilith in the 1st house often have an intense, captivating aura. There's something magnetic and fiery about you that can’t be ignored, and others tend to sexualize or focus on your bold, rebellious nature. This placement often gets you misjudged as wild or "bad" simply for being unapologetically yourself.

When I think about this placement, I always think of Tiger King. His sexuality was constantly discussed, and in a weird way, he became this spectacle because of it. It’s also fitting for someone like Michael Jackson—you often see men with this placement with makeup, eyeliner, or other dramatic visuals to showcase that captivating energy. Even though their sexuality isn’t always overt, people seem to be entranced by it anyway.

You might feel that society is always trying to push you into the "wild" or "sexualized" box based on how you express yourself. People either want to put you on a pedestal or demonize you for being strong, assertive, or rebellious.

You may choose to reject or lean into this image, asserting control over how others perceive you. You could even challenge the societal expectations placed on you and fight to redefine who you are in your own terms.

Cultivate a deep connection with yourself—embrace your true essence unapologetically. Learning to set boundaries and validate yourself can help reduce the impact of others’ projections.

♉ Lilith in the 2nd House Taurus

People with Lilith in the 2nd house often find their physical bodies or material possessions sexualized. There's this feeling that others equate your body to your self-worth. People might also judge you based on how you express yourself physically, interpreting your appearance or possessions as tied to your sexual appeal.

I don’t have many people in my life with this placement, but it’s interesting because some people do view their bodies almost like a possession—almost as if they think their value is solely based on what they look like. In other words, what you own or how you look can often become a reflection of your sexual worth.

You may feel that your worth is constantly tied to your looks or the material things you own. This leads to external pressure and the need to fight back against these surface-level judgments.

You might either put your worth into material things or rebel against them altogether, which is a big internal struggle. At times it might be hard to escape being seen only through the lens of external value.

Reconnect to your intrinsic self-worth—focus on building value from within. Learning to separate your identity from your possessions or body helps you reclaim your true sense of self.

♊ Lilith in the 3rd House Gemini

Lilith in the 3rd house can turn communication into a double-edged sword. This placement tends to sexualize the way you talk—your voice, tone, and speech patterns are often perceived as seductive or inappropriate. I have this placement, and people often react to my words or how I speak in ways that are totally unrelated to my intent. It’s not uncommon for people to want to take normal conversations to uncomfortable places like phone sex or sexting, especially in dating scenarios.

I can personally relate to this. When I worked in call centers, I got told time and time again how "attractive" or "sexy" my voice sounded—and sometimes people tried to take it into inappropriate directions. Even in group settings, I was often told that my speaking style made people uncomfortable, even though I wasn’t trying to be sexual at all. I’m not a sexual person in nature, but people still tried to pull me into these conversations based solely on how I spoke.

You’ll notice that people often try to make conversations about you sexual or flirtatious. That misinterpretation, where every word or gesture becomes something charged, can make your day-to-day life more challenging, especially when you’re just speaking freely. You may also have the feeling that you’re often misunderstood in public settings or school/work environments.

You might find yourself either resisting or rejecting these interpretations of your communication style, maybe becoming more reclusive or adjusting your approach altogether to avoid discomfort. There could also be moments when you want to “own” that sexualized persona simply as a defense mechanism, but it’s not who you are.

Own your voice and set clear boundaries in communication. When people misinterpret your words, use it as an opportunity to clarify your intent. Confidence in your language can shield you from unwanted projections.

♋ Lilith in the 4th House Cancer

With Lilith in the 4th house, family and home environments become a space for projected misunderstandings about who you are. Family members may make inappropriate or uncomfortable comments about your body or behavior growing up. As you age, they might even sexualize or misinterpret the way you interact or express yourself, often seeing you as "too grown for your age" or crossing boundaries that shouldn’t be discussed.

Growing up with Lilith in the 4th house, you might hear off-handed comments from family that make you feel uncomfortable about the normal, healthy process of growing up. Your behaviors or growth could be taken the wrong way, as if people have the right to define what’s "appropriate" for you in terms of sexuality. This projection can last into adulthood when family members still impose unrealistic or discomforting expectations on you.

Family projections around your body or sexual expression can affect your sense of self at the core. You may feel like you’re being misread or that your home environment doesn’t fully support your evolving self-expression.

You might challenge your family’s views of you or assert stronger boundaries within the family dynamic. There may be tension in these interactions, as your natural growth challenges their limiting expectations.

Establish healthy boundaries with your family and assert your identity on your terms. Communicating your real feelings with those closest to you, while setting clear boundaries around your development, will help shift those projections.

♌ Lilith in the 5th House Leo

With Lilith in the 5th house, your creativity, sexuality, and enjoyment of life become intertwined. You’ll notice that people often sexualize your playfulness, creative pursuits, and even your flirtatious nature. What should be considered playful or creative can sometimes be twisted into something too sexual, especially if you are expressive about your individuality.

People may only focus on the "fun" aspects of your personality and forget that there's much more depth to you. Your free-spirited, playful side can easily be interpreted as promiscuous or “overly sexual.” You might feel misunderstood for simply enjoying life or for being unapologetic in expressing your individuality.

You may lean into this sexuality for a while, either to match people’s expectations or as a way to cope with it, but it’s important to find the right balance. Embrace your creative freedom, but also be firm with others when it comes to how you express yourself.

Set strong boundaries around your creative energy and personal expression. Help others understand that your essence is more complex than how they try to sexualize you.

♍ Lilith in the 6th House Virgo

With Lilith in the 6th house, your workplace interactions or your approach to health can often be misunderstood. At work, others might project a certain sexualized image onto you, particularly in professional settings where boundaries should be respected. In my experience, I've witnessed situations where a male friend of mine faced sexual harassment, which they often brushed off to maintain peace. He dealt with frequent inappropriate advances and even physical groping from female coworkers, yet felt pressured to “laugh it off” and keep things lighthearted. He moved his things to another area in the office after. It's clear that a misunderstanding of professional boundaries happens with Lilith in this house.

While I don’t have Lilith in the 6th house myself, I’ve seen it firsthand. I believe that this placement can create discomfort when others try to sexualize your approach to work or health matters. It's hard because these boundaries often get crossed by people who don't take your professional image or seriousness into consideration.

The 6th house is about routine, health, and service, but Lilith here creates tension, with people viewing your work or contributions through a lens of desire rather than respect. Whether it’s at work or in a healthcare setting, feeling sexualized or disrespected in such personal areas can make you uncomfortable.

You might try to keep your distance or react by shutting people down, asserting your boundaries and your right to be respected. Or, you might even go the opposite route and become very vocal about defending your space, making sure others understand where you stand.

Work on strengthening your boundaries, especially when it comes to professional or intimate health matters. Practice keeping your environment focused on your work ethic, not your sexuality. Keep things professional and assertive, refusing to let others cross boundaries.

♎ Lilith in the 7th House Libra

With Lilith in the 7th house, relationships become a central area where you’re misjudged. People might project their sexual desires or desires for control onto your partnerships, reducing them to something physical or superficial rather than emotional. There's an intensity to how people view your relationships—it’s almost like they see them through a lens of desire and don’t always see you for who you truly are.

I’m curious to hear if anyone else with this placement has had similar experiences, but I imagine people might confuse the depth of your relationships for something too sexual or too chaotic. Since the 7th house is all about partnership, whether in romance, business, or even friendships, the idea of Lilith here could make it feel like every relationship becomes a power struggle or is sexually charged.

It can be tough because it feels like your partnerships are seen through projections of sexuality or power dynamics that you didn’t necessarily invite. These projections can make you feel misunderstood in your closest connections.

You might feel compelled to set extremely firm boundaries within your partnerships to avoid these projections. You may even feel the need to prove your worth in relationships beyond what’s expected of you, sometimes overcompensating for others’ misunderstandings.

Let go of others’ sexualized projections in your relationships. Be clear about your emotional needs and how you define intimacy. Surround yourself with people who value your connection beyond the surface level.

♏ Lilith in the 8th House Scorpio

Lilith in the 8th house is all about transformation, power dynamics, and shared resources, especially sexual intimacy. People might find you intensely magnetic and view your sexuality as your most powerful attribute. However, this can also make others see you as a mystery or a source of intrigue. There is a tendency for you to become sexualized, especially when dealing with issues of intimacy, control, or shared power.

The 8th house often deals with taboos, and with Lilith here, it might amplify that in ways where others expect you to use your power over them in intimate relationships or become seen as an object of both desire and obsession. This can also trigger the deep-seated fears in both you and others regarding trust and control in relationships.

You might be underestimated for your emotional depth, with the focus too often put on your sexuality. This can leave you feeling like you are misunderstood at your core, and that people only seek power through intimacy with you.

You may play into this mystique, allowing others to see you as they want to, or you may put up huge walls around your vulnerability, keeping your power closely guarded. Either way, navigating these intense dynamics can create an ongoing challenge to maintain a sense of self.

Work on transforming your personal power in ways that allow you to reclaim your own identity. Practice embracing deep emotional intimacy and power in a way that doesn’t compromise who you truly are at the soul level.

♐ Lilith in the 9th House Sagittarius

Lilith in the 9th house often leads others to sexualize or romanticize your ideas, philosophies, or your travels. Your belief system and personal growth are powerful, but people might be more intrigued by your provocative ideas or the way you expand their boundaries rather than seeing you as an intellectual authority. There’s an undercurrent of attraction, as others tend to focus on your adventurous or boundary-pushing nature.

The 9th house placement gives you a vast sense of expansion, but Lilith here can make your explorations, whether mental or physical, something others overly sexualize. It’s like you’re seen as someone who’s not just about knowledge, but about breaking every boundary—and that becomes sexualized.

You may feel like your desire for intellectual or physical exploration is misunderstood or reduced to something superficial by others. It's frustrating when what you deeply care about is diminished into sexual projections.

You might find it hard to reveal the true depth of your philosophical or adventurous side, feeling boxed into a role others have created for you. You could find yourself over-explaining or pulling back from sharing ideas at all.

Continue to seek intellectual, philosophical, and physical expansion in your life, but focus on doing it in a way that isn't limited by the projections of others. Reclaim your place as an explorer and learner without needing to fit into a mold others make for you.

♑ Lilith in the 10th House Capricorn

With Lilith in the 10th house, your public image, career, and reputation might get sexualized or reduced to how attractive or enticing you are in the public eye. There’s an intense energy that others sense, and some will focus only on the surface level—either deeming you a “sex symbol” or feeling threatened by your power. I have a friend who’s had similar experiences with Lilith here, where her sexuality was too often emphasized—sometimes by her family, others by society—leaving her struggling to find a way to separate herself from this imposed persona. Despite being talented and multifaceted, others often ignore these attributes, reducing her to a sexualized image.

You may feel frustration with the duality between the image people project onto you and who you really are. The constant struggle to have your full professional capabilities seen without your sexuality being the focus can be draining.

To cope, you might overcompensate by embodying this sexualized image more overtly online or offline, or you may go in the opposite direction and try to downplay your looks and focus solely on your work.

Set clear boundaries with your career and public life. Focus on presenting all the facets of yourself and refuse to be confined to only one. Let your true capabilities define you, not the projections others place on your image.

♒ Lilith in the 11th House Aquarius

Lilith in the 11th house means your presence in social groups and communities often comes with a layer of misinterpretation. People might see you as someone who “stirs the pot” in group settings, whether through your attractiveness, rebellious nature, or just by existing outside of the norm. You might be put in a position where your friendships are subtly (or not so subtly) sexualized, either by others assuming romantic or sexual undertones in your platonic relationships or by social circles treating you like an object of intrigue.

From what I’ve observed, this placement can create situations where people feel weirdly possessive over you in group settings. Friends might project their own insecurities onto you, assuming you must be manipulative, seductive, or disruptive just because of how others react to you. There can also be themes of exclusion—perhaps being ostracized or resented for something that isn’t even your fault.

Friendships can feel complicated. Either people try to control you, define you by your sexuality in group dynamics, or make you out to be a “bad influence.” Sometimes it feels like no matter what you do, there’s an energy that people react strongly to, whether positive or negative.

You might distance yourself from social groups to avoid dealing with all of the drama, or you could lean into your rebellious nature and embrace the fact that you shake things up. There can also be a feeling of wanting to prove that you’re more than the assumptions people make about you.

Focus on friendships and community that truly respect you for who you are beyond any projections. Not everyone will misunderstand you, and it’s okay to be selective with who you surround yourself with. Work on reinforcing your boundaries so that you aren’t constantly put in unfair situations.

♓ Lilith in the 12th House Pisces

This is one of the most hidden yet potent Lilith placements. You might not always be overtly sexualized in obvious ways, but there’s a deep, underlying energy that people pick up on. There can be projections placed upon you without you even realizing it, often behind closed doors or in secret conversations. Some may find you irresistibly mysterious or even dangerous without a clear reason why. Your presence lingers in people’s subconscious, sometimes making them uncomfortable.

This placement makes me think of someone who unknowingly impacts others on a psychological level. People might develop secret infatuations or fixate on you in ways that even you don’t fully grasp. It’s like you move through life feeling somewhat unseen, yet somehow, you’re always affecting people on a level beyond your awareness. People may make assumptions about you without real evidence, particularly in environments like hospitals, institutions, or spiritual communities where secrecy or hidden power is involved.

You might struggle with feeling misunderstood in ways that don’t make sense to you. You could go through experiences of being scapegoated, vilified, or treated as if you’re carrying some sort of “forbidden” energy. People may want to project their desires onto you in secret, which can feel invasive or confusing, especially if you don't know where these emotions are coming from.

Some with this placement retreat into isolation, feeling like it’s safer to remain unseen than to deal with others’ projections. Others might unknowingly fall into roles that confirm what people already assume about them, even if it wasn’t their intent. The struggle here is often about untangling other people’s hidden expectations and seeing yourself clearly.

Find ways to ground yourself in your own sense of identity, separate from what others secretly think or expect of you. Therapy, dream journaling, and shadow work can be powerful tools for unraveling hidden fears or subconscious influences in your life. Recognizing when you’re being scapegoated or unfairly projected upon is crucial, and learning to set firm energetic boundaries will protect your peace.

♈︎: needs a "fresh start" button. they need the adrenaline of a new challenge to feel alive. if they’re stagnant, their soul starts to rot.

♉︎: needs tactile comfort. high thread-count sheets, the scent of fresh rain, and a full fridge. they need to know their "nest" is secure.

♊︎: needs mental stimulation. if their curiosity isn't fed, their inner child gets restless. they need someone who actually listens to their brain rot.

♋︎: needs to "belong." whether it’s mothering a pet or being nurtured by a partner, they need a safe harbor to retreat to when the world gets too loud.

♌︎: needs to be "seen." not just noticed, but truly appreciated. a simple "you did so well today" can keep their inner fire burning for a week.

♍︎: needs order within the chaos. they feel most loved when they are being "useful." organizing a messy shelf is their version of therapy.

♎︎: needs aesthetic harmony. ugliness and conflict physically exhaust them. they need a beautiful environment and a partner who mirrors their peace.

♏︎: needs "the truth beneath the truth." surface-level talk feels like a lie to them. they need someone brave enough to sit with them in the dark.

♐︎: needs the "open road." the feeling that they aren't trapped. as long as there’s a new horizon to look forward to, they stay happy.

♑︎: needs respect and self-sufficiency. their soul is fed by "building" something that lasts. they need to feel like they are the masters of their own destiny.

♒︎: needs the freedom to be "weird." they find peace in being the outlier. they need a community that accepts them without trying to fix them.

1st House Gemini

In your early life you likely found that people only noticed you when you spoke up or made some noise. You learned that to be seen as an unique person you had to keep a constant stream of words going. This turned into a habit where your very sense of self is tied to how much you are talking or moving.

Having Gemini here means you might literally talk with your hands or have a very restless, chatty energy that people notice the second you walk into a room. You figure out who you are by talking about yourself.

- try recording voice memos to hear how you sound and figure out your mood

- try physical movement like walking or pacing around while you talk to keep your thoughts going

- change your look frequently to match the different "versions" of yourself you discover through speech

2nd House Gemini

You probably grew up in a house where the value of things was constantly debated or talked about. Maybe you had to ask for everything you needed or justify why you wanted a certain item. Now, you don't feel like you "own" something or understand its worth until you’ve verbalized its logic.

You may need to talk through your budget or write out your financial plans to actually understand your own values. You might even make money through "Gemini" things like writing, teaching, or odd jobs.

- narrate your spending out loud to realize if a purchase is actually a good idea for you

- read fine print and instructions aloud to make sure you actually understand what you own

- teach a skill you have to someone else to prove to yourself that it has value

3rd House Gemini

This often comes from having siblings or neighbors who were very loud or competitive with info they had. To keep up you had to become a fast talker and a quick thinker in situations. Your brain was trained early to treat your immediate surroundings like a giant chat room where silence meant being left behind.

Since Gemini naturally rules this house, it’s like a double dose of communication here. You probably process information from your immediate/local/daily environment by constantly narrating what’s happening or chatting with neighbors and relatives.

- have short, frequent chats with people nearby to keep your brain from getting too bored

- write quick notes or lists on physical paper to dump the "extra" thoughts out of your head

- change your environment by going for a drive or walk when you feel stuck on a problem

4th House Gemini

Your home life might have felt restless or was filled with a lot of coming and going. Communication was likely the only thing that stayed consistent there, or perhaps your parents processed their own stress by talking at you. You learned to use words as a way to create a "home" for your thoughts because your physical space felt too busy to process them well.

You might have a very talkative household or feel the need to "vocalize" your feelings about your upbringing to understand them. Your ability to think happens best when you’re at home or talking to people you consider your family/kin.

- talk to yourself while cleaning to process your private feelings

- keep a "brain dump" journal that stays at home and is never shown to anyone else

- have mofe phone calls with people who knew you as a kid to help you remember your roots

5th House Gemini

As a kid you were likely praised for being clever, funny, or "good with words”. You learned that playing meant talking or playing games that involved language/wordplay. Because your early idea of fun was linked to mental stimulation, you now feel that if you aren't talking or debating, you aren't actually enjoying yourself.

You might express your creative side through writing or word games best. When you're dating or playing, you probably do a lot of talking to figure out if you're actually having a good time or not.

- play word games or puzzles to relax and let your mind wander

- “dating" via conversation; focus on partners who can keep up with a fast-paced debate

- explain your hobbies to others as a way to find more joy in them

6th House Gemini

You might have had chores or daily routines that were confusing or changed all the time. To get things right you had to keep asking questions or narrating your actions to avoid making mistakes.

You likely need to talk through your "to-do" list to get anything done. If you're feeling sick or stressed, writing down your symptoms or talking to coworkers might be the only way you realize what’s actually bothering you.

- talk through your schedule at the start of every day to lower your anxiety

- verbalize your symptoms to a friend or doctor to realize exactly where you feel unwell, can be harder otherwise

- dictate emails or texts using voice-to-text to stay productive without overthinking your tasks

7th House Gemini

In your early relationships (like with a best friend or a close peer) you found that you only understood your own feelings when you were mirroring someone else’s conversation. You relied on that "other person" to be a sounding board, so you never learned how to think your thoughts in total isolation.

You need a partner/close person who will listen to you talk until you find your own point in the matter. You often don't know how you feel about a person until you’ve said it out loud to them (or about them).

- have a "vent buddy" who lets you talk until you reach your own conclusion about things

- negotiating out loud rather than through text to catch the complexities of what you actually want

- mirroring, hearing someone repeat your own words back to you to see if you still agree with them

8th House Gemini

You may have grown up around secrets or "adult" topics that were whispered about. You learned that the only way to get to the bottom of a mystery or a scary situation was to keep talking until the truth slipped out somehow. Now you use conversation as a tool to dig into things that make other people uncomfortable.

You might find yourself talking about things that others find too taboo. Speaking about your fears or your debts is how you clear the air and figure out what’s hidden in your own head.

- talk about money and debt openly with someone you trust to remove the "scary" power those topics have

- research "taboo" and then explain them to someone else to make sense of them

- journal about your fears specifically to see the logic (or lack of logic) in them

9th House Gemini

Early experiences with school, church, or travels taught you that the world is huge and confusing. You found that the only way to not feel lost was to argue about big ideas or ask "why" constantly. You developed a habit of using talking to map out the world so you wouldn't feel small.

You think through big life questions by debating them or writing long essays. You need to talk to people from different cultures or backgrounds to clarify what you actually believe about the world.

- debate worldviews or big ideas with people who have different backgrounds than you

- explain what you’ve learned in a book or documentary to someone else to make it "stick” with you

- plan trips out loud, focusing on the logistics and the "why" of the journey

10th House Gemini

You likely watched your parents or authority figures use their words to gain advantage or maintain their public status. You saw that being "smart" or "articulate" was how you got respect. This shaped you to believe that your public reputation is built entirely on what you say and how fast you say it.

You might be known as the "talker" or the "writer" in your professional life. To understand your career goals, you probably need to have a lot of meetings or "vent" about your boss to realize what your next move should be.

- talk thru your career moves with a mentor or peer before making a choice

- practice speeches or presentations out loud to find the holes in your professional logic

- ask for direct feedback at work so you can "think" about your progress through their words

11th House Gemini

You were probably part of groups or clubs early in life where you had to "pitch" your ideas to fit in. You learned that to be part of the crowd you had to be the one sharing information or gossip. Your goals and dreams became tied to what the group was talking about at any given time.

You gain clarity about your hopes for the future by chatting with people in your social network/circle. Sometimes you might say something in a group chat that surprises even you, revealing a goal or an opinion you didn't know you had beforehand.

- join group discussions where you can throw out ideas and see which ones people react to

- social media or group chats where you can post thoughts and refine them based on the replies you get

- brainstorming sessions with friends to figure out what your personal goals should be

12th House Gemini

As a child, you might have felt that your private thoughts weren't safe to say out loud, or you spent a lot of time alone. You started talking to yourself or writing things down in private just to process your world. This created a pattern where your deepest truths only come out when you think no one is really listening to you.

You might talk to yourself a lot or find that your best ideas come out when you’re journaling in private. Because this house is "hidden," you might frequently say things "on accident" that reveal secrets you were keeping from yourself.

- talk to yourself in a mirror or in a shower, where your unobserved

- try automatic writing, letting your hand move without thinking to see what your subconscious says

-Virgo moons and bottling up their emotions until they can’t anymore

-Libra placements and their obsession with perfumes, lotions, candles and anything that has to do with scents

-Aries placements and getting mad in a second and then cooling down on the next one

-Gemini placements and trolling until they can’t, acting like a child when they eat too much candy

-Capricorn moon and pretending like emotions don’t exist and then breaking down on a random night

-Virgo moons and not knowing how to express their feelings and refusing to be vulnerable

-Scorpio placements and being so naturally attractive/magentic, the flame to a moth

-Cancer placements and their delicacy

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Astro Observations 1

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I noticed Cancer men are great cookers (the ones I know). Cooking and the kitchen is a common theme associated with Cancer and the 4th house in general.

Women with Scorpio placements can often be polarizing figures. I think their Plutonian nature can make them have controversial opinions and magnetic auras. They can be loved or hated. For example, Nicki Minaj has a Scorpio MC, Saturn, and Jupiter. Gabrielle Union has a Scorpio Sun and Mercury.

Pisces men tend to be more in touch with their feminine side, than any other water sign man.

Generational placements (Neptune, Pluto, and Uranus) in the 4th house can have some of most traumatic or peculiar home lives and family experiences.

12th House sun people often are highly-creative people. They are some of the best dancers, artists, singers, and poets. However, their own shyness or self-doubt can lead me to never let themselves shine properly.

8th house placements may find themselves over sexualized or exploited sometimes.

Scorpio placements may be drawn to relationships with a hint of toxicity or drama. I have noticed that they really desire intense passion in their love lives though.

I often see sister signs can take on each other’s traits or characteristics sometimes. For example, most of the Pisces placements I know are extremely hard-working and intelligent like Virgos. All Virgo placements (especially Virgo Venus) are creative in some shape or form like Pisces.

The most zodiac signs I see openly disliked are Gemini, Virgo, Scorpio, and Sagittarius.

The most zodiac signs I see openly loved are Leo, Aries, Taurus, and Libra.

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